RubyLove884602 karma2019-09-28 16:32:50 UTC
An extreme lack of confidence along with mindset (internal struggles, barriers, self-doubt, self-sabotaging, overthinking, etc)
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RubyLove884085 karma2019-09-28 16:58:19 UTC
Small random little habits. From leaving cabinets doors open, taking too long of naps, forgetting to send a "good morning" text
It's small habits or action that can mean a lot to another person -- but the partner doesn't know. And it somehow leads to a bigger argument about other topics.
People, after, think "are we crazy?" but it's quite normal to find yourself in a huge fight starting from something so small
RubyLove883909 karma2019-09-28 17:21:08 UTC
I used to say "opposite attract....then attack" haha
If two people are completely opposite, it's their high attraction towards each other that keeps them together, but I do not hear as much easy harmony happening. It's not typically an easy road.
Definitely, a high chance of success is when couples share similar beliefs, values, and lifestyle.
The top qualities that makes a couple long-lasting? Adaptability and Understanding.
RubyLove882471 karma2019-09-28 16:44:27 UTC
Honestly, they don't like it and will find any opportunity to slide in "soo....you should get a real job" haha
It's a topic that isn't brought up. It's mostly my parents and elders. The younger generation of my family, of course, are extremely supportive.
RubyLove881813 karma2019-09-28 16:36:30 UTC
I totally understand this question, it's like when people say "just be confident!" -- it can feel vague. It DOES have an underlying important message for dating success though. And that is being your authentic self. Being your full, unapologetic, strengths-and-all, self. Allowing yourself to have fun, stating your opinions, not being scared to challenge the other person. Authenticity is when you don't seek approval from others and you accept yourself....fully. When you're able to do that, the right dates will come, while repelling those who aren't right. And, you have fun in the process because you're being yourself. I hope that helps! :)
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