I’m back! Modern Day Asian Female “Hitch” aka dating coach who helps good guys find dates. I can help you too, AMA!
I’m the dating coach at Goodgentleman.com — MMFT, Tedx Speaker, previous eHarmony lead.
Update 3:55pm: Alright all, I did my best! My brain and hands are done for today LOL. I'm going hop off now and will revisit this whenever I can to answer a couple more questions. Thank you for all the great questions! You can find me anywhere at the below links if you want to reach me. Have a great night! :)
I’m back!! Last time was fun and because it’s the month where V-day falls in, I felt inspired to come back on one more time to help some of you with your date ideas or trying to get a date. You can see my old thread here: https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/dahvhb/asian_female_dating_coach_who_helps_good_guys/
I’m a dating coach who helps the good-intentioned gentleman get on a date through a customized strategy that doesn't require them to change who they are. My popular nickname is the Modern Day Hitch!...just the Asian female version of him (if you don't know what movie I'm talking about, it's on Netflix now! haha)
I knew my passion since high school and got the experience to help my clients. Despite my Asian parents wishes (that was definitely a fight with constant throw of “what kind of career is that?!”), I followed my passion anyway.
I worked for the matchmaking firm It’s Just Lunch and was the lead matchmaker, trainer, & Coach at eHarmony ’s eH+. I earned a Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from USC and a Bachelors degree in Social Work from SDSU. I worked in mental health with couples, realizing many of the couples should not have been together in the first place. So, I decided to make it a goal to help singles find the right person for them.
I use my extensive experience from previous matchmaking firms with a combination of training in marital counseling to provide my clients the best and most effective strategies in finding and keeping long-lasting love. With my positive energy, straight-forward (sorry, no sugar coating) approach, hope, and passion, I value the collaboration with my clients and am always excited to guide my clients on the journey to find lasting love and happiness.
Oh and my parents started accepting my passion (not completely, but a start…:D) when I was selected as the USC commencement speaker, I was incredibly honored and they saw that as proof I can do great if it’s something I’m passionate about. You can check out that commencement here at 05:23 if you’re curious: https://youtu.be/DYaBCHifS8M
Ask me anything about dating, relationships, entrepreneurship, or traditional Asian upbringing (haha yay)!
I want to be answering as many questions as I can. My strategy is to go through questions that would be helpful to everyone, then if I have time, go back for more specific situational questions.
My Website (with free ebook): http://goodgentleman.com
my Tedx Talk: https://youtu.be/4PGoy-spWiA
My Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/rubyloveadvice
Client video testimonials (yes, that is William Hung from American Idol you see here): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_qHWtRXrPY&list=PLMj-u6GF6zSwX2jqQAGpNvpK11PTLCx_t
if you want to see what I do, I was featured in the episode of Tiny Empires, which features yours truly: youtu.be/ARVnO2LbJlQ
Working at eHarmony, here I am with the CEO you’ve seen on your commercials: https://goodgentleman.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/RubyWarren-240x300.jpg
Featured on USA Network Day interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQ7Y5T9v8KQ&list=PLMj-u6GF6zSxQo3NyDygSus2nV7wHwl02
Personal IG if you want to see more of that side of me :D IG: rubylelove