This is my story:

Happy to answer any questions you folks have!

Link to my gofundme page for Shyam (my guide) who saved my life below:

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owenthecat360 karma

Do you know anything about this woman? I live in Maine and this was in our paper desperate and she was thought to be right where you were....

yihaur300 karma

Unfortunately i hadn't seen her or heard about her while i was there.

If she was in the Langtang Village (a part of the Langtang Trek) at the time the quake happened, it would be bad news as that village was hit the worst... There was an avalanche that leveled the town.

I was there the day before the quake, fortunately.

My thoughts and prayers go out to her and her family

Liselole137 karma

Can you check pics of other missing people? You can find them on Families are desperate for info! Some don't know where loved ones were on day of quake. If you have seen them before, it could help them pinpoint their itinirary.

yihaur198 karma

I will go through the list and provide an update. Thanks for the link

yihaur166 karma

I don't recognize any of them.. but only can comment on one thing:

Leonie and Nina, if at Dunche would most likely be safe and making their way down to Kathmandu.


Chasestthomas301 karma

What would you want the western world to know that the media isn't showing?

yihaur697 karma

I have been reading some bad press about how the Nepalese are handling the situation. Nepal is a very big country and their population is spread out over vast mountainous regions, which makes relief efforts difficult. Given the situation, i'd like to let the western world know that this is not an easy task to handle.

The Nepalese remain resilient and resourceful through this time of crisis.

Coachellaweekendtwo82 karma

Heard on NPR that there is only one runway in Nepal. Makes it difficult for large cargo planes to land and then send resources throughout the country.

yihaur68 karma

Kathmandu.. the largest airport in Nepal is really small and not equipped to handle all the large aircraft that has been pouring in (PLUS commercial aircraft).

So, you are quite right.

abroindeed3 karma

Would you say that they Nepalese are receiving enough international support?

yihaur10 karma

They are receiving heaps of support. You should check out the Nepal earthquake wiki page.. The list contributions from each country

SnoopTidder177 karma

How are the survivors coping? Have you received any aid/assistance yet? I read today that another large earthquake (aftershock) has hit the region; I hope you and your friends/family are safe.

yihaur209 karma

When I left the camp, the other survivors were doing alright. There should be enough food and water for them to last a week or two. I had left 3 days ago, I believe a lot of the trekkers would have been heli'd out to safety by now.. Although of the locals and some foreigners have left by foot to dunche, about 2hrs away, which is another town close by in hopes to get to kathmandu. Yes, another small quake hit earlier, mag 5.0. Hoping everyone is fine.

My family and my group are all OK. Thanks for asking

yihaur101 karma

I've received some aid over a small first aid booth in syabru besi.

Received full treatment in Malaysia upon my return

flagsoccer21176 karma

What's the most heroic act you witnessed during the quake/afterward?

yihaur467 karma

There was a person who broke their leg during the first quake nearby to where i was.

Never saw him after the second day, but he emerged a day later at Syabru Besi. I was told four strong Lithuanians carried him out as they stumbled across him when they were trekking to safety. He was air lifted out the next day.

It was EXTREMELY difficult to trek down given the landslides, i really have no idea how they managed to carry him.

Mikadily1700 karma

Just like that: Actually it was five Nepalese and two Lithuanians (me and my brother). It was hard and took very long - maybe 4x normal walking time! What saddened me most was that when we reached the helicopter pad at Syabrubesi, two flights left without taking the injured. Supposedly they were private flights (big money wins) and our guy had to stay on Ibuprofen in a tent for another night :( The Nepalese in return for the help were very nice to us, helped with the shelter and food.

yihaur497 karma

You sir, and your company need to be commended.

He was at the same camp as us, and we left the day after for Syabru Besi. People were asking for helicopters to get him, but to no avail. Thank you for your amazing feat.

boofadoof157 karma

Are the beautiful temples in Kathmandu still mostly standing? Or was all that history and architecture destroyed too?

yihaur220 karma

Unfortunately a lot of it has been destroyed or damaged.

SilhouetteOfLight107 karma

How long did it take for recovery teams to reach you after the quakes? If you know, how did the electrical, telecom, etc. grids fare after the quakes?

yihaur138 karma

This is a very good question.

If you are within the Langtang valley, there is no form of communication. Once out to the town at Shabru Besi, communication was scarce and unreliable. You'd be lucky to get a signal at that town during the first few days. Communication got marginally better after day 3.

All electricity was cutoff and will remain cutoff to the majority of the small villages and towns in mountains for a considerable time to come.

There was electricity and communication in Kathmandu, for the most part.

big_curry60 karma

What should we be doing right now to help out the country?

yihaur66 karma

There are a lot of avenues for donating, but i am not sure as to which one is the best. Maybe someone else can advice?

I see a lot on reddit and imgur and they have a lot of campaigns to raise funds for the victims.

I am using it to help my trekking guide who lost his home.

Link above if you'd like to donate

snorlaxusedrest56 karma

Hey. First off I'm really sorry to hear everything that's been happening. I was in Nepal not too long ago and seeing destroyed photos of places I was at was heartbreaking.

I wanted to ask how's the situation there now. China, Pakistan and India have been having massive recovery attempts there, albeit with political favour purposes, but how are the people coping with the sudden outburst of help from the neighbours?

yihaur74 karma

When I left Nepal, the country seemed to still be in utter chaos. Unfortunately they are not prepared to handle a situation of this size.. I don't think the aid was getting to it's intended destinations efficiently

Foreign aid has been pouring in, including crisis professionals. I hope that the situation has improved by now

yihaur32 karma


HeadHunter57917 karma

you can edit your posts by pressing "edit" next to the reply button :)

yihaur64 karma

Done, sorry - first time posting to reddit

mr3oh548 karma

Hi OP.. I'm glad that you're alive and well. Being a Nepalese who is away from home.. It was certainly devastating to hear the news while barely awake.

Nonetheless, the media is only covering most of the damages on the capital city, Kathmandu. I would like to know how badly affected are the rural areas of the country?

yihaur52 karma

The rural areas are hit really badly, from what we see when we were flying over.

A lot of the houses in the small towns were made out of stacked bricks and rocks, which really didn't stand a chance against the quake, compared to many buildings in Kathmandu which were reinforced.

Having a lot of crucial roads destroyed, which they depend on for their livelyhoods, also would pose a big problem. Aid would also take a lot more time to reach them..

cornflop47 karma

Mayweather of Pacquiao?

yihaur111 karma

The Pacman of course

OP_rah19 karma

I'm guessing most people in Malaysia are rooting for Packy right? From my experience pretty much everyone in SE Asia loves him.

yihaur45 karma

We love Packy

motherchuggingpugs43 karma

As a worker in a fair trade clothing shop we have a lot of connections with families in Nepal and so this disaster was horrible news to hear. We have received confirmation that they are okay from many of these families, but there are still a few we are waiting to hear from. We are hoping that this is purely due to damaged communication lines. How bad is the level of damage to communication services out there? We all hope that help reaches you all as soon as possible, many people over here in the UK are happy to donate.

yihaur40 karma

If they are out of the city in the mountains, i would remain positive.

Communication is really bad as a lot of towers up in the mountains were damaged during the quakes. Landlines share a similar fate.

Maxwyfe38 karma

How does an embassy operate out of a car? Did you have any trouble getting your passport or papers necessary to get back to Malaysia?

Also: What was your first indication of an earthquake? Was it really strong all at once, or did the shaking gradually get stronger and what did it sound like?

Your story is fascinating and the pictures tell a story of bravery. Thank you for sharing.

yihaur55 karma

It was an emergency, and in hindsight a car parked at the airport would be the best option to connect with survivors. No trouble, the embassy rep was helpful with the emergency passport.

Shaking was small but very rapidly got stronger. It sounds like Zeus-worthy lightning struck a few miles away - that sound you hear seconds after.

Lulu_es_numero_uno29 karma

Did you think you would die? If so what is that like?

yihaur95 karma

I feared for my life.. but was too preoccupied with avoiding falling rocks to think i would die.

Those thoughts crossed my mind during the first night at our campsite though.

For me, i was thinking of HOW i would die.. how it would feel being crushed by a giant boulder.. and would it be instantaneous? painful? torturous? etc etc..

Waffleracer26 karma

Your leg vs boulder injury looks horrible! What ended up being wrong with your leg? Any broken bones or just a massive bruise? Thanks for your story, and am glad you and your dad are ok.

yihaur38 karma

The initial impact caused bruising, but because i strained it over the next couple of days it developed cellulitis? and a possible infection.

I can't really walk or straighten my leg now, but i expect it to improve. I have another doctors appointment in a week.

Thanks for your concern.

TheGirlWithTheCurl8 karma

Cellulitis is potentially life-threatening if it spreads to your blood and lymph nodes. Please do exactly as the doctors have advised, and if the red swollen area does not decrease in size with the meds you were given, go back to the doctor.

yihaur5 karma

Hi, are you a doctor? Because while the bruising is receding, it's increasingly harder to walk. The unbruised part is still stiff and tingly to the touch. Any advice is appreciated

Trypsach22 karma

Hey, you probably know my parents who are coming home today. Did you meet kat heldman and Kevin krogh? Also the nurse brigita who was working on everyone is a family friend :)

Visit /r/langtang if you want more info

yihaur27 karma

I may have seen them if they were in Syabru Besi.

Happy that they are on their way back home !

chesty121219 karma

Could you describe in detail you experience of the quake itself? For example, did you hear it before the shaking started and was it loud during? How far back and forth did the ground seem to be shifting? Was it hard to remain standing? Based on the intensity, how badly do you think that exact earthquake would affect a "modern, " developed city?

Mikadily63 karma

I was in Langtang, Bamboo village at the time as well. The beginning wasn't loud, it was a gradually increasing shaking, I was sitting in the open at the time, wasn't scary at all. What was scary, was the rocks and boulders coming down afterwords... literally erasing one building after another in front of our eyes. A friend, took a video just a few seconds after it started:

yihaur22 karma

I was just at Bamboo a 1-2hrs before it happened!

That video is amazing. Thanks for sharing

yihaur32 karma

To begin with, it was terrifying.

The shaking started and built up very quickly. Soon after the ground was moving violently, i'd guess by more than a foot or so very quickly.

What followed after was thunderous sounds of rock breaking and tumbling down the mountain, scary stuff.

My guess is that A modern developed city, if not prepared for it (like Japan), would suffer huge loss of life and property as we've seen in the past. Relief efforts would be more efficient and coordinated though in a developed nation.

youdimsumyoulosesome18 karma

My parents met in Syabrubesi in Langtang the '70s. I was lucky enough to visit in '07. Is the town still standing?

yihaur23 karma

The town is badly damaged.. including hotels, roads, infrastructure..

Also one side of town was completely rained on by falling rock, you can see in the imgur album.

MILeft18 karma

Thanks for the terrific photos and great narrative of events. I am assuming that "trek" is the same as "trail," and that the wonderful folks who helped you will be without an income until the trails are rebuilt. I wish everyone well.

My question is about the infrastructure of the highways and rail systems. I traveled to Kathmandu from India by narrow guage rail in 1970, and I understand that the line was closed last year and is going to be replaced by a sturdier rail system, which is being financed by India. Based on this information, I am wondering if there are navigable roads "down the mountain," or is air travel the only safe way out of the country right now?

yihaur16 karma

There are navigable roads down the mountains for sure, but a lot of them located higher up in the mountains (steeper roads, cliffhanging etc) would have been damaged.

A lot of people are being airlifted out to nearby towns that have road access. That way it's easier to get people to Kathmandu.

Annepackrat18 karma

I heard that there are concerns over whether the rainy season will see more mud and landslides due to rocks that was loosened by the earthquakes. Is there anything they're doing to prevent this? Can anything be done to prevent this?

yihaur23 karma

This is a serious concern, but i'm not too sure what can be done at this moment. They have their hands tied on concentrating on getting everyone out safely before moving on to repairs for critical areas.

malesurfer17 karma

I was walking the Langtang Trek a couple years ago.

Do you think the whole trek path is lost, or still recoverable? Would be a big loss..

yihaur29 karma

Most of the trek has been damaged by landslides..

Recoverable, but it will be a huge task to repair, plus it would need the villages to be rebuilt - which is a problem because the trekkers support the economy of the villages.

In a nutshell, it'll take awhile.

megaluigi17 karma

How many friends/acquaintances/family did you lose?

yihaur39 karma

Friends none

Acquaintances.. definitely a few but can't be too sure.

Family, i was only with my dad, so none.

pantsalwaystooshort16 karma

Did you get any sense of how people were selected to be ferried out by helicopter or bus? Was it severity of injury, or was it just foreigners who got priority? Was there any backlash from people left behind?

yihaur27 karma

The injured remained priority from what i've seen, although i did see a few exceptions.

TBH, most people, including in my group tried to get helicopters earlier by contacting our embassies, but there was just no possible way.

Up to my departure everything was very civil, there was some military men towards the last day i was there to see who got on and off.

I think all the embassies were trying to arrange for helicopters and provided pressure to the govt to a certain degree. The minister had control over all helicopters, and you'd need the ministers approval before flying - so that was what i was told.

That way, somehow foreigners would always get preference over Locals..

piy915 karma

How much of assistance did you see from Indian Armed forces?

yihaur20 karma

I notice a couple of huge military aircraft with supplies and army men when i was at Kathmandu Airport.

Throwawayaccountno4511 karma

What was the best of the human nature that you observed in those dark hours?

yihaur30 karma

The selflessness of the Nepalese people.

randomcoincidences11 karma

This is the thing thats hitting home most of all for me. Lots of these people lost everything, family, friends, homes, livelihoods; but they're still helping everyone else. All these stories of guides etc going above and beyond are heart warming. The Nepalese are a truly great people.

yihaur9 karma

Yes, fully agree..

wreckyoslovakia10 karma

Was rioting intense in Kathmandu when you got there? I heard people were actually stopping evacuation busses to try and force themselves on. I'm glad you made it out safely OP!

yihaur24 karma

I personally did not witness anything of that sort, but the town seemed to be under control when i was there (3 days ago now).

I wouldn't be surprised if a bit of 'pushing' would've happened as a lot of locals are frustrated with the way things are being handled. Many of them were complaining while i was there

fifthpilgrim7 karma

How do you feel, as a survivor of this natural disaster, that foreigners to Nepal appear to be getting preferential treatment over the local Nepalese? I say this because here in Canada, the majority of the news was about Canadians getting airlifted out and the government of canada bringing them home, instead of helping the local people who have no where else to go. This may be a biased view of things over there, but I was just curious what you think about that whole viewpoint?

yihaur16 karma

Where i was, it seemed that the injured people had priority, regardless of nationality.

But what you say is true, the tourists and foreigners to take priority when it comes to airlifting. Many of the Nepalese that were in Syabru Besi decided that it was better to walk to Kathmandu from there, yes.. over 2-3 days.

I guess the foreigners aren't as resilient as the Nepalese.

fruitball4u12 karma

I would also fare to guess that it'd be best to get as many people out as possible - foreigners can get help and aid easily from their home countries, so it's probably better for them to not be wasting resources that are meant for the Nepalese.

yihaur2 karma

Interesting viewpoint, seconded

ShineOnYouFatOldSun7 karma

Has one of your cats got an inverted eye?? It looks really cool!

I'm obviously so glad you are safe and I'm hoping for the best outcome to the other survivors.

yihaur18 karma

Minichi is blind in one eye, but still extremely cute!

Thanks mate, me too.

TheSecondLaw7 karma

Selamat pulang. Masih ada orang Malaysia kat sana tak?

yihaur10 karma

Saya tidak pasti, Mungkin ada beberapa.

4girls2pups6 karma

What is the best organization to currently donate to?

yihaur8 karma

I am not sure about this, but am using

Anyone else who knows please share.


Has resources

grimgrimlock6 karma

Having trekked the Annapurna circuit a few years back, I found the Nepalese the friendliest people I've ever met. In spite of this tragic disaster, with many of their homes/villages/livelihoods ruined did they still remain the helpful, selfless people I imagine they would?

yihaur9 karma

Yes, the majority of people were still helpful, especially the group that i was with. I have utter respect for them.

There were a handful Nepalese taking advantage of the situation for charging heaps for basic necessities, but i guess we have to keep in mind that their homes and livelihoods have just been swept away, they want to recoup.

help_find_dawn6 karma

Have you seen or have any information about Dawn Habash?

yihaur3 karma

Unfortunately not, sorry.

Thatcommiebastard5 karma

As someone who treked langtang two years ago how much of the area was destroyed by the earthquake?

yihaur12 karma

The trek is mostly destroyed by landslides, but from what i hear the towns that were most badly affected were Ghoda Tabela and Langtang Village.

This website has some Satellite photos:

whatwhatinthebuttnow5 karma

Will this put you off trekking in the future?

yihaur8 karma

For awhile at least

TuckingFypoz5 karma

Did you come back in a normal passenger plane to Malaysia? Also, did you have to pay for the trip back home like normal or you lost your money during the 4 days of the chaos?

yihaur16 karma

Yes, we flew Malaysian Airlines an had to pay for everything.

We had our wallets so we could pay with our credit cards.

micah3454 karma

What place have you seen in pictures that made you think "holy shit, I was just there"?

My friend's friend and family was in Kathmandu when the earthquake hit. Fortunately she and her family were ok, but those couple hours after it hit without communication were scary. She has several of those experiences, e.g. she would walk to a temple every morning, and sent us a picture of it destroyed.

yihaur10 karma

Many many places, a lot of the tea houses on the way down.

Langtang village is the most prominent one.

Geodaryl4 karma

Would you say that Shyam and his team were ultimately the reason for your survival? Having known him for some years I know of his selfless acts, he once got between me and an angry half ton bull, and his daughter (Monica) fought off a snake I nearly trod on bare footed.

yihaur3 karma

Yes, he pulled me up from a ledge right before it was disassembled by rocks.. And continued to help us all the way back. I owe this guy my life..

What you have described is not hard to believe, the man is a hard working honest man. If you can please donate to the fund for shyam.. He really needs it at this point in time

Tiomo3 karma

I have done the Langtang trek 2 months ago and staying in Bamboo lodge (among others). Do you know if the very friendly owner and her family survived? Also I heard that Langtang Village got completely destroyed. Have you seen any survivors or heard anything about the situation there? I would be very grateful for an answer.

yihaur9 karma

I wonder the same thing about the owners and their families.. especially the kids that help out..

I have heard of survivors all the way up to Lama.. and even Ghoda Tabela that make their way to Syabru Besi. Unforunately none from Langtang Village.

threeuptwodown3 karma

Glad you made it out alive! Heard your story through the grapevine.

Just wanted to ask, did all the training in 5thPJ prepare you for any of this?

yihaur6 karma

Woah, fellow highschoolmate? All the camping done during the scouts definitely helped, mentally at least during the 3 nights camping

gemolojest3 karma

Hey op, so glad you made it out alright. Did you instantly know it was an earthquake, or were you kind of in shock initially? Have you been through earthquakes prior to this event? I've been in a couple small earthquakes and they're not common where I live (southern USA), so it always took me a minute to figure out what was going on.

yihaur11 karma

I have not been through earthquakes prior to this, but i instantly knew within seconds. I guess it's the magnitude that makes the difference.

GMY0da3 karma

In hindsight, what are two things you wish you had with you? Thanks for doing this, I wish all the best

yihaur14 karma

A satellite phone and a solar powerbank!

xordy2 karma

Fellow Malaysian here. How do you come back to Malaysia? Commercial airlines or RMAF?

yihaur6 karma

Came back on commercial airlines which we booked ourselves.

The embassy guy didn't know if there was going to be another RMAF flight.

MaxJohnson55052 karma

How would you describe the current connectivity level in Nepal / where you were at? I'm assuming that the internet connection was slow to begin with, and I'm not sure on how the mobile connection was. Would you say that the rescue efforts are being slowed down by this?

yihaur4 karma

Really really poor. Voice connection was scarce, and internet was unavailable where i was.

Definitely rescue efforts are being slowed by this, communication, from what i've experienced, is the most vital thing during a disaster.

NoPasaNadaSenor2 karma

Wow great story glad you made it out safely.. What was the cat situation while you were gone? Who was watching them for you?

yihaur5 karma

I live with my family, so my mom and sister were looking after the cat..

Mom was going nuts, needless to say.

MathildaReus2 karma

Do u know how many Chinese there ?cause I'm a Chinese and I'm care about the people who came to Nepal recently.thank you for your answer.

yihaur1 karma

I didn't notice a lot of Chinese nationals on the trek or at Syabru Besi

shubhang_mittal2 karma

With every country doing their bit to send aid in the form of cash or kind, is there any form of aid that you observed being of no/minimum use? Can people who are sending aid divert towards other resources that would be more helpful?

yihaur4 karma

I reckon all forms of foreign aid will be useful at this point.

However, what is really lacking is expertise, in the form of crisis management and or volunteers/doctors going to to Nepal to help out.

DieselFuel11 karma

What's the emergency food aid like? What is it and how does it taste?

yihaur4 karma

Not sure because my area didn't receive it whilst i was there.

I'm assuming a lot of rice, biscuits etc.

faleboat1 karma

Holy wow jesus man. I am extremely pleased to hear you made it out alright. That's a hell of a story to tell.

Just cause I like to focus on the positive, before the quake, what's the coolest part of the trek?

yihaur1 karma

Getting to the top of Kyanjin Ri, at 4700m the view was spectacular.

teatops1 karma

Do you know Jessie Ramirez? She was on that treck too, I think.

yihaur3 karma

I do not recognize that name, sorry.

xXD347HXx1 karma

What are your living conditions like right now? Do you have shelter or anything?

yihaur5 karma

Back in Malaysia mate, comfy bed and good food.

Most people in Nepal are still under tents if their houses are destroyed.

firefox30111 karma

Hey, thanks for doing this!

I have 2 friends who had gone for a Trek in Nepal, too. We're still to hear back from them.

All communications appear too have been disrupted. Any idea when the communications would be back up or how could we get in touch with them?

yihaur1 karma

Depends on the area, but they are slowly restoring comms to the rural areas.

Orphan_Babies1 karma


yihaur3 karma

Looks familiar, but not too sure...!

Jonster1231 karma

Will you be returning to help with the aid operation when you've recovered?

yihaur6 karma

I don't think i'll be returning soon due to commitments here, but i will persevere on helping my guide recover from this disaster.

intothechromosphere1 karma

How has this event affected you? Do you feel any change of perspective?

yihaur3 karma

Life.. strangely feels normal back home.

I think the whole thing hasn't fully sinked in yet.

hucchsuulemaga1 karma

Glad you made it out safe OP. I made this trek a year back and remember how most commodities were transported by people trekking two days (including things like cement and LPG cylinders). Where were you exactly when the earthquake struck? Had you passed Ghoratabela on the way back? I had actually befriended many of the people at the lodges, and I'm heartbroken to hear about Langtang village. Do you know how Kyanjin Gomba faired?

Edit: I hadn't read his entire post first.

yihaur4 karma

I was about 7kms into the track, before Bamboo.

From what i've heard, Kyanjin Gomba faired better than Langtang or Ghoratabela.

kevincrabbe0 karma

I've never been in a notable earthquake so could you explain what you are thinking as it happens and what everything around you looks like from the beginning of the earthquake to the end? Thanks :)

yihaur1 karma

I'm from Malaysia, we have no earthquakes there so no prior experience.. but the only thing i was thinking about was how to avoid falling rocks and where would be the best place to hide.

check out the imgur post, there's more info there.