I am Toni, with an eye, just the one and I've recently been diagnosed with cancer for the 3rd time time, this time its likely to be incurable so I am making preparations to die at age 30. Ask Me Anything
I was first diagnosed with adenocarcinoma of the tear gland in 2016 and my right eye was removed, I recovered well but in 2018 it relapsed locally and I had further surgery and radiotherapy. I then recovered again and believed I was clear for a second time, however this year I have been told its metastasized to my lungs, the layer of fat under my skin, bones around my ribs and spine, liver and, after several seizures this month, I have been told its in also in my brain in several areas. It has spread so fast and so far it is unlikely to be possible for anything to work in the way of a treatment however I am having chemo in an attempt to hold it off. Coronavirus had stopped the opportunity for me to get access to a trial so I am just holding onto what I can control. I am grateful for the opportunity to prepare as many people do not get this especially at a young age and I am making the most of what time I have left, sending gifts to friends and family, taking plenty of photos for the children and ensuring they have plenty to remember me by. I am posting this again as I didn't post my proof well enough the first time around, I am sharing my Instagram page with you all as proof but I have also posted on Instagram mentioning this AMA so hopefully this time, this will post OK.
EDIT: I JUST WANT TO THANK EVERYONE FOR YOUR SUPPORT, QUESTIONS AND ADVICE, I THINK I'VE ABOUT CAUGHT UP BUT I'M SORRY IF I'VE MISSED ANYTHING. I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH ATTENTION THIS POST HAS RECEIVED. THE DONATIONS FOR MY FUNDRAISER HAVE BEEN INCREDIBLE TOO AND I'M INCREDIBLY GRATEFUL FOR THEM, I NEVER EXPECTED SUCH AN OVERWHELMING RESPONSE, IT'S BEEN AMAZING, THANK YOU ALL!