I’m a sex worker (escort, with experience all over the industry), currently out of work due to the pandemic but happy to answer questions. I’ve done one of these before but couldn’t get to all the questions, and I’ve all the time in the world now!
As a follow up, what, in your opinion, seems to be the percentage of clients who just want company/cuddling/non-sexual activites?
For me, 0.01%. Like most clients want that stuff as well as the sex, but not instead of
What’s the weirdest thing a client has requested?
To go to his little sisters birthday party with him.
Seriously? That must’ve been hella awkward
I declined, but it was sweet of him lol. I did accidentally meet one of my regulars Mum one time when I was at his house and she popped in for a visit, though
I bet he had a rough time explaining that lol
It was actually fine, he had just recently told her that he sees an escort so she might have suspected, but I just introduced myself as his friend (true) and was just hanging out with him and his dog so no big deal either way I think. He still wanted to hide under his bed I think though 😂
Lol, she’s a great mom though, being understanding of her son getting an escort and all. I never knew escorts became friends with some of their clients though, which is actually pretty cool
Yeah she sounds lovely, and he’s very strong and independent and I imagine didn’t give her the opportunity to make a big deal about it.
I’m not sure how common it is but yeah I’ve got a couple of clients I’d consider friends
What was your rate?
400-550 an hour, depending
What’s the minimum? I imagine it’s like a appliance repair person where you have to pay $85 to get them to show up.
Normally I do 15 minutes as my minimum
I'm curious, what can be accomplished in 15 minutes? Like actual full sex acts?
Yep, it’s usually just a simple straight to it sex thing
What do you do with the other 13 minutes?
You joke but in a 15 minute the sex usually only lasts that long, if that. The other 13 is arrival/chatting/leaving
You’re really willing to get dolled up, travel, and the actual work for $100-150?
I wouldn’t travel for a short booking no, 95% of my work is them coming to me, and when I’m Taking bookings I’m ready all day so it’s not really much extra work other than doing the actual booking. Also I charge $200 for a 15 minute, but I do do cheaper quickies for regulars sometimes.
Also, $100-150 is a lot of money for some people, especially for 15 minutes work, there are plenty of workers who charge that for much more time and that works for them, there’s no shame in it
How much do you earn for a day of work after getting dressed and traveling etc?
Varies greatly depending on how many bookings I get, I’ve made $0 in a day and I’ve made 4 grand in a day before
How does one find a decent escort, as a woman (no gender preference)? I’m in a sex worker friendly place, but it’s not legal for sex acts with mutual touching for money.
Start on google (escorts [your area]) and see what sort of directories come up. I cant help as it’s different all over the world, but sometimes there are reviews on the directories. Read the ads, maybe go for somebody who has a social media presence if that would make you feel kore secure? It’s hard for me to give advice on, I get super overwhelmed when I have tried to figure out who to book and I know half of them
Nope, I use lube. It can get sore if I haven’t worked for ages and then have a super busy day, but I don’t think not being attracted to them is a factor.
Not really, were I not a sex worker I might have sex with more men in my personal life, but that’s not really a factor at the moment as I have a girlfriend
How has the pandemic affected your business and your industry as a whole?
How have you adapted and what do you see others in your industry doing?
I was very lucky to get in one last lucrative trip (I mostly work on trips interstate) before they shut down travel and nonessential business. Now, personally, because I can’t travel and I don’t have a base of regular clients in my home city, my income wouldn’t be viable even if I tried to work, which I haven’t been in the interests of social distancing. As of a couple of days ago, engaging in sex work is punishable where I live due to lockdown rules.
Some folks who don’t have a choice are still working, and there is still a demand for it, though reduced and the clients are taking a lot of liberties (they always get more entitled as a group when we are more vulnerable). Most are trying not to work, trying to get on to the government relief programs or relying on savings. This presents a lot of issues for workers who are not able to be ‘out’ or afford an accountant, or folks who are not Australian citizens.
Those who are able to and have the means to work online are hustling on cam sites, onlyfans, custom content creation, Skype sessions etc. but for the most part we are in the same position most sole traders/arts sector people are in.
Are those sugar daddy arrangements the ideal buisness? Do you get paid to stay with a rich fella and be flaunted and doted upon?
Nah I absolutely hated it. Those guys are sooo much more pushy and entitled than escort clients, they want so much of you for free and are usually just the worst kind of dudes. Not suited to my personality at all. Some people luck out with it, but it was always a slog for me.
I mean, it's not really free if it's a Sugar Daddy scenario is it? The dude knows he basically has your attention on lease.
Compared to what one would make escorting and giving them much less of your time, energy and security, it’s definitely working for free. Most guys on SD websites are looking for somebody to use for sex (usually unprotected) for far less than they would pay an escort
Right i had this kind of pretty woman scenario in my head where you get all kinds of things bought for you and lavish restaurants etc. Instead it sounds like repeated sex with the same bloke and you can't go home inbetween
I don’t think many SD situations are like, live in girlfriend situations, thats definitely not what I have experience in
I thought SD pricing would be way higher than regular escort work? If not, then why would anyone get into the SD business?
Is it ok if I chime in? I'm not the OP but have escorted and been in sugar relationships, most of whoch were arranged through website services. Over a number of years I observed that sugar daddies will always fill their profiles with intentions of spoiling a special someone, taking us on vacations, building a deep relationship or mentorship... etc. In reality, of the dozens I have spoken to more personally, what every one of them has been looking for is a much younger, loyal, discrete, unprotected, personal escort who will be on call for them, for sex only, in exchange for much less than what you can make escorting. No dinners, no showing you off (since they are often married) Add to that, the fact that as an escort you can see several clients per day or week... once I joined an escort agency I never went back to sugaring.
Thanks for chiming in with that and putting that so much more eloquently than I could!
Some people are just better suited to that than escorting. They might not have it be their primary income and want more anonymity, to not have to see lots of clients etc.
How guarded are you with revealing your profession to acquaintances? How do you perform sexual acts when you are really unattracted to someone or they are physically repulsive in some way?
Not at all guarded, I’m lucky in that I can be totally out about it. I only lie about it when it’s somebody I’ll never see again and I can’t be bothered having that conversation.
I use lube!
Just curious...why did you get into this field? I'm always curious to know that and which did you prefer? Ie best money, best experience, just fun...
I was raised with no shame around sexuality and a bit of an underdog complex so the sex industry fit me perfectly, lol. I thought stripping sounded cool, so when I moved to the city and had to get a job a strip club was the first place I tried, and the rest is history
When and how did you begin expressing yourself as a sexual person?
I became sexually active when I was 14 with a partner of a couple of years and was very taken with it, lol. I was with that guy for another year or so and then moved to the city where I expressed myself as a sexual person extensively
how old was that partner?
How did you learn to strip? Did you have prior experience in dance that helped with the physical parts, or did you basically learn on the job?
Trial by fire. No dance experience, still dance like a white dad. IMHO not much of stripping resembles dancing anyway. I learned by watching the other girls mostly
What’s the process between being initially approached for services by someone new and then the first meet with that person like? Such as... do you require pictures of the person beforehand? Arrangements for payment? If you travel to them, do you let a friend know where you’re going to be or leave any kind of bread trail behind just incase something goes wrong?
Also, have you ever been “catfished” by a client or later stiffed (financially speaking in this case) by a client?
The way I work is I have a work phone number and we text or call about the booking, setting up logistics and whatnot, then they arrive at my apartment. They bring me cash mostly. I don’t require pictures or anything, unless I would be going to their place but I almost never do that. Much prefer to work from my own space.
I’ve had lots of clients make fake bookings and not show up, it’s very common unfortunately. I take cash when they get there so they don’t have an opportunity to stiff me financially other than not turning up
Have you ever had any instances of clients becoming stalkers or creeps? It seems like a risky move to have them come to your actual apartment but I totally understand wanting to be in your own space.
They don’t come to my actual apartment unless they’re friends, I book apartments to work from.
Luckily no not yet, it helps mostly working interstate
How do you ensure your physical safety?
Privilege in that I can work from secure apartments, don’t work late at night or see wasted clients, and am able to price myself into the middle of the road... None of that ensures it but it means I almost never have any trouble, which is unfortunately not the case for less privileged workers
What are your opinions on criminalization, decriminalization and legalization of sex work?
In order to minimise harm to consensual sex workers, survival workers and trafficked people alike, it should be universally decriminalised
I agree but then wouldn't your price plummet from 500 an hour to like 50. How much do you have to make to make it worthwhile to sleep with strangers?
It’s legal where I live and I can still charge the former.
Basically I'm a previous user of sex workers and I have a unique situation.
Basically I lost my penis due to Cancer and saw a SW a couple of times to help me get off and it was really unique and she's an amazing person.
My question is how challenging would that be as a sex worker to work with someone like me? And would there be anything better/worse than your usual encounters?
Not every SW is going to be comfortable with navigating that, but there are plenty who are! As long as you’re upfront about it in the booking process I wouldn’t worry. I’m not sure how challenging your situation is or what the booking would entail but personally I’d enjoy the experience for how unique it is I think
What does your retirement plan look like for working in that industry?
I’ve no desire to quit the sex industry any time soon, but I’m a perpetual studier and like doing different things so I’ve got some qualifications and will likely have more in future for other industries if I want to supplement/change industries. I was about to get a side job as a cook right when pandemic hit!
Did you have to go through a number of 'crap' years in your industry before you could get to where you wanted to be? If so, could you detail, eg. How long was the period, what were the circumstances that made it bad, what is the "sweet spot" in terms of career, etc.
Not really! You can pretty much get in at the same level as everyone else, barring being somebody with an established brand (which means more exposure and/or higher end work) but it does take some time to settle into it and figure out what mode of working works best for you. I’ve worked in lots of different settings but none of them were strictly necessary to “progress” in the industry. I benefited from working my way up to full service but it could be done that somebody jumps straight from nothing to escorting
Before starting out, did you conduct research into your potential work (and if so, what kind and how much)?
Did the demands of the job meet your expectations? Or was it easier / more difficult?
What was the most surprising thing you learned on the job?
Have you gained any skills you feel would translate well into other industries / job paths? Or anything that has improved your personal life?
Yeah, there was a super active stripper community on tumblr back then with lots of industry advice on it, and some forums of the same than I trawled for months before starting. I was the first of my friends to get into the industry so that’s all I had available, but it was heaps.
I don’t really remember what I expected, but I haven’t really been surprised by much of the day to day of it.
I think the most surprising thing I learned has been about how men feel about women’s bodies and the variance/imperfections in them. It’s honestly been great to learn how there’s always somebody into whatever you hate about your body. Sure, that doesn’t fix the problems conventional beauty standards cause, but on an individual level it’s powerful if you get to experience that. Again, speaking from a lot of privilege here being white/able bodied/cis but thats my experience.
Conflict management skills, admin and bookkeeping skills, massage, making people think you like them...
How difficult is it for you to have a serious romantic relationship (if you even want one)?
Not difficult at all for me, I live in an area/socialise in a community that’s pretty progressive and queer so sex work hasn’t proved a big deal in my dating pool. Even when I was dating straight men I found partners who it worked for. I’m super into being in love so I make it a priority, always
He asked about serious relationships, are you talking about long terms or just dating? Because you said dating. This was actually my question too
I would use the term dating for long term relationships too, just semantics. The duration of the relationships I’ve been in while working are 4 years, 1 year, 2 years and have been with my current partner 4 months so far. I’m not super into dating without the intention of it becoming a long term thing, so yeah
Cool, I was curious because I had a friend who was an escort and said dating was difficult. Could have been her ahem drug addictions.
Some people find it very difficult, I think it’s generally much harder for straight women but it depends on the sort of people you want to date. Like, if I wasn’t a sex worker I still probably wouldn’t end up dating anybody who couldn’t date a sex worker so it hasn’t affected my market at all if that makes sense
You stated “when you we’re dating g straight men.” I don’t know how to phrase this well, but I guess do you feel that your work plays a role in why you are not now dating straight men? How is it still having sex with straight men if that isn’t really your thing?
Work probably plays a bit of a role, but the biggest factor was probably that I started dating women and realised what I’d been missing out on. I’m still into men a bit.
I’m not having sex at work for my enjoyment so my sexuality plays zero role in it, tbh
I see that you do erotic massage. My fiance lovessssss erotic massage. How would I learn to do this? Do you have any resources?
I think it's called nuru massage? Nubu? I don't know.
Nuru is one kind, but it’s just a style.
There’s lots of porn of erotic massage, and I would imagine if you googled it there would be guides, have you had a look?
But honestly if your partner loves it just ask them to tell/show you what they like and do that
I have several questions.
- Is kissing allowed?
- Have you ever had any virgin clients? What is it like?
- How do you keep yourself safe from men who may be dangerous?
For me kissing is a part of my service, yep!
I have had virgin clients, they’re usually just super nervous.
Don’t work late at night, don’t go to their houses, ‘middle class’ pricing, I don’t get my much trouble tbh
Are you not worried about clients knowing where you live? I'd be scared of a stalker.
I only work from home with clients I’ve known for years
I read some of the questions here and now I'm confused, are you male or in a lesbian relationship?
Do you have any female clients as well?
No, I like to keep that personal for myself
What in your opinion can the client do that makes it better for you?
Know what he wants, be clear about that, slam it out, have a good conversation. My #1 peeve at work is when they drag out the sex/foreplay under the guise of making ME feel good. If you wanna do that for you, sure. But don’t do it for me.
What color is your toothbrush?
Orange, because my gf when presented with options told me she’d rather die than use an orange toothbrush 🙄
What's the biggest "tip" you've ever received?
Have you ever seen any celebrities come in? And also, how do you ladies (co-workers) determine who gets to take care of them?
A little OT but what do you think about "gay for pay" (I guess for both genders)? Specifically for a guy, can they actually "get hard" for a male when they like woman? As a gay man myself, I could never get hard from a woman, but I thought the whole gay for pay very interesting because I feel like eventually, you do become "bisexual", no longer "gay for pay".
About $400 I think! An extra hours booking fee at the end, that was nice.
I don’t think I’ve seen any celebrities, I feel like they go for escort agencies, which I’ve never worked for. Clients pick the worker, not the other way around, so it wouldn’t be up to us.
Tbh most of the workers I know are straight for pay women so it’s super common, I don’t actually know any gay for pay male escorts. I do know a lot of trans women who are straight for pay though, and it’s a bit different for them for complex reasons but I’ve known them to only offer bottoming services if they’re unable to get hard, or sometimes take viagra. Some people are also just got at retreating into their own head and making it work no matter what’s going on with the other person.
I disagree vehemently that you adapt to that sexuality if you do sex work with that gender for long enough, as in my and others experience it stays the same or goes the other way (bi women phasing out dating men in their personal life etc.)
How much concern/caution is given to STDs/STIs? Do you see that a lot, or is everyone pretty clean?
Depends on the person and the setting they work in but in general folks are pretty careful. When I work at the brothel I’ll see clients come in with obvious STI’s maybe once every couple of shifts, and I doubt many clients get tested, but for the workers our sexual health is our livelihood, y’know?
So when you see that, do you turn them away? Use protection? And you don't strike me as a person who enjoys and cares about their work enough to not look out for what makes you money ;)
Also matching archer reference usernames!
I turn them away or offer a handjob only service, depending.
I’m confused about your second comment, what do you mean?
Just responding to your comment about looking out for your sexual health because it's how you make a living. Intended to be complimentary.
Okey doke! I mean I enjoy and care about my work in a way that makes me want to do it in a sustainable way, but I also just like don’t want to get cum in me haha
How long after/before/if you graduated high school did you get into this and how?
About a year after, at the end of my first year of uni. It was the first time I needed a job, I was living on student welfare until then
What would you say to a young girl who was thinking of becoming a sex worker? You sound like you have a good grip on your profession and it's working out for you, but not everyone will find it a positive experience. The world is a scary place and there are a lot of people who disrespect or who would do harm out there.
I give them that exact disclaimer, that it’s not a good industry for everyone and for some it’s very difficult or damaging. Some people have considered this, some have been fed the easy money just lay back and open your legs rhetoric so they haven’t considered that it can be hard. I try and talk them through this and get an idea of their personality and relationship to sexuality, and if they’re keen I support them in getting a shift at a brothel to see how it goes for them
How common are requests for you to give over the knee spankings ?
Pretty rare, as I don’t do domination services
how much do you make per year?
Its fluctuated a lot every year I’ve worked
What has been the most repulsive, unattractive thing a client has asked for/done? And did you end up doing it?
Wanted me to take used condoms from other clients out of the bin for him to play with. I did not.
Do you think your work makes a difference in this world?
Spiritually, what have you gained, what have you lost?
Good question. I’d say it makes a bit of a difference, not so much for the clients who use it very much as a luxury service, but for the ones who are very lonely and lacking intimacy in their lives I know for a fact that sex workers have been a significant positive influence.
I don’t really relate to spirituality as a concept so I can’t answer that
How often do you get guys with no sexual experience and what's it like in terms of how it's for them and for you? Also what's the average age and common traits/background of guys like that?
Also, nice username
Often enough. It’s not really a big deal, they’re just super nervous and require more guidance but otherwise not that different to any other booking.
Maybe 30’s/40’s, I personally see a lot of tradies, and in IT, all backgrounds but most commonly Australian or Indian
Interesting, I didn't expect 30s and 40s, I was thinking late 20s or early 30s.
Australians? Like, white Australians?
I mean all ages come through.
I meant people of all backgrounds who were born here by Australians, so not just white folk
Only a little bit, mostly back when I was stripping. It’s a rare exception to me not doing domination services because I find it super fun, doesn’t do anything for me sexually though
Ever been hired by someone famous?
Edit: Not looking for you to name names, just interested if it happens and how often.
Not to my knowledge!
How do you generally meet your clients?
I advertise online and they contact me
I was wondering, do you ever turn anybody down upon arrival of your meet because you find them physically uncomfortably unattractive or they give you weird vibes? Or do you just go for it anyways
Nope, I’m not doing it so I can get off. I turn them down if they have a visible STI, are super intoxicated, or are being rude or abusive
You know that question in tax pack about personal services? Is that the ATO’s way of talking about sex?
There is a whole section for adult services!
One small business operator to another, keep up the good work and look after yourself
If you meet someone who books for an hour and is done in 15 mins. Can he get another round once he’s ready and within the hour? Or doors only open once?
Yep, they book an amount of time not an amount of orgasms. Often the rest is talking though
Did you have nerves on your first call?
Absolutely! I worked my way up gradually in the industry, so by the time I went on my first private escorting booking I’d already been doing full service work in brothels, and before that working in strip clubs etc. so it wasn’t going straight into that blind, but yep still nervous as hell! It was fine though, all of my first clients in new settings have been older guys who are like, professional punters and like taking new girls under their wing, so to speak
What is your education background, and what do you intend to do after you quit this? Assuming you would, eventually.
I studied health science, physiotherapy and commercial cookery so far. It’s not an immediate concern, but I have lots of things I could get into
What are your plans for retirement? What do you plan on doing for income at 40+
Continue making money from sex work like all the other 40+ sex workers I know, investments, working in another industry
How much do you actually have to try during sex? Can you just lay there?
Not if you want them to come and see you again. Have you ever had good sex? It’s like that
Have you ever encountered customers with a foot fetish?
Rarely because they text us a lot but never book, they just want pictures of your feet 🙄
Would you become a wealthy persons mistress?
I’m probably several wealthy persons mistress lol
How do I find a person such as yourself in my area?
Google ‘escorts [your area]’
Yeah that's just a rabbit hole of scam sites and trojans.
Is that how your clients normally find you...?
Yeah, there are a few big Australian directories that I advertise on. It’s harder if you’re in somewhere where sex work isn’t legal. But some of the highest traffic directories often look like absolute trash, maybe look at a bunch of them and see if you can find people advertising on multiple platforms? Or escorts personal websites?
I think Backpage is the only site in my area that isn't a scam, but, yes, sex work is illegal here.
Use backpage then, though I don’t know what it’s like now as it’s obviously run by different people than the original backpage was. I’ll ask around and see if there’s another place US based SW advertise but the thing about it being illegal and losing our relatable platforms is that it’s gonna be hard to find a nice directory
I know there are sites in my area that do it. A friend of an ex-girlfriend was an escort in our area, but I respected both of them too much to ask how she found clients and now I have no idea how to get in touch with her.
Response from a colleague:
Slixa, Eros (btw- it's absolutely corrupt and unethical) and Tryst are the sites I'm aware of
Interesting, thanks for the info. Can you tell me what's corrupt about Eros?
I’m sure lots of other reasons, the one I know of is they collaborate with law enforcement to harm sex workers within and entering the US, massive security breaches...
You said in another post you travel interstate for your business predominantly. Is that to attend business conferences and sports events? If that’s the case; which have you been to for business?
- Super Bowl
- World Series
- NBA Playoffs
- World Cup
- Republican National Convention
- Democratic National Convention
- Any las Vegas technical conventions (CEA, Interop, AVian)
- Fleet week; NYC
- Bike week Daytona
- Bike Week ; North Dakota
- Spring Break anywhere
If you have attended; which was the most profitable? On a side note, have you ever been asked to travel to the Middle East for a “party” with a prince or sheik?
I’m in Australia.
I travel regularly interstate because that’s the format of work that works best for me, and I find I do well in smaller cities, is all.
We do occasionally get those requests! Which is so weird
Totally random question, so I hope it doesn't offend. You've mentioned you're cis gendered in a relatively open community. Have you ever heard of MTF or FTM trans that approach sex work in the same manner as you, and have similar experiences? Or do they often end up with fetish clients that make the work more demanding emotionally/physically? Obviously, the question depends on whether you know any people in your community who do the same work.
A lot of my friends are trans women who are sex workers, including my ex who I have worked with in different settings a lot.
The work is more demanding for them because the bulk of the clients are fetishising their gender, which means a lot of having to identify themselves in ways they might not be comfortable with (shemale, ladyboys etc.) and I’ve seen first hand how even brothel staff will barely refer to them as women, let alone the clients. They also face much much more aggression and violence from the clients, because men are often pretty fucked up about their sexualities, which I’m sure you can imagine comes up when in a trans brothel.
The work itself is a bit more demanding for trans women as it’s demanded of them that they get hard and top a lot of the time, which isn’t always possible for that woman.
It’s also a smaller pool of clientele, and so less opportunity to be ‘high end’, a higher proportion of trans workers are street based or brothel based than private escorts. That said, my ex and I have quite a few common clients from when we go on trips together, not all of these guys are confused and violent. There are also a higher proportion of trans workers who struggle more with the work because they would rather not be doing SW, but trans people face more employment discrimination in other fields, mental health issues, socioeconomic disadvantage and often need very expensive surgeries that mean sex work is their only viable option. Not all, but it’s a factor.
This is a massive simplification on a very complex topic that I’m not sure I’m doing justice to as a cis person.
Okay, so I have 3 questions, if you don't mind, just for my research paper; 1. Do you have any feeling that some of your customers may need some serious psychological or mental helps, regarding their sexual frustration? 2. Did you have any requests for just having a deep, meaningful conversations or just to provide companies with any of your clients? 3. What is your opinion on the whole idea that some cultures, including some parts of the western world may find your profession not very friendly to their worldviews? Does it bother you sometimes or you simply don't care? I'm doing a research paper on how worldviews about taboo subjects change overtime. And, it will mean a lot to me if you let me include your opinions as an anonymous subject.
I think pretty much everyone needs to go to therapy, most of my customers included. Occasionally I see somebody who has a serious sex addiction, and I talk to them about that then.
They always want sex, they often want intimate conversation/company as well.
That has been my experience, yes. Of course it bothers me because it makes me less safe, and causes a lot of harm to less privileged sex workers, but I try not to get into too many arguments about it anymore because it takes a lot of time and patience and withstanding abuse to change peoples minds, and I’ve done my time in those trenches.
How many sex workers are still working right now do you think?
No idea, you could probably find out by checking a local directory
Not my circus, not my monkeys
What's your favorite form of birth control, and the form you use most often with your clients?
Fucking people who can’t get me pregnant, mostly. But with clients I always use condoms.
Male or female?
Do you put the condom on his penis or inside your vagina?
On their penises, the usual way.
Interesting. I would think a sex worker like you wouldn't take any chances and would be prepared with a female condom.
I am prepared with normal condoms, I’ve not known any sex workers who use female condoms regularly. When used properly regular condoms are effective so I’m not sure why I would use an internal one. I feel like most clients would think it was weird, and I do find them to be more difficult to use
OK. I didn't know that. I don't usually talk to sex workers on Reddit. That's good to know.
All good! Also I use condone for oral sex too
Are men assholes?
Some, yeah. Not most though. Most people are doing their best.
Just be a cam chick or start an onlyfans?
Cam work has never been good for me, I don’t think I’m any better suited to it than any given non SW unfortunately. Plus, everyone and their dog, SW or otherwise are flooding adult content creation at the moment so it would be hard to get my foot in the door without having marketed myself as an online presence previously. That said, I will probably check out onlyfans if for no other reason than sheer boredom eventually
Why don’t you get a real job ?
Aw man I tried to but the echos emanating from my gaping vagina were distracting everyone in the office
Nice, i like your style.
To add to that theme, what does your man think? I would struggle knowing my lady is sharing her body and personality in intimate situations.
Is it hard to not become slightly attached to nice return customers, especially if they flip your switch sexually and personality wise?
I don’t have a man, but my girl is fine, she’s dated sex workers before and is familiar enough with the industry that it doesn’t bother her. Honestly I’ve had 4 long term relationships over the course of my sex work career and some have been more comfortable than others with how involved they want to be/how much detail they want to hear but it’s never been a big point of struggle or conflict in my relationships, even with the men. That’s not because everyone is capable of dating a sex worker comfortably, they’re not, but enough people are that it’s not been an issue for me.
I consider a couple of my regulars to be good friends, sure. But I’ve never wanted to date one. I’ve almost never been single while doing this so it’s probably a lot to do with that, but I also have a very different mindset at work than I do in my personal life so even the good sex isn’t really “good sex” and I don’t get attached, which is funny because I get attached soooo hard in my personal life
Nice that you can make it work, i don't think i could :) cheers and have a great day, week and life!
No shame in that, I thought even I would struggle a bit dating a sex worker, turned out it was mostly okay. What’s ‘normal’ for the groups you roll in really impacts ability/inclination to change thought patterns around that stuff, so I’m lucky
So do you have clients of both genders?
I actually haven’t had a female client for many years, it’s not a common request for me (some workers market for that) and I like to stick with what I know with clients, I quite like keeping women as a personal thing for me
Have someone fill it up then. Lol.
mate.... the pandemic....
I'd offer but I am 7000 miles away
Thank you but its not a lack of offers it’s social distancing buddy
More like the stench from you std ridden vagina.
Did it make you feel good to do a less funny version of the joke I already made?
Dude. You are so fucking brilliant. I love this one.
Did it make you feel good not answering a question why you are working a sex work Job as opposed to a real job that doesn’t involve selling your body ? And instead making a joke about your stinky snatch? Don’t make an AMA if you aren’t going to answer the questions.
Let all your simps who pay for sex for a crumb of your smelly gaped out vagina defend you.
That does make me feel good, actually, especially your increasing levels of frustration!
I’m far from frustrated, I’ll just assume you are lazy don’t have an education and take the easy way out selling your nasty pussy for money to losers who need to pay for sex than, since you won’t give a valid reason why you would choose such a filthy “profession”. Have a nice day.
You sound frustrated, is all
Not frustrated just was asking a question in a AMA to the person making it why they do what they do and what the reason is over a Normal job. You seemed pretty frustrated by not answering and making a joke. But ok. Again I’ll just assume you are lazy.
If that’s what you had asked and it wasn’t so obvious you’re trolling, I would have answered. But I’ve had this exact conversation enough times to know you’re impervious to logic, so I’m not gonna! I just hope I can get to sleep tonight knowing that you think I’m lazy 😢
Is it true that a lot of sex worker’s clients just contact you for non-sexual intimate contact (like hugs, cuddles, someone to talk and eat with)?
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