cyanocobalamin

Welcome to reddit.

If you are up for it I would like to ask you two tough questions, motivated by curiosity.

A frequent debate on Reddit is whether or not older guys who are virgins, and frustrated by it, should visit a prostitute.

A number of guys are encouraging about it.

Other guys say that will put them in the position of forever lying to future SOs when asked about their sexual history or risk losing dates/GFs/SOs by being honest.

In those threads a number of women will usually chime in to reenforce that point by writing that there is something about having patronized a sex worker that gives them a reflexive, emotional, squick - turn off response they often can't undo.

What would be your reply to these arguments against visiting sex workers?

Also, many women on reddit who feel this way about men who use sex workers are also very adamant about supporting sex workers. Do you see that as hypocritical on their part?

Thank you for the answer.

You have whetted my appetite for some That 70s Show reruns. Haven't seen it in a while! :)

I saw every single episode when the show came out. No worries :).