I was in several comas over a four months period. From 2017-2018, doctors diagnosed me as brain dead and said I would most likely die. However, I was in a pseudo coma, locked in, conscious the entire time. AMA

Did you hear anyone trash talk about you?

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Yes sadly

How did you stay sane? Where did you place your mind, to keep from losing it?

Very good question.... it was very hard but I had A lot of love for my wife and I tried to keep looking to the future even though I had little or no chance. Also I have a very good sense of humor I tried to keep that alive the entire time in my own head.

That was genius to keep a sense of humor

You have to it’s really help me with my entire recovery. It is one of the reasons I’ve been able to accomplish the impossible

Was there anything you found uncontrollable? Like you would really wanna laugh but couldn't? It's strange, when I try

My laugh is absolutely ridiculous now I breathe in instead of out. You can see a example on my YouTube channel

Were you awake the whole time? Did you dream at all? Did you feel any pain or felt any physical touch?

I was in there and out but yes I could feel pain and that there were times where I felt nothing and times I felt everything

Can you share some interesting attempts to wake you up? Did people try bringing food you love in an attempt to see if you move? Or deliver some shocking news in hopes of jolting you awake?

My wife had a very good feeling that it was really there... she would read to me and tell me about what was going on in her life. She tried to heap things very calm for me.

There is one very distant memory I have of my mother-in-law coming to see me and talk to me. Because we are 99% sure this was caused by drug use and she knew nothing about this... she said “I forgive you for everything and every day don’t worry I will take care of your wife” she was crying and I felt like crying.

Since I’ve been able to talk again we have discussed this. I told her in that moment I felt like I shed a tear. She actually told me she thinks she could tell I was sad and was almost caring.

Can you tell us how was the moment you finally communicate with another human after being trapped inside your body? who noticed? how did you "speak"? tell us, please.

My wife she could tell by my eyes. Eventually stuck out my tongue for yes and then blink my eyes for no. That led to a letter board

wow...so you were able to see and hear but not able to move your body?

Hear and see nothing else

No smell?

No not until I began to recover then hypersensitive

If given the opportunity, would you have preferred to have been euthanized? I hope this isn’t overstepping, I’m genuinely curious.

Not overstepping at all this is AMA. The honest answer is there are times where yea if I had the Choice in that moment I would have taken it but I had those feelings rarely so overall no

Were you able to move your eyes at all to communicate during the coma?

How are you now?

Thank you!!

No not then but by the time I was put on hospice care I was able to communicate with my eyes only. After about 16 months in rehabilitation hospitals All things considering I am doing remarkably well and continue to. I have a long way to go and I am beginning to really learn how to walk.

Thank you!

So like sleep paralysis but for 2 years???? wtf i had that shit for like 3 mins and thought i was going to die.

My “comas” went on from October 2017 two February 2018. Then I went to home care hospice for six months where I was virtually locked in.

Yeah it was awful

Good to know you are recovering. When you say, that you facing challenges with regards to physical movements, did it also affect your verbal communication? Did your voice get altered a bit? Etc...

Yes slurred speech

Oh... Is there any improvement on that front as well? And all the best on your recovery!!💐

Yes in every area thank you very much

Are you turned off from heroin or do you still crave it?

Turn off 100% it is the devil

Really curious where your mind goes for months on end? To what degree was it boredom, anxiety, acceptance of situation, etc? I've sat in a dark room by myself for hours, but I can still scratch if I have an itch, or get up to get a drink if I'm thirsty. Really wondering how your mind adapts to the situation, and how your perspective changes? Any thoughts on consciousness that arose from your perspective? thanks

There are so many adjectives to try describe this, I have been searching but there is not one word that can captivate everything.

I mean there are several adjectives that can describe it but I have been searching for one that can really captivate it with no luck yet. It is unbelievably alone, sad, scary, depressing, and it feels like time standstill. It’s so helpless to have people talking to you and saying if you can hear me blink or Signal and then not be able to it is so helpless.

Humans adapt you do to some degree what other choice do you have

Where you fully awake or in a dream-like state all or some of the time? I cannot imagine how torturously it has to be to be immobilized but fully conscious.

Was a even Mix

I want to give you a big hug for beating this. Onwards and Upwards.

How did you realize you were going into lock in syndrome. Also, what were the first signs that you were coming out of it?

Thank you for the hug!!

This thing was a very fast rapid decline. I went from a able-bodied 28-year-old highly functioning to bed ridden in three months. It was not until the end of October 2017 right after the picture was taken of me that Picture was taken of me with the van the later that I realized no one knew I was still in there

What did you see, while in comas?

Seemed to have a view of the entire room, at times I actually had a view as if I was on the ceiling. When I came out of the coma and just was locked in I could only look at the ceiling

How are you doing now?

Medically I am great same with emotionally. The physical part is where I need a significant work. Relearning how to walk is my biggest thing. Due to the inactivity experience from My coma and hospice if left me severely contracted. Getting my hands and feet back to a functional position is the biggest challenge. They did not even think this would be possible but so far so good

Did you slowly gain back control and alert those around you that you were conscious, or did it all come back at once?

I was always alert but I cannot express it The muscles to work and my face took six months to work somewhat normal I still have a long way to go

Did you have panic attacks? I feel like I would have them so bad my heart might just stop. Did they keep you sedated in any way or meds to keep you calm? I’m getting anxiety just thinking about what you went through.

Yes in the ass but there was no medication for this feeling

I'm sorry you are saying you had panic attacks in your ass?

No LOL I meant to say yes and yes damn Siri

Sorry yes and yes

excuse the blunt question. how did you not go insane after spending a long time immobilized but aware? i would think that i would lose my sanity very quickly.

I did but I kept my mind busy and knew that I would recover. I refused to believe what everyone was saying

Did you experience depression while in your coma like state?

Yes

After seeing and hearing could you think? Could you make up stories and dream up random things? Is there a random joke or a story you could tell us what you came up while in coma?

I could absolutely think. I was very active in my own head

How long after you stopped chasing the dragon did this happen to you?

I was off and on, The bad batch got into my system and slowly I got sick

What is "slowly"? I'm slightly freaking out because when I used I also smoked it on foil. I'm coming up on 10 months clean so my mind is racing wondering if this could happen to me.

It only took one bad batch that made me sick over months until I was nearly dead

I can tell you from experience it is not worth it at all. There are so many awful things that can happen. Be happy and content with the simple Things in life

How did other people realize you were conscious?

No one realizes for way too long. some of my family realize I was in there by my eyes some doctors begin to agree

Remarkably I could Think extremely clear but it was so sad seeing my family don’t know if it was OK or even there. I had a general sense of time if that makes any sense my internal clock was still functional

Did you get itchy?

Oh my God all day every day

What was it like “waking up” and finally communication, and people realizing you were no longer in a coma?

Well it was not like I woke up one day it was just fine there was another eight months of not being able to communicate

Have you seen the movie Awakenings, with Robin Williams and Robert De Niro?

I don’t believe so

You should totally watch that.

Edit: oops, as others have pointed out it ends on a sad note. I should rescind my recommendation. I was just remembering the happy and heartfelt scenes. I'm totally cringing. 😬

Will do thank you

What was the initial reaction to you telling people you've heard everything they said? Also, How long were you in this pseudo-coma?

They where are shocked. That’s when we realized I was never in a real coma

As a nursing student: What behavior of the nurses helped you getting trough this mess? What did not help?

Nice relaxing tones, taking the time to learn the communication system, patient’s

Who talked the most shit when you were in your coma?

Random emergency room people

Do you have any plans on being an advocate for people with heroin addiction? You have an amazing story and I’m positive your story alone will scare the addictions out of 90% of people. Props to you.

Yes that is one of my many plans

What drugs did this to you?

We don’t know for sure something I smoked which was a lot of different things, Best guess heroin

First of all the fact that you had to add proof is a bit sad cmon internet. But was there anything you heard while you were in the coma that you just wanted to get up and scream at the people for saying.

I had a caretaker who walked into my room and said I don’t feel like brushing your teeth today and then walked out

Assuming you were not loving life before this happened ie. using heroin/other hard drugs. After this crazy thing happened to you do you have a different view on life? If you could go back and say one sentence to yourself pre coma what would it be?

Cherish the little things in life

Much more of a appreciation for everything now

How did withdrawal feel / get handled while you were in a coma, both on your end and the hospitals? were you locked in your head screaming for heroin?

I had A four month downfall of getting to the point of a coma. My withdrawals lasted three months but I had much bigger things to worry about after the physical stuff

How does it feel right before entering in coma?

I was so sick by then nothing Felt good

Unconvincing proof

What else can I tell you?