IamA Legal Hooker Who Funded My Custom-Built Gaming PC Through Sex With Reddit Virgins AMA!

1) What are some of the big reasons these guys aren't getting laid? Are they physically repulsive? Socially inept? Nothing wrong with them, just lacking confidence?

2) Did any cry?

Most of the Reddit virgins that I saw in 2016 were in their early 20s and very handsome. They weren't sure about how the mechanics worked and wanted a professional walk through. I gave them my contact info and let them know that if they need any girl advice I'm here to help. Honestly I'd probably be a 22 year old virgin if I was a dude, woman can give off very confusing signals so I have fun explaining the psychology of the 'mating dance' and how it works.

There were a few virgins I recently saw who had a lot of issues with opening up to other people because of disabilities and past experiences. Some had ED from masturbating for years of their life, I gave them a nurturing experience and treated them with understanding and respect.

None cried. I must be doing something right! :3

Some had ED from masturbating for years of their life,

Hang on, is that a thing? I thought masturbating was healthy :/

Wow, I just read this whole thread and you guys are spot on. Thank you for clarifying! If you are trying to transition from masturbating to sex with a woman it can be hard if you've been masturbating for a decade every day.

A few times a week is okay but not every day. That will definitely lead to ED later on. Deathgrip OP!

Do you think many of them will move beyond sex workers after they've seen you, or are their issues more persistent?

And do you have opinions on why so many young guys have trouble "getting it" these days? (Double entendre not intended.) Young and handsome, so no major reason they shouldn't be able to find partners, so why do they need their hands held? Is it just women being complicated, or is there some larger social shift happening? I think of how in Japan nearly half of men 18-34 are virgins and wonder if there's something similar going on here.

The point of hiring me as an adult virgin is to get rid of your training wheels. So yes I'd hope that they go on and have fulfilling sex lives. I'm here for support until they can make that happen. I focus on empowering my clients in sessions, so I've been told many success stories by former clients.

For men there's so much social pressure to provide for their families. They have to slave away at school for years only to slave away at a job for the rest of their life. I think this pressure is why sex isn't prioritized until after the other goals listed have been met. It's not exactly right. This definitely applies to the male demographic in Japan.

Is your hooker status public and well known? If yes, how do you comprehend with society, emotionally and mentally ?

I've never been recognized in public before and I'm very lowkey about what I do. Everyone in my hometown found out so I don't really talk to my family anymore. Friends in my personal life are aware of my occupation and they are respectful about it. My circle is small and some of my close friends are sex workers as well, so I'm able to still have a healthy social life.

Welcome to reddit.

If you are up for it I would like to ask you two tough questions, motivated by curiosity.

A frequent debate on Reddit is whether or not older guys who are virgins, and frustrated by it, should visit a prostitute.

A number of guys are encouraging about it.

Other guys say that will put them in the position of forever lying to future SOs when asked about their sexual history or risk losing dates/GFs/SOs by being honest.

In those threads a number of women will usually chime in to reenforce that point by writing that there is something about having patronized a sex worker that gives them a reflexive, emotional, squick - turn off response they often can't undo.

What would be your reply to these arguments against visiting sex workers?

Also, many women on reddit who feel this way about men who use sex workers are also very adamant about supporting sex workers. Do you see that as hypocritical on their part?

One time I found out that my ex boyfriend was looking at porn, it made me feel very insecure. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough if he could just search up some hot spinner porn on the web anytime he felt like it. This was before I became a sex worker mind you.

Now that I've crossed over to the dark side I don't mind the idea of a partner watching porn or even seeing prostitute/ strippers. I'd only be comfortable with them to see a legal sex worker though, since that's the safest option available. Condoms are mandatory and the girls are tested weekly so you won't ever bring anything unwanted home to your SO.

It can also be the stigma. The other night I was watching a That 70s Show episode where Hyde accidentally married a stripper in Vegas. He brought her home and Jackie kept on calling her a whore. Was it because she was jealous or just disgusted by the fact that this stripper was okay with being nude in front of men for a living? Either insecurity or stigma I'd say. I blame society on this one.

There are open minded ladies who are completely chill about these things, this is kind of rare unfortunately. I think that a man who lost his V-Card to a sex worker should be forward about their sexual history, you shouldn't have to hide anything from someone you consider your soul mate. I don't mean to sound like an ass, just my honest opinion from personal experience.

Thank you for the answer.

You have whetted my appetite for some That 70s Show reruns. Haven't seen it in a while! :)

Sorry for the spoilers but it was a good way to drive the point home, lol I'm a flower child at heart. 8)

I saw every single episode when the show came out. No worries :).

<3

This might be the greatest thing I'll see in 2017 already.

Ever considered a similar fundraiser ahead of the Steam Sales?

I've never even considered this before, I may have to use your idea. :p

Discounts for Steam Gifts!

YAAS!

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Yes, probably. It's hard to not to have feelings, especially with your regulars. It's unprofessional to catch the feels for a client though, you never know if he has another woman that he takes care of at home. My clients come to see me because they know I'm safe and I won't create drama about our love life. Think of it as friends with benefits!

What video games have you/ are going to play with your gaming pc?

I have Oblivion and both versions of Skyrim at the moment. I just downloaded the mod Enderal which is an entirely different game just run on Skyrim's engine. Pretty much switched over to PC master race because I love ultra modded Skyrim. I've been strictly playing Bethesda games, if anyone has any recommendations for similar styled RPGs please let me know!

Witcher 3. Almost everyone will agree it's fantastic.

I keep on hearing that about Witcher 3. I guess I have to buy it now. Heh :p

Yes you really should. Easily in my top 3. Actual question: did you have any of the reddit virgins as returning clients?

Yes, I get many repeats actually! A few from Reddit can't seem to get enough of me, which is awesome! It's not easy for everyone to repeat as much as they'd like, but people that visit from a Nevada/ California have better luck in that category. I'm grateful because I can occasionally be with a peer who has a similar appreciation of the internet. <3

Have you had a customer last less than a minute?

Yes.

Do you let them finish more than once

Of course! I'm multi orgasmic so it's only fair. :P

How many years is the average length for a hooker? A typical career can be 30 years, but prostitution has to be more like modeling right? (Except for age fetishes)

This is a hard question to answer. You have to be smart and mature to thrive in this industry, so a lot of young/ pretty girls drop out after a few weeks. Girls can stay in for a few years and make their goals then leave, or they stay for decades and get rich. It just depends on the individual.

I'm signing off for tonight. Thank you all for your questions, see y'all again sometime! <3

What do you make on an average customer? And what does your build consist of!

Typically I make 4-5 figures, that's the cool thing about being a high end/ legal prostitute. I accommodate 3 figure budgets as well but I'd rather more be invested so that me and my partner don't have to rush things!

I used pcpartpicker, so I will link my build down below. <3

https://pcpartpicker.com/list/7ggJBP

That is a really solid build, you might like a Mech Keyboard more unless you are a couch gamer.

Thank you, I'll check it out!

Have you ever encountered someone dangerous or shady?

Working inside of a legal brothel is as safe as it gets for sex work. I was completely new to this industry coming in because I was not willing to do it in an unsafe/ shady manner.

Shady people trickle in rarely but we have security/ staff members that take care of those things. We have panic buttons in our personal suites, so if a party went sour we could let the office know that we need help ASAP. My health has never been compromised from working in a NV brothel.

I've seen quite a few AMA's with sex workers and they all claim they are STD free, which I am always surprised about. You state you are tested often, but does that test include HSV2 (genital herpes)? The average STD test does not include them and condoms do not fully protect against it as it can be transferred from skin to skin near the genitals. I'm not doubting your claim, but even with condoms your chance of getting HSV2 is only reduced 30-50% and 1 in 4 people have it. So my questions is, does your STD test include screening for HSV2 or is it pretty much accepted that HSV2 is nearly impossible to avoid with long term sex work and you just don't work when an outbreak is present?

Yes we are tested for everything. It's mandatory by state law that we are squeaky clean before we work, once the results are finished it has to be sent to the sheriff's office every week so that they can physically see everything is safe for the public. We also do blood tests every 4 weeks.

Edit: I forgot to clarify properly here, in the Nevada brothels everything is legal and 100% safe. Independants not so much. We litterally have to test every week in house, and if we miss the doc then we can't work the floor or do appointments for that week. It's all regulated by state law.

Thanks for answering, I should have checked before my comment but Nevada state law DOES NOT require testing for Herpes (HSV1 or HSV2). They do require testing for HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, Chlamydia and trachomatis. Does it concern you that you most likely are not tested for HSV1 or HSV2 and every new partner increases your chance of contracting either?

Source: http://www.leg.state.nv.us/NAC/NAC-441A.html#NAC441ASec800

I test for HSV1 /HSV2 quarterly. HPV vaccines are a thing. Of course disease is a concern of mine, but I'm pretty sure that a civilian is at more risk than I am of contracting these.

How "independent" are you? With Dennis Hof controlling so many of the brothels in Nevada, are you required to retweet him and do you have to shill for his book (featured in many pics) to keep working in one of his houses? Is there a PR specialist with you to "help" you with the AMA?

I am legally an Independent Contractor. I appreciate your skepticism but I am not required to do any of those things that you mentioned. The whole company works as a team and we do have people who work on the PR side of things. Both of the IAmA that I've done have been 100% me.

Edit: I forgot to mention his book. The Art of the PIMP is badass, and the cover art is lovely. Definitely read it if you're up for a sexually deviant and heinous tale.

How much did the PC cost and how much were you charging?

What was the creepiest, or most awkward, experience you had with a Reddit virgin?

The best experience with a Reddit virgin?

The whole set up costs about 3,500$. I mentioned my rates down below. The creepy/ awkward experiences I have had at my work have not been from any virgins, lol. The best experience? Maybe he's reading, but we spent a lot of time together recently, ate at my favorite restaurant, had amazing sex and we had the same exact taste in video games among a lot of other awesome stuff. I really hope he comes back soon! <3

how many guys did you fucked so far??

What if I told you that I'm a virgin? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Have you played The Elder Scrolls: Legends yet?

No I have not, I'm not sure if that's something I'd enjoy playing. I'm super picky. You do you Bethesda

Yeah that game type does not appeal for everyone, but I'm only playing until I get a certain legendary artifact!

Good luck my friend!

Will you be able to take a tax deduction for your gaming system? Would you be able to sell it as a business/marketing aid to better connect with reddit virgins?

If you were to get audited, what would be the strangest thing you would try to detect as legitimate business expense?

Well I do use my set up for my business. So yes it's a business expense.

Before you started this how much experience did you have with sex, this field, and virgins?

I did have sexual experience prior to my plunge into Legal Prostitution in Nevada two years ago and I started completely green. Most of my boy friends in high school were virgins until they met me. :3

Why specifically virgins?

I reached out to the virgins of Reddit in July because I genuinely like working with that sort of demographic, you could say it's a fetish of mine to deflower people. That's not all that I cater to, but I usually have shared interests with virgins searching the web. It works out nicely! 8)

In which country or city ?

I work at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch North in Carson City, Nevada.

Nevada is in USA.

Are you originally from Nevada or did you move there to work at the ranch?

I am originally from Texas. I moved here two years ago to start working at the ranches. Best life changing decision I've made yet!

I grew up down the street from there. Lemme tell ya, before Hof put that big ass dirt hill in the lot behind the playground that faces there, kids in my neighborhood got quite a show at night!

I don't know how to feel about that, lol! Glad to see a local poster here though! <3

Just wondering, in what state do you live that allows hooking to be legal? Just wondering you don't have to answer.

Welcome to the pc master race!

I wonder how people will react if you post that there.

Nevada is the only state in the USA that provides legal brothels.

where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Probably still working at the Hof's ranches. I want to dedicate up to a decade to this. We'll see what happens!

I remember the original post! So, I'm not surprised the response was so great, but how did it go? Did that initial post just bring in droves of virgins? Too much to handle?

Yes, I had 100+ emails from my last IAmA! Lots of people were asking for advice which was extremely flattering. I did get to meet a few that Reddit sent, all very cool people. Some have even dubbed me "Every Redditor's wet dream" :⁾

Why did you choose this career to fund your personal interests? Do you think that you would have chosen a different path, if given the chance? If yes, which one?

I like having the freedom to make my own schedule/ hours. I also love the fact that I never know what to expect going into work everyday. I get bored easily so being stuck in a rut is not healthy for me and my work allows for this to never happen. I have the ability to work from home if I so choose.

I had a modest upbringing, so this was the quickest way out of my home town. If I was born rich I probably would have gone into something different.

Being a 19 y/o virgin I am curious as to what the biggest tip you would give your clients?

Biggest tip? I'm assuming that you mean how to be successful in the dating world?

Be authentic. Communicate your sexual/ emotional needs in a reasonable and honest manner. If you're 100% candid with someone that you're interested in then they will appreciate that, and it saves time because if you aren't yourself and reel someone in that way it doesn't work for long at all. Be patient, have a standard and develop good socializing skills by putting yourself in social situations you normally wouldn't find yourself in. Of course that depends if you're introverted/ extroverted. Be confident, this attracts ladies.

BE A GENT IN THE STREETS, FREAK IN THE SHEETS!

How are you enjoying tonight's snow storm?

It's not snowing here yet... Lol spoilers.

The rain was awful. The last few hours turned to snow. Be safe driving to the ranch tomorrow!

Aye aye captain! <3

Good morning everyone, I'm going live again so feel free to ask me anything!

What's an acceptable price range?

By what means is it legal? Is there just a state law or something?

How much work is required for sustainability of your lifestyle?

I answered your first 3 questions somewhere below. I am living comfortably by working roughly one week on/ one week off year round.

oops

Also noticed, this thread is crazy downvote heavy for some reason.

It's k : ^ )

Can we set up an appointment even if I'm not a virgin?

Yes you can email me at [email protected] -I'm happy cater to all different individuals, virgin or not!

What are your thoughts on Dennis running for office?

Dennis saw some issues in the area that he was running for, at first I'm not sure how seriously he took it but after awhile people started looking to him for change. It was awesome to see the support that he got. I hope he stays in.

Did any of your now ex-virgin clients comment?

I sure hope so! If so give me a shout. <3

1. Specs? We have yet to see the specs of that system? Have you been ripped off or was it worth the money?
2. Next time, get advice on reddit and set yourself up with an awesome system, the experience alone is worth it.
3. Never overspend on a gaming rig, they loose value faster than a BMW M3 and the next model is so much faster for the same price.
4. Have fun gaming on the system, and fun over all :)

I linked my pcpartpicker list down below. It was definitely not a rip off, top of the line stuff. I had a friend help me with setting things up since I'm just a noob at this but I'm fairly sure it's optimized.

Do you find it difficult to develope or hold serious relationships while doing this work? Assuming this is something you want.

Do you know anyone personally that has had a long term serious relationship while holding this type of job?

Also, do you all service to women aswell? (sorry if that's a dumb question)

I have been single for a few years and I prefer it that way. I love the freedom of being able to be my own person, but I'm open to a possible relationship after my career path has changed.

Some long term girls are married or have had boy friends. It's completely normal, you just have to find someone who is comfortable with what you do. This is a struggle for all sex workers around the world, it's a sacrifice that you make.

I love other women, I have girl friends that I party with at the ranches and some female clients do come through to visit. It's rare though, most of the customers that come in the brothels are male. When a woman comes in she is most definitely welcome. :)

While I am a heterosexual woman and would live to have my world rocked by a another girl one day, I don't hear of very many male prostitutes. Being someone who sees things from the "inside" why do you think that is?

Male prostitutes simply aren't in demand as much a female prostitutes.

True that does make alot of sence. In a perfect world women would be able to indulge and express there sexuality and desire just as much as men with getting as much back lash for it. Then it would totally make sence to have more male prostitutes.

Thank you so much for your response! Reading this thread has given me a new outlook on your line of work that I don't think that I had before.

Thank you for taking the time to read the thread! <3

Honestly I think that there's a stigma attached to ANYONE indulging in sex work. It's not gender specific anymore. Another thing is that it's much easier for women to get laid, it's just how human nature works.

if u had a character in a down and dirty mortal kombat-style fighting game, what fighting moves would you have?

I actually play Soulcalibur V competitively so this is funny that you ask about this. I only can comprehend the mechanics of SCV, assuming all fighting game share the same fundamentals I'd use something with a small amount of frames for optimal banging speed and a quick recovery.

Have you ever hit a guy in the balls (accidentally or intentionally) or wanted to? What happened and how did he react?

No.

what 5 things would u try to experience if u could be the opposite gender for a day?

I'd love to have sex while using my penis. That would feel AMAZING I bet. That's about it. I like being a chick.

Okay everyone I am going to be back to answer more questions in a few hours. I have to get ready for the floor now, <3

Are you still assisting Reddit virgins?

Yes I am. :) Always. You guys are awesome. I should offer a Redditor discount I think.

:) I also sent you an email, found it on your twitter account

Thank you! <3

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Sure! Foot fetish is actually a lot of fun, my feet are super sensitive. :x

May I contact you? Privately?

Thank you for your time and for doing this

Of course! You can email me at [email protected] <3

What's the first game you bought/played on your new PC?

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim!

What's your favorite soda?

Sprite! =)

if it's not too rude, what's the next step? my understanding of these careers is that they are highly lucrative and often (but not always) involve an expensive lifestyle but also are temporary in nature. so I'm curious as to the plan going forward

Not rude at all! My lifestyle isn't as expensive as some would think, I try to save as much as I can for an early retirement/ investing while living modestly. The purchase that I made for the setup was a goal of mine for years and I was finally able to do it for myself. Typically I don't make purchases like this at all. The most expensive part of my lifestyle is staying fresh, so I have to make sure my feet/ hands are taken care of, make up is on point, clothes on point, eyebrows need to be waxed etc. I was never a girly girl before this so it's been fun. :3