I am a Female Escort AMA

Do you ever have female clients? If so, what are they like?

Yes actually much more then I would have ever expected. 4-5 times a week a female will get in touch on average. It is VERY common for women and men to want threesomes. The age range goes all over the place from 18 to 40's. Sometimes it is a young couple wanting to experiment, a girl wanting to see her man with another woman, or a guy wanting to watch both etc. so many versions of this plays out. But yes much more common than I expected.

Do you ever have female clients by themselves? Or is that a rarity?

probably 1-2 request a week.

Out of how many? Hard to calibrate x per week without a denominator.

out of 80 male clients, i'd say you get 1 female but that's an estimate.

What type of fetishes or sex acts are most commonly requested from your female clientele?

usually fucking bf in front of them, or... fucking the girl while bf watches, sometimes if its lesbians it's same with some degrading to the partner.

Ever just been an escort, without having sex with a client?

yeah happens quite often.

Does it happen because they don’t want to or you’re just not feeling it?

you can't take money off someone and not deliver that would be stealing. lol. So it's just usually they want to talk/lonely etc.

If a guy pays for an escort and she's not feeling it, there's going to be an issue. That's getting paid for something and not delivering.

exactly.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your parallel parking skills?

6

Why did you decide to become an escort and if you could go back would you make the same decision?

I got into porn work several years ago, I actually make a decent amount of money, I own some property I rent out, and I've even got my own gym. Well I did I sold the gym. But I'm involved in a few businesses. Truthfully I actually quite enjoy escorting of course the money is GOOD too.. The end goal is to retire relatively young and enjoy myself.

Do you worry about stds?

Good question! I always use protection and get checked every month!

How much is your hourly rate?

Have you ever been contracted for days?

Yes I have, and depending on boom periods, 120-140 GBP this changes on if they want extras or not.

What is considered an extra?

Or maybe a better question what is considered ‘standard’ service? Just P in V?

standard service would be basic sex, kissing etc, some people might require something that obviously takes a lot of work, some charge extra for anal, etc.

What is non basic sex? Just for reference, so I know how basic I am.

anal, paying for videos, some charge for deep french kissing, maybe some special requests, most charge extra for shower cus have to redo make up after etc, Some guys want a girl to use a strapon on him, others even piss lol.

Have you ever peed on anybody? If so was it weird? Or is it just like a normal Tuesday for you now?

haha i wont do peeing.

to make it easier for everyone.. idea of pricing.

https://www.vivastreet.co.uk/escort/tong-street-bd4/-gorgeous-gym-girl-fit-curvy-owo-american-gfe/288719449

Can I ask what part of the country you're based in?

just outside leeds.

What is your favorite and least favorite parts of your profession?

Have you ever developed feelings for a client?

Thank you for doing an AMA. ☺️

No to feelings, I've only done the escorting for around 3 months currently.fav part is I can sit on someones face and get paid for it. Least fav Smelly clients or clients that taste like smoke as i'm a none smoker.

You've been doing escorting for 3 months roughly and you already own a gym?

And you're a landlord who owns multiple properties, just how much are you pulling in from escorting to afford all this?

I was involved in other stuff before doing escorting, lol. Most of my money was already made. I did the escorting as it was something people had asked me to do for upwards of 10 years and I'd never done, when I took the first step I realised it was good money and something I wanted to do.

How often are your requests non-sexual?

1 out of every 20 probably

What do they usually involve?

talking, listening.

Have you ever had a friend or relative show up as a client unexpectedly?

ive had a friends dad turn up ha.

On average, how many different clients will you see a week? What percentage of those are repeat customers?

I get a lot of repeat customers. Probably 60% become repeats. and it can change. from 7-9 a day.

How does one safely find an actual escort?

adultwork and viva street in uk.

Is it mostly acting for you during the job and even during sex?

Depends, I've had some mind blowing sex, and Some clients I really enjoy.

Makes sense. What would the ratio be for you on good clients vs, well, let's say clients you need to act for?

probably 50/50. I've had some clients i've not found particularly attractive perform amazing oral sex on me (this is quite common a lot of guys pay just to get the girl off) where I've had a mind blowing orgasm. There isn't many Igenuinely dislike. Very rare

I assume that sometimes there isn't a lot of foreplay. Do you still enjoy the sex in Those cases?

Yes, though quite a lot of guys enjoy the forplay and want it.

Blows my mind that you get paid to received mind blowing sex and oral.. RECEIVE!! I'm surprised these individuals need such a service if they are skilled. I always kind of assumed they were people who were bad at the acts and/or just wanted them for their own pleasure solely on the receiving end themselves - thinking selfish lover

No sometimes gorgeous men arrive. Iguess it all depends on what their living situation is.

Back in my days, my biggest issue with some men, was that they didn’t smell great (and I have an intense sense of smell). How I used to deal with that is offer to shower together. Some didn’t want to; so how do you deal with that, when they smell very bad, but won’t have a wash?

My days in that industry are long past, but I’ve always wondered.

Edited to add: for anything oral, I would just wash things in a sensual way, and not mind the clock, but care about the experience. I should say I got paid per date, not per hour. I don’t know if that helps determine an answer.

I always offer shower facilities first if they refuse they go end of on that. Idiotic isn't it but 99% who come are clean... I've probably jinxed myself and the next guy will stink lol.. Now but hey! I always use the wet wipe method before oral as well!

Great answer!

Yeah most of mine were fine, but some were super nice, lovely people, the older ones usually seemed to be odd about washing. They treated me well otherwise.

I used to light candles to shower/bathe by so they wouldn’t feel awkward under bright lights - but yeah.

Yes! it's pretty much the same here even the candles haha.

Ahh, good. I have been looking for an escort to question.

Why do you guys always run faster than my walk speed, and slower than my sprint speed? It makes escort missions really annoying. I hope you will correct this behavior in the future.

haha

What are client behaviours that you consider disrespectful (and they typically don’t)? And vice versa, what is totally fine while they feel it’s not?

Anything with violence is a no no, refusing to go or haggling pay etc. I don't mind a full discussion with someone on what their fantasy is or might be and how we are going to play it out. Nothing offends me i've heard it all. If it's something I wont do I just politely decline. obviously if someone comes who is not clean I find it very disrespectful I take showers so I expect the same.

What if someone refuses to go and gets violent

I have security this has happened before.

How does dating go for you? Have a partner?

yes i do - 13 years. he knows all i do.

Is it weird if a client fucks you better than he does?

no some do lol.

Do you have any personal kinks or fetishes?

I myself love being dominated, called a slut whore etc.

Have you ever had anyone start to form an emotional attachment or try to develop something romantic? How do you handle something like that?

i'm very careful with handling my clients. if i notice they are serious abougt trying something romantici cut them off. i will inform them it's my job, and they are paying me - it's a business relationship only

Is there actually a link between poor paternal relationships/childhood trauma and the sex work industry to your knowledge?

No, I know some come from that. But then I know some who are really close to their family, some who have family who even know.

What was the absolute biggest, meatiest hog you've ever encountered?

some are too big and I have to turn away 12-13 inches thick as fuck.

Do you attempt with those or straight decline right out of the gate? I can’t imagine many with 12-13 inches but I’m thinking more of the thick dudes.

So i'll be honest, tell them I can suck, do other activities etc, but if they dont want to do that I understand and return the money.

How do people in your industry determine prices for various services? What are yours and why did you choose those?

Based off competition in the area. You can be gal gadot or Jennifer lopez if you try charging 400 for an hour you wont make a penny. There is gorgeous women and the competition is furious.

Do you have a set price list, or do you negotiate prices with each client?

SETPRICE

Do you change prices depending on the client? If so what factors go into the price change?

no prices change based on what extras the client might want the length of time etc.

How would you identify a legitimate escort service versus a sting operation? As someone in their 30s and has anxiety issues, I'd like to lose my v-card before death.

vivastreet and adultwork is a good place to start. You wont find a sting operation in the uk it is legal.

What is the ratio of your clientele, between male virgins and married men or men in relationships?

ooh this is a really hard one because most won't be honest A LOT are married obviously or have girlfriends probably 80% alot are single and a few are clearly virgins or admit to it afterwards

What do you escort?

cocks into my vagina lol.

What is the nicest place you've been taken to?

I had someone famous,I can't say the name or anything obviously just they are involved in sports... They took me to an amazing hotel!

Kyle Walker

correct sport wrong guy haha

It was Werner, but he couldnt get his cock in.

haha I like this one.

How you deal with jerks?

I have a security team.

So how does that work? Are you in some sort of venue with more people in the business, and do you share the costs? Can you just press a button and security will come running?

it's private security and more along the lines of press a biutton and someone comes running.

What’s the worst experience you’ve had(or rather, that you’re willing to share)?

I had someone attempt to rape and security had to give him a kick in.

Favorite position?

missionary or 69

How many females have you escorted?

probably over 60.

Since you've mentioned really liking some clients and enjoying yourself - is there ever the "danger" of forming a deeper connection, and if so, do you allow yourself to let it happen?*Or is there a clearly defined "wall" around you that simply do not cross with anyone when it's business?

*not talking about falling in love, just about maybe wanting to see someone again, missing them for a while, not being really free for the next client, something like this.

no, that/s not an issue for me. if i'm honest, i form that wall around everyone who isn't in my close knit group, i don't trust people with anything and i do n't want to know more about their lives than they tell me nor do they know about me. there's been a few clients i wish they'd come cause they're good at sex or really attractive but pining for them or giving them extra time 100% no.

Who gets paid the most in escorting? In other words... What body type, ethnicity, skin color, height, hair? Is there a fetish/look/body that gets way more demand? Who gets paid LARGE

None. There is so many doing it. If you want a girl who looks underage there is 18-21 year olds who look 13. All doing it at similar prices. likewise if you want a muscular girl there is tons doing it. If you want a good looking Chubby girl the same. When you hear "Footballer spends 4000 on escort" What people forget is that this guy has booked this girl for 1-2 days i've had similar, so lets say I Charge 150 for an hour, if I get aguy and I have had who has wanted me to stay 1-2 days you get an idea of how much money I'm making.. Thats what happens with the footballers/celebrities. they keep a girl for a few days, They don't pay her 4000 for one off sex.Thats just how the media portrays her as a "high end" escort. lol. And there is rules too for example if you book for 30 minutes you can only cum once.

Have you ever encountered a strange or dangerous person?

Yes, On both ends, on the strange side. I once encountered a man who paid for an hour...After paying he didn't want sex he informed me he was not in control of himself and a demon was inside him. He stripped naked and ran around the apartment.. He was extremely skinny almost sickly/dangerous looking. Maybe 100lbs at 5'9 He claimed the Demon gave him super speed and ran back and forth trying toshow me.. He claimed he had super strength and could lift cars... Showed me strange videos of him at home..He was not dangerous at all.. But he told me look into my eyes.. Can you see! I have no soul!! I don't know evil or Good I just "am" Then when the hour was up he got upset but didn't have any more money. He used me as a councilor I guess to some degree lol..

Was he actually fast?

yes haha scary fast

So he WAS possessed by a demon!!

Maybe!!!

Counselor, yeah.

at the time it was mind blowing. I didn't really believe it was happening. I never felt in danger but It just got more insane by the minute.

Thank you for taking our questions: do you have any suggestions for a women seeking male services ? Do’s, don’t and do you believe that these tips apply to both women and Men workers!

for a woman looking for a male, i'd use adultwork and check feedback etc.

Has anyone ever hired you for your time in a nonsexual way?

IE, have you play board games or role playing games for an evening. Smash Brothers Tournament or something similar.

Yes, i've had it for games, and also people who have lost loved ones etc.

What do you REALLY think about your clients?

Some of them I really like being honest. lol.

Do you have clients that request Your company specifically during your period?

No, but now that youmentioned this im sure it will happen and i'll remember this post haha.

What is your funniest story/what is the funniest request you've gotten from a client?

I have a client who always buys me different socks to wear. one who wanted to sniff my asshole. I know some over the top funny ones that have happened to friends but might offend some people.

Do you ever get a client and just say, “no sorry I can’t with you”, because of a physical appearance, mental impairment, burn victim, smells and just plain gross or give off a weird vibe?

yes

best time waster story?

best attempt to be scammed?

Best timewaster happened to a friend actually, He came in this little chinese guy and went on about how beautiful she was wanting time of his life, then he asked to use the toilet, had a shit it stunk and he left lol.

As a customer what are the things one could do and things to avoid doing to make sure it's the best experience for both parties?

arrive on time.

don't ask 10001 questions on the phone. just the basics.

have a shower first - and if there's any thing specific you want her to wear ask ahead time. be kind and just read her signals. she'll guide you.

Just be clean and specific on what type of experience youwant, respect what they don't do. and Be clear on what you want then enjoy yourselves.

What things should a virgin boy know before having sex?

Well it depends really Assuming you was booking me for example I'd ask what you were hoping/looking for. what you wanted etc if you wanted me to take control and what not.

How do you safely order an escort?

deliveroo

find a reliable website and message them- depends what coungtry you are

So, I have a brother who really needs a positive female experience (ie. a date). Is this something that Escorts do? Just a normal, every day, go out to dinner, movie and perhaps nothing else? The girlfriend experience I suppose you could call it.

Yes but make sure you get the right girl, some escorts have awful attitudes, and would see this as an easy way to make money but not give a positive experience.

What’s your favourite sandwich?

I don't eat sandwiches but peanut butter and jelly or chicken and bacon.

Scrolling thru ur profile, I noticed you had mentioned you lost a significant amount of weight. And based off of your build, and your impressive af gains - curious to know if you've ever/or are currently using anabolics? (Not judging you-you're beautiful.. I'm just genuinely curious)

yes I have and no worries thank you for the compliment.

The question in every AMA. What do you prefer, uncut or cut? And dick size?

Probably uncut Better to give a blow job to! BUT too much forskin can be hard to make someone cum so both have advantages/disadvantages! Perfect dick size mhmm for escorting or enjoyment?

How do you handle older virgins? I'm not one myself but it's been a long time.

same waay I would any client with respect!

If you had to choose between fighting to death a giant horse sized duck or 100 duck sized horses, which one would you choose?

100 duck sized horses.

What did you have for breakfast?

whey protein, oats, omega 3 fish oil capsules, some Vitamins :)

How does one get into this sort of business if they were interested in high class clientele. Asking for a friend 👀?

it's impossible really to just pick "high class clientele" if you do, you likely wont make a lot of money. But you could do it as a side gig, all depends on the amount you want and a bit of luck.

Do you enjoy it somtimes? And what makes it enjoyable ?

Good sex, good looking clients, Nice people etc.

Is there any male body type you have a hard time having sex with? Even if clean and properly manshaped?

very fat men. i struggle in terms of they can be sweaty and commonly have erection issues due to high estrogen. it's also the farthest from my "turn ons"

Where does one solicit the services of an escort?

I'm on adultwork and also viva street.

Thanks for doing the AMA.

• What’s the average dick size you’ve personally encountered?

• How long can most guys go before they bust a nut

• What are the top 3 service requests you get? (BJ, doggie, etc.)

Doggie is most popular, bj, me on top everyone loves a kiss, striptease, neck kisses etc. Average is all over, i've had guys cum in 20 seconds, others in 40 mns, usually most have within 5 minutes with me. dick size is all over 2 inches to 10. lol

Hi there, few questions:

1. What's your favorite fragrance to use on dates?
2. How many of your clients (in %) would you say are addicted to porn?
3. Can you draw a correlation between a clients porn usage and how they behave or perform on a date?
4. Besides the money, how do you psyche yourself into being with someone you don't find attractive?
5. What do your clients compliment you most on?
6. Has your job made you more or less respectful of men?

toujours moi.

-no idea that's not something i discuss usually.

- most who look up a lot of porn don't visit. they just wank.

- i'm not sure how i do it. i think i get off on the money if i'm honest. it makes m wet. it's emporwering.

- compliment most on ass or legs.

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Whats the furthest a client went to showing you a great time? Like flew you to Rome or something as an example.

I had a client who is a famous athlete, who did a lot for me including tickets, hotels, holidays etc.

How do you network/find clients if your job is technically illegal?

certain websites. viva or adultwork. it's legal in uk

Favourite subway sauces?

lol, not a huge subway fan.

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cash is prefered though some take bank transfer, Ido but cash is usually better for the client as well.

What do you think of the film "Good luck to you, Leo Grande"?

never seen it

Ever crossed the line and dated a client?

nope, never and wouldn't.