IAMA 35yo disabled little person with rheumatoid arthritis destroying my joints since I was 3. Let's have some fun with this because the weather is crap and this will be my first XMAS alone!
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Also being alone isn't a bad thing. I like it.... but
I wanna have some fun as I say with this. If you want to ask me medical questions about disabilities - I am not touchy in the least in fact I think if you can't laugh at yourself you are already dead. Maybe ask about accessibility or lack thereof. Or maybe make suggestions about things I don't know. Yes I realize the first question will be about my dick. Yes it works, why wouldn't it? Yes, it's proportional. Now with that out of the way.
I am originally Russian but lived in USA most of my life, with a psycho tantrum throwing narcissistic thieving mother and a spineless good for nothing absent father. This was an incredibly bad time of my life as they didn't even bother to put in/buy a single accessibility for me in the 25 years I've lived in that house. This would drive a normal person insane, but imagine me being disabled. Depression and suicide attempt later, I finally got out.
As far as my medical shit: it's plentiful. I've had rheumatoid arthritis since I was 3 and it pretty much ran amok and destroyed most of my joints in the first few years before biologics like Enbrel were a thing. I've been on prednisone my entire life sans 3 years and that eventually led to severe osteoporosis and spinal compression fractures in the early 2000s where I was having at least one fracture per month and couldn't even sit up for over 2 years. I was laid up. And not in the good way. A few years later I had a esophageal cyst removed which appeared out of nowhere but I wasn't able to eat or breathe well for nearly a year leading up to this. Wasn't fun.
After a suicide attempt I saw that I need to either get out of that hell hole or I would die without anyone on the outside knowing. I spent a year getting a powerchair and then a couple more finding an apt. I found one and mover less than a year ago. I've since cut ties with the ogres and life couldn't be better. I have an incredible visiting aide whom I love to death. The girl is nasty (in the good way), understands my morbid/dark humor, likes the same music/movies, foods, hates the same kinds of people and is generally just a fantastic human being that is super kind. Here we are on a trial run to NYC https://i.imgur.com/XWxMI5a.jpg I froze my tits off and nearly missed the bus back at 11pm.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGOqhMjqWdA <<< my apt when I was still putting it together. You think anyone like my useless daddy offered to help move my shit or moneywise? LMFAO. No everything I have I bought new (except the PC which I put together in 2009 myself). Even a couple people I met online helped (not physically I meant just like drinking at a bar). I moved here with just my clothes and my nvidia tablet. I basically called an uber. I knew moneywise I'd be screwed but hey I'm paying for peace of mind.
I am not done with life just yet. I am planning to eventually get myself into a conversion van and start driving myself. I know how to drive - it's just a matter of putting the pieces together. I also plan to see other cities, maybe even countries. I want to visit Moscow for a few days as I was there all of five min before I flew here and it's a fantastic place I think, Putin notwithstanding. Yes even a Russian can dislike Putin.
p.s. Please at least try to keep questions about dick to a minimum.
p.p.s. I drink socially and am 420 friendly. Even met a couple people off reddit for a drink before without getting raped.
Proof - photo from yesterday LOL. Got drunk and forgot to post here https://i.imgur.com/sKgW3nc.jpg My LEDs https://i.imgur.com/mtKKtbx.jpg Me in a conversion van at a dealership https://i.imgur.com/rVARiOj.jpg (not mine)
edit: I'm not here for that but if anyone wants to, they can donate towards my disability fund. Just DM me for details.