Asian female dating coach who helps good guys find dates, AMA!
I’m the dating coach at Goodgentleman.com — MMFT, Tedx Speaker, previous eHarmony lead.
UPDATE (3:14pm pst): I'm signing off now, all! It's been a fun 6-7 hours and I'll hop back on here & there to answer some questions when I can. I didn't expect SO many comments so I'm sorry for not getting back to most of you, my hands could only type so fast haha (how do people do this by themselves?) -- until next time! You can follow me on FB if you'd like, I go on "live" for my group to answer questions there. I'm grateful for this fun opportunity -- have a great weekend!
I help the good-intentioned gentleman get on a date through a customized strategy that doesn't require them to change who they are. My popular nickname is the Modern Day (female) Hitch!
I knew my passion since high school and wanted a career in the dating/relationship field. Despite my Asian parents wishes, I followed my passion anyway.
I worked for the matchmaking firm It’s Just Lunch and was the lead matchmaker, trainer, & Coach at eHarmony ’s eH+. I earned a Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from USC and a Bachelors degree in Social Work from SDSU. I worked in mental health with couples, realizing many of the couples should not have been together in the first place. So, I decided to make it a goal to help singles find the right person for them.
I use my extensive experience from previous matchmaking firms with a combination of training in marital counseling to provide my clients the best and most effective strategies in finding and keeping long-lasting love. With my positive energy, straight-forward (sorry, no sugar coating) approach, hope, and passion, I value the collaboration with my clients and am always excited to guide my clients on the journey to find lasting love and happiness.
i've had many clients and friends telling me I should do an AMA for years, so here I am! Let's do this :)
Ask me anything about dating, relationships, traditional Asian upbringing (haha)!
My Website (with free ebook): http://goodgentleman.com
my Tedx Talk on "Getting the Right Date": https://youtu.be/4PGoy-spWiA
My Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/rubyloveadvice
if you want to see what I do & work with a client, I was featured in the episode of Tiny Empires, which features yours truly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARVnO2LbJlQ&feature=youtu.be
Working at eHarmony, here I am with the CEO you’ve seen on your commercials: https://goodgentleman.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/RubyWarren-240x300.jpg
I was selected as the USC Rossier Student Commencement speaker after earning my MMFT: https://rossier.usc.edu/ruby-le-mft-14-set-as-commencement-student-speaker/
Featured on USA Network VDay interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQ7Y5T9v8KQ&list=PLMj-u6GF6zSxQo3NyDygSus2nV7wHwl02
Client video testimonials: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwRRFVlmJNg&list=PLMj-u6GF6zSwX2jqQAGpNvpK11PTLCx_t&index=4
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/GoodGentlemanAdvice/