IAmA former Playboy model turned hardcore adult performer: Victoria Rae Black aka TeamVRB....Ask Me Everything.

I would tap that so hard whoever pulled me out would become the king of England

That statement made me wet. Hot, Dirty, and clever.

EDIT: Added this to my tumblr. Good show, sir.

Didn't know who this was

Googled her name

I'm gonna have a good day today.

:) Awesome to hear, sir.

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Scruffy01: Typing names into google so you don't have to.

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Apparently so does op.

ZING!

I was just curious if doing porn has affected your ability to be vulnerable during sex. I enjoy having sex immensely, but broke up with a guy due to circumstances rather than conflict last year and haven't found anyone I'm even remotely interested in dating at this point, so I've tried out casual sex a few times. At worst, it did absolutely nothing for me and made me feel depressed; at best, it was with a friend who was nothing but polite, respectful, and caring, but it was only that--just sex. I thoroughly enjoyed myself, as did he, but after I realized that there were just a whole host of things that I personally couldn't do during sex with anyone that wasn't a boyfriend--kissing deeply and excessively during, entwining my fingers with theirs--basically, the things that differentiate "making love" and fucking.

My questions:

a) What do you really think about sex? Do you ever experience cognitive dissonance with sex as something that is vulnerable, intimate, a physical manifestation of love; and sex as a means of control or manipulation, as something to mercilessly chase, as a billion-dollar industry?

I've lost my taste for casual sex. It just doesn't appeal to me like it used to. For a really long time, I would get horny and think, God, I want to get fucked right now. Ever since my distinct shift in perspective, I now think, God, I just want to masturbate whenever I get really horny. I think part of is it the way I sometimes feel after I have casual sex--logically I know that it's nothing to be ashamed of, that I'm young and too busy for a relationship and not willing to settle, as long as I'm being safe there's nothing wrong it, religious/societal constructs are set up to shame sex and women especially for enjoying it, etc. etc.

But even after thoroughly fulfilling casual sex, I've still had moments where I was just sitting on the train or doing dishes, and just felt so massively conflicted. On the one hand, I really enjoyed it and there were moments that make me squirm just thinking about it... but in the moments after, when we've both come and are disentangling ourselves and cleaning up... the thought hits me that, I don't love this person, I won't be there to see them cry or see them weak and comfort them, and they won't be there to see me like that either and they don't want to. And I think that's what makes me feel empty.

b) Do you ever feel mentally or emotionally conflicted after you have sex? If so, how do you deal with it?

(For me, it was getting high, a 3-piece spicy chicken meal from Popeyes with dirty rice and a 12+ hour marathon of the Boondocks.)

This is the best question set yet. Before I answer the questions I have to say that i agree with your findings. On-camera or casual sex is NOT the same or as meaningful as personal life sex. There was a period of adjustment for me with my boyfriend but once I let the walls down and let him in emotionally the sex became the most passionate I've ever had. Working with other men just makes me appreciate the sex my boyfriend and I have even more.

A) All of the above depending on the circumstance. As i said, with my boyfriend it is intimate and I feel the most vulnerable around him because it actually has my heart. At work it's business. When I'm single I've used sex as means of control for sure.

You need to not over-think casual sex. It is defined by its title "casual" it shouldn't matter if he'll be there emotionally the next day or be there to share moments with...that's what relationships are for. If you're horny for a dick, go get some. If you're horny but don't want to be exposed to the potential emotional pitfalls then masturbate away. I recommend a Hytachi.

B) Not really. I have it all pretty well thought out in my head. If i do something I've done it. Can't take it back and dwelling on regrets makes for an unhappy Victoria.

Thanks again for the amazing questions.

No way, You like sex and money? We should totally hang out

I know right? Insane.

Very pretty.

This is for you. Click me!

AWESOME!

Would you have sex with Samuel L. Jackson?

Only in his Nick Fury costume and character. :)

How many waffles could* you eat in one sitting?

Size matters ;) all depends on how big they are...but if it is the kind you get from the store, I can down 4-5 of those in one sitting.

Would you rather fight 100 duck sized horses, or 1 horse sized duck?

100 duck sized horses for sure. I'd get a golf club and some steel-toes.

A horse sized duck is utterly terrifying....that's just plain fowl.

NSFW WARNING - IS THIS YOU? You look identical to her and I'm not gonna lie, that's been my favourite video for some time.

hi. That's me for sure.

Sorry if I creeped you out but I saw your Tumblr and your face looked really familiar. Here's a picture of my dog, Cassie, on her 8th birthday this year. To lessen the creepiness?

No creepiness at all.

have you ever been asked to perform a scene but turned it down because it was too out there? please provide example

Yes. I am very picky. I won't do gangbangs, I never do only blowjob scenes (because you get paid less and it's the same amount of work and you don't get fucked in return), I won't do anal, and I once turned down a scene where like 5 guys would come in my pussy and then I would drip it out into a cup and drink it.

My friend Porno Dan tried to hook me up with you for Fuck A Fan. What did I miss out on?

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yup.

I think you might have ruined his day...maybe more

It's the end of the world as we know it!

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I love working with Chris Slater. The orgasms are....90% real. Size doesn't matter to me. Too big hurts. The only way you can be too small is if you're under 3 inches....but that is soooo rare. If that's you....learn to eat pussy like a boss!

I've got an artesian well on my property & the water pressure is lousy. Any suggestions?

This might help: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y774f6VLkw0

Also this seems to be the best answer: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090708150617AAjU4ZE

Have you had to "do" things (people) to get ahead of the game in your profession?

Fuck. No. It's been offered. That's just not me at all.

Do you personally like anal?

Not really. It hurts a lot. I don't mind a little bit of finger play or asslicking while someone goes down on me but nothing more.

What is it like when you first meet a co-star?

what is your sex life like off camera?

Sometimes it's awkward but usually the true pro's know how to break the ice. If not the talent, then usually the director.

I like most of the same stuff on as off. I probably have less sex than you want to imagine I do but more sex than the average girl. I love dirty talk, role-playing and love, love, LOVE to get finger banged.

How do you feel about condoms?

How easy is it for you to have a relationship based on personalities or does your looks always trump it with guys? (I don't mean that in a rude way, just trying to say do guys ever see past the looks/job and like you for you?)

On camera? I like the idea. In my personal life? Not with my boyfriend but if I'm just hooking up with random dudes than always.

It can be difficult depending on the guy. My current boyfriend loves me for me. He never saw my porn before we got together and is so geeky and nerdy that my looks only threw him off his game on our first date. He was so nervous....lol.

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Of course. :)

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I think I answered your question below. But thanks for being a fan and for the kind words.

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Sometimes you have to fake it. If that is shocking to anyone then i suggest having sex with a lot of strangers several times a week, some of whom you don't even feel attracted to.

For the most part though, it's all real. I love sex, I approve most of my co-stars now before we do a scene so i know it's someone I have good chemistry with.

Reddit, raise money to bang a porn star?

WHOA! That's amazing! I should search my name more often on reddit. Shame it was deleted.....for $50,000 I would have totally been a part of this.

Would you bang a woman? Cuz I'd definitely donate money to be a part of that.

Girls ride for free. Pm me

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HAHA! Great username.

I think Dani Daniels is killer. Also April O'Neal and Lily Carter.

What do you think about the required condom law in LA? Do you think it would really drive the adult film industry away?

I like the law. I don't think anyone will listen to it. If they start to REALLY enforce it....yea it could drive porn out of LA county...possibly Vegas?

Favorite scene of yours? What made it your favorite?

Anything from X-Art for Joy-Mi. I love those soft, sexy, gorgeously photographed work more than any of the other stuff.

• Which porn stars that you've worked with have been the coolest?

• Have you ever engaged in extreme group sex (like a gangbang or orgy) or been to a gloryhole? If so, how was it?

• Would you ever do a gangbang on camera? Why or why not?

• What is the kinkiest/sluttiest thing you've ever done?

• Have you ever been DP'd? Would you ever do it on camera?

• How long have you been an exhibitionist? What do you get from it?

• Have you seen Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog (starring Neil Patrick Harris)? You should.

• Favorite ice cream flavor?

• Coolest? Xander Corvus is awesome.....that's a guy. The coolest chick? April O'Neal.

-I've been with two guys at once. I also shot a scene for PornPro's Cumshot Surprise that was like 12 people all fucking and cumming ona bed. 6 guys and 6 girls.

• That's about as close as I'll come to a gangbang on or off camera. I like to make pretty porn. I also like to please my fans which is why I'll never say never.

• Porn? Fucked two guys at once. Took several cumshots on my face. Fucked on a bus full of people watching. Lots of stuff.

• Haven't been DP'd. My vagina is too tight.

• I've been an exhibitionist since I was a teenager. I like the attention, of course, but I also like the feeling of doing something most people wouldn't do.

• OMG, of course! It's amazing! BAD HORSE!

• I like Popsicles. I also like vanilla ice cream, orange sherbert and cookie dough.

Do you have any kids/do you plan on having them? How do you think your career would affect them?

I don't have any kids. I would like to have them someday but looooong after I'm out of porn.

Well I didn't plan on fapping this early in the day

Never too early to fap.

EDIT: ugh...grammar, Victoria, grammar!

What do you use for birth control? Aside from pulling out, obviously.

Also, I heard you on the Bagged & Boarded podcast a while ago and you seemed sort of shy. Is that a fair assessment? While on the topic of podcasts, you should totally do the Morning After Podcast.

I take pills.

I WANT to do a podcast so bad. I even bought some stuff to do it but my computer isn't compatible with the hardware i bought. It's a whole annoying things now and it makes me sad. The podcast, when it does eventually launch, will be called: Radio Head with Victoria Rae Black. The tag line? "Get Some"

When you're getting sprayed by a bucketload of hot cum, do you ever think about the children in Uganda yearning for a hot meal ?

Yes. Every time.

I like the stuff you did with x-art, more than just friends seemed very realistic! Anyways, I have a few questions...

What are some of your hobbies?

What's one quality or trait you have that most people would never guess?

What are your plans for after porn?

Thanks Victoria!

I like swimming, TV, LOVE video games, and I watch a TON of movies. I also like to paint, draw, and travel.

I am pretty shy and introverted in my personal life despite my profession or appearance on camera.

Not sure what the plan is yet....got a couple of things in the works. (side note: I thought your question said "What are you plans for after PROM" and was baffled by it for a few seconds until I re-read it.)

Do you like penguins?

I love penguins. They are so adorable and i love the way they waddle around and dive for fishes!!!! do you like penguins?

What is the strangest /ask message you've gotten on tumblr?

OMG.....so many. The ones I repost are my favorites. The ones that make me laugh with how weird they are. Everyday a guy asks me about my feet, if I had sex the night before and where the cumshot went during the sex. Every. Single. Day.

the same guy, same questions every day? weird...

Same guy. Same question. Daily.

Do you feel like when people hear you are a pornstar, they assume you have a lack of skills or are a generally less intelligent person? Looking over some of these questions, they're all just begging for a Dear Playboy story from you.

What are your views on the economic situation? As a person in a performance industry, has it affected your way of life?

Yes I do feel that way but it's also part of the role you play as a porn chick (I hate using pornstar....I'm not really a STAR...).

I think the economy is slowly starting to turn around. I saw a dip in the scenes I was shooting in the last two years but now things are on an upswing, companies are making more money and therefore producing more content. I think entertainment in general is in a transitional state, between TV/Movies and the internet. As I'm sure you've all noticed, Hulu and Netflix are becoming much bigger players than anyone imagined, as a result studios are rethinking how the distribute and release things. I bring that up only because (as is often the case) PORN lead the charge on that one. Our industry has been suffering from the online competition for years now. It's only recently that companies have started to come up with innovate ways to keep money coming directly to them instead of all the free porn spread across the web.

What's the money like? Do you get more / less now you've changed direction so to speak?

Starts out as a LOT less but if you do a good job, are nice to people, always on time and professional....it increases a great deal.

First off, let be say that I really enjoy your work. You are a beautiful person

1. What is your favorite company to work for?

2. What do you put on tost? (Eg, butter or cheese)

3. When did you first realize that people wanted to sleep with you?

Why thank you, Kongo204.

1. I love working for X-Art and PornPros.

2. Butter or jam.

3. When I went from having no boobs to huge boobs at like 14.

When you said

Everything

What were you really hoping would be asked?

No hopes but dreams for an amazing AMA.

• Favorite scene?
• Favorite position?
• What book are you reading?

Don't really have a favorite scene. As i said earlier in the thread....I like the pretty stuff not the raunchy stuff. (which is different because in my personal like I LOVE dirty, nasty sex.) Favorite position is flat doggy....ugh, I get wet just thinking about it. I just finished "John Dies At The End" in preparation for the sequel "This Book is Full of Spiders (No Seriously, Don't Touch It)". Also loved "We Need To Talk About Kevin"

Do porn directors take their work seriously, like they may be the next Spielberg?

haha. Nope.

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Mom knows and is supportive. I'm sure she'd rather I be doing something with less potential health risks but she also has said, "Use that body and those looks while you can, they won't be around forever."

Most girls use stage names, me included.

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I don't know of any other girl that's done it. Mostly I was impatient. I didn't want to wait for Playboy to pay more or start my career. I got offered a nice 6 month Vivid contract and took it.

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oh how the mighty have fallen.

How does it feel knowing that hundreds if not thousands of men have brought themselves to orgasm by watching you? Does it creep you out, or make you feel flattered or what?

Lol. I like that men "get off" by watching me do the nasty. There are days tho where a fan knows just the right thing to say to get on the creepy end of it.

could someone please link a SFW picture of her?

How's that? http://imgur.com/mQKsp

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Yup. Check my posting history. I love reddit. I lurk a lot and I tend to be very giving with my upvotes. Doesn't take much to make me smile....you guys are all so fucking brilliant. I love my redditors.

If you had to fight a dinosaur to the death in a Dinosaur Death Match using only primitive weapons and not allowed to set traps, what's the biggest dinosaur you think you win against? You don't have to name a specific dinosaur, just give us a size reference.

Baby Pterodactylus. I'd grab that motherfucker by the wings and shake it to death.

Or...a brontosaurus because they only eat plants and wouldn't suspect me when I crawled up on it's head and stabbed it in the brain with my primitive stabbing tool.

Do you see this as a career?

Here's why I ask. Even for an extremely successful porn star, I would imagine that your "marketability" is limited to your 20s and early 30s. In today's market, I can't imagine that a lot of folks are going to pay you tons of money after that point to have sex on camera. So after that point, do you have another career path in mind? Or are you hoping to make enough money now so as to not need to work afterwards?

I see exactly what you see. I am hoping to have a fanbase, a few toys with my name on them (fake vagina's and stuff), a podcast and maybe a presence in mainstream media.

Barely Legal #119 came out in 2011. You were 23. Explain yourself. But in all seriousness, how common is stuff like this? I mean, finding girls that look young and passing them off as 18.

Very common. Sorry to spoil the fantasy....just pretend. :)

What is one of the craziest things you have experienced while on set? Has anyone ever done something that made you not want to film that scene anymore?

I have been fortunate to never have anything really crazy happen on set. But there was a time when i did a three way scene and the male talent acted like he didn't even want to touch me with a 10 foot pole. He was really into the other girl we were working with and that is cool and all, but it made me feel so uncomfortable! I almost walked right off set during the scene.

Your ass is superfine, may I touch it?

If we ever run into each other in public, yes ill let you touch it.

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This one is a favorite of many of my fans: http://www.victoriaraeblack.org/2011/04/victoria-rae-black-pussy-password-cumfiesta-tube-vide/

I LOVED this one though: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=396142322

If you like them, please support the studios by getting a membership and legally downloading the video.

Thanks for doing this IAMA

*Would you ever escort? *Is there anything you won’t do on video? *Do you like cheese grits? * ever have sex with Hefner? What was that like?

HA! - Escorting is....seems scary. I'm up on a few escorting sites and have no idea who or why. - I won't do anal. - Sure. I like anything with cheese. -Never fucked Hef. We watched old movies A LOT.