Senepicmar

M43, became suddenly single 6 months ago when I discovered my wife of 22 years was having an affair. Almost ready to start dating, but here's what I'm wondering: My looks are ok (a 7 on a good day, we'll say) but I look great on paper: 6'4", very fit, very successfully self employed, no debt, love kids, volunteer firefighter, general nice guy. Should I be throwing all my good points like this in a dating profile, or should I put minimal info on there and let potential dates who are curious get the details out of me later?

"accidentally"

You went down that rabbit hole, don't be shocked to find a rabbit...

Ya, your last line nails it. And don't worry, I wouldn't actually put the 'nice guy' thing in a profile, it was just to round out my question. Just not sure how to promote myself without it all sounding like some humble brag

Wow. I really needed to hear that. That might be the most amazing thing anyone has said to me in a loooong time! Thanks