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I'm Camille Crimson, model and webmaster of The Art of Blowjob. AMA.
I have been running my own porn sites for the past 6 years, focusing on the idea that porn (especially blowjob porn) can be beautiful, sensual, really hot and awesome for everyone involved.
I shoot with my boyfriend and we handle everything. I code and update the site, blog, take care of social media and edit the photos and he shoots and edits the videos and we all take care of the business side. I'm also a sometimes writer with an advice column on Peeperz.
Ask me anything!
Proof: https://twitter.com/#!/CamilleCrimson, http://camillecrimson.com
EDIT: I have loved being here and answering all of your questions, but I have to get going. I really appreciate everyone who has participated and asked such great questions. I have had a wonderful time! Thank you so much for being so welcoming, Reddit!
CamilleCrimson621 karma
I love the evangelical porn response, especially as an Atheist. :P
CamilleCrimson799 karma
I love deep throating and sticking my tongue out to lick his balls. It's pretty magical. Also, anything involving twisting my hands around his shaft while I circle the head with my tongue... Is it getting hot in here? ;)
Uh_oh_LoL102 karma
Another girl here, I am pretty new to head and I can't deep throat without gagging, is there a trick too it? Any tips for beginners?
CamilleCrimson128 karma
There's other advice peppered in here, but the main thing is to go slow, try to be patient and keep trying.
urf_423 karma
Had to get up at 4am (in Australia) to ask this:
1: You have a seriously good body, but in most of your clips you always seem reluctant to show it, why is this?
2: Any plans to expand your work to include other (as in more than just BJ) porn?
CamilleCrimson425 karma
Whoa! Thanks for the incredibly early wake-up call just to come here!
To answer your questions...
Thanks! I am becoming more and more open to showing it, but I guess I like to focus on the blowjob and I don't necessarily want to be making the kind of porn where everything is so close up and almost clinical. I like to tease and I really love lingerie, so that's a big part of it. Also, I'm not your average porn performer, so I do have my shyness that I contend with. It's a mix of things, but I have definitely been getting more comfortable lately.
Well, we have shot a 69 video for the site, and a few videos with a little masturbation or sex, but it's more about just giving a little spice. We're happy with blowjobs, but we'd definitely like to explore new avenues for the blowjob...
urf_196 karma
Thank you! It's probably because of my timezone but this is the first celebrity AMA question I've had answered. Oh and tell your boyfriend to go easy on grabbing your breasts, give the audience a chance to see them!
FountainsOfFluids151 karma
Glad to hear that other people are not interested in the "almost clinical" parts of standard porn. I've honestly thought about starting my own porn company because of how much I hate the bizarre misogynistic garbage that passes for most porn these days.
CamilleCrimson88 karma
Do it! That's the best way to add your voice into the conversation!
Thinkyt386 karma
Can you noticeably taste the difference in the taste of semen depending on changes in your boyfriend's diet?
CamilleCrimson476 karma
I did notice that he was sweeter when he ate a bunch of pineapple, but he's always fairly sweet. He certainly isn't on any special kind of diet, and we both enjoy red meat and alcohol. There hasn't been any adverse issues from that. :)
Thinkyt442 karma
...must....not....make....red meat innuendos.
(thank you for your answer/s!)
CamilleCrimson218 karma
I knew this would start something... You guys! This is why I love Reddit. :)
deliveryboy4m337 karma
How many of your family and friends know about your job, and what do they think of it?
CamilleCrimson376 karma
Basically everyone, and it's been a mixed bag. Some people, especially my friends, think it's great that I'm doing what I love and taking on a project that fulfills so many sides of myself. Not all of my family is on board, but the people who are have become all the more important to me. I try to see that silver lining.
deliveryboy4m185 karma
Good for the family that is on board! And good for you for being brave enough to share your job with them.
Is it weird/awkward hanging out with friends/family knowing they have seen your videos?
CamilleCrimson250 karma
Not really. None of them are avid fans (that would feel awkward) and some haven't actually seen any of it. But, asides from people making little jokes occasionally, it's become pretty normal.
bitthebullett539 karma
They've all seen it. The "some" are just the friends who are more discreet.
internet12345265 karma
Do you consider yourself a successor to Heather of ideepthroat? She was the original "blowjob queen' imo.
CamilleCrimson248 karma
Not especially. We're totally different in our approach and aesthetic, but I definitely appreciate anyone who is showing the potential beauty of the blowjob, especially from a woman's perspective.
CamilleCrimson101 karma
She's a really nice lady from our online encounters. A lot of porn people in general are just awesome!
Tsu_Dho_Namh64 karma
idk about 'blowjob queen'. Heather was the first to start making videos with her significant other and do it well enough to get noticed. But the ambiance and style of her videos is significantly different...not at much seduction and sultry eyes.
IMadeYourDrink66 karma
Yeah but thats part of what I liked about with Heather. You could tell they were really comfortable together. It was relationship porn sometimes.
catcatherine260 karma
I like giving oral, I swallow, he is never disappointed. But...there must be some new things I can add to my repertoire. What is the number one kink addition I can add?
CamilleCrimson292 karma
Oh, that's a tough one to answer. I think it really depends on what personalities you have and what sexual interests you have. Again, I am a broken record, talk about it. Get sexy and spill your fantasies to each other. Maybe you'll find one of you likes to take charge, maybe you want to film yourselves, maybe you want to (carefully) try it in a more public place, maybe 2 heads are better than one... The sky is the limit, but you need to know what you both want.
[deleted]208 karma
Public advisory: Do not fellate your partner in the shower while doing this, orgasms of this caliber tend to make you lose your footing, making slipping a very possible reality. I should know, I still have a scar to show for it :/
artfulporn200 karma
There seems to be a growing community of tasteful art-porn productions, including X-Art, Dane Jones, Pornographic Love, SexArt and many others.
Why do you feel there is this sudden interest in this new style?
CamilleCrimson265 karma
Yay! I'm glad you name checked PornographicLove.com (For those of you who don't know, they're an amazing couple we worked with to make a beautiful porn website that first their own sexuality!)
I think that it's a few things. First, people are realizing that high production values accentuate hot sex. Second, the pornographic audience is becoming more varied and therefore it needs to cater to a more sophisticated group as well. And third, when you've tried everything else, what's more erotic and uncommon in porn than genuine intimacy?
CamilleCrimson190 karma
Hey everyone! It's almost 2pm EST, so I figured it's time to start. Ask me anything!
cdemi845 karma
Do you think the scientists at the Large Hadron Collider will discover the Higgs Boson soon?
CamilleCrimson350 karma
It's sad that it took me the longest to type this response.
... Maybe?
lilianaleto172 karma
Holy shit! My husband and I love to watch your videos! As a natural redhead who thinks you're pretty, I have to ask. Are you a natural redhead?
funfungiguy159 karma
If you had to fight a dinosaur to the death in a Dinosaur Death Match using only primitive weapons and not allowed to set traps, what's the biggest dinosaur you think you win against? You don't have to name a specific dinosaur, just give us a size reference.
CamilleCrimson232 karma
I think I could fight off the mightiest dinosaur. Never underestimate the fury of a ginger who knows her way around a club.
75dollars151 karma
Please let him know that he's a lucky bastard, and if he mistreats you the internet will rip his nuts off :P
CamilleCrimson239 karma
Haha! Will do. I hope it won't come to that, though. We've been together nearly 17 years and going strong!
CamilleCrimson283 karma
It depends whether or not I put them there. If it's a tube site with a fair partner content program and they share my banner and respect my limitations for how much content I can provide, then I'm fine with it.
If it's people taking my content, not linking it to my site, removing watermarks/bumpers so that it's just nameless free porn, then I'm a little less than enthused.
Obviously it's a complicated issue, but at the very least, not giving credit and the opportunity for people to find the site and become a member is a bad thing.
johngalt333814 karma
so your boyfriend gets his dick sucked for a living. Best job in the world?
CamilleCrimson231 karma
I can honestly say that it doesn't. My boyfriend and I love having sex and we think it's a really important part of life. We also love creating beautiful videos and photos, so combining the two is actually a really positive feeling.
handsy_pilot129 karma
How can I make it so my wife feels comfortable swallowing? She's never done it.
CamilleCrimson210 karma
Again, and I feel like I'm going to say it a lot, talking is key. Tell her that it's something you find really hot and you'd just like her to try. Then, when you're both in the mood, have the kind of sex that makes her feel good. Ask her what she wants in a genuine way and work her into a frenzy of arousal. The more turned on she is, the more she's going to enjoy it.
For the blowjob, go easy. Let her take the lead and don't force anything. When you're ready to come, tell her so she's prepared and then just come however she likes. Some prefer to have it in the back of their throat so they don't taste it, some prefer to have it on their tongue so that they don't feel like they're going to choke.
The truth is, not everyone is crazy about cum, but if it's something she can try to get the hang of, she can learn to love the experience of swallowing, even if she never gets a taste for the cum itself. Regardless, it's over pretty quickly and you can always have a mint nearby.
Oh, and of course there's all the usual business about showering, being trimmed to her liking, eating pineapple/berries, drinking lots of water, cutting down on smoking/booze/red meat... I don't know how much that really changes things, so your mileage may vary, but if taste is a central problem, it's worth a try!
handsy_pilot79 karma
Thank you for the response! She loves to give head, just has an aversion to cum near her face and mouth.
CamilleCrimson218 karma
Well, I'd say give it a go, but ultimately, if you have an awesome wife who loves to give head and you think you can handle finishing elsewhere, don't rock the boat too much. ;)
[deleted]25 karma
Have you explained to her how awesome it feels? If I don't get to cum in my GF's mouth my orgasm feels 1/2 as intense.
Der_Throwaway112 karma
I've never been able to get off from a BJ... do you have any tips that I could pass along to my wife, or do I have to finally admit that maybe the problem is just me?
CamilleCrimson204 karma
Well, "problem" is a rough word here. Everyone likes different kinds of stimulation. Maybe try some sort of blowjob/handjob hybrid. Maybe finish yourself off right at the very end. Perhaps watch some blowjob porn (ahem!) and see if there are any techniques you haven't tried to see if that improves sensation.
Probably the biggest issue is just not to put too much pressure on yourself. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work, but willing yourself to have an orgasm doesn't usually work any better and will often only stress you out.
lawyerup124101 karma
Do you get recognized in public often?
If so, how does that feel, for both the person recognizing you and yourself?
CamilleCrimson187 karma
No, actually. I've definitely been gawked at a bit, which could have been because they recognized me, but I've never had any "Hey, aren't you that blowjob lady?" moments.
CodeOfKonami256 karma
That would be like asking a woman when she's due. You just don't walk up to someone you don't know and ask them if they're the blow job lady.
Actually, now that I think about it, I'm gonna start doing that. Who knows? I might find a blow job lady.
CamilleCrimson214 karma
I wonder how blowjob-oriented you have to be to qualify as a blowjob lady.
CamilleCrimson138 karma
Kind of a mix of the two, I think. You can certainly learn more about your throat's anatomy and apply it to the shape of your partner's penis and you can definitely try to practice to wear down your gag reflex, but some people are just naturals and some have a lot more to work against.
Unluckydragon86 karma
When was the first time you had oral sex? and when did you decide to make a living from it? I love your videos!
CamilleCrimson116 karma
I was in my late-mid teens, but I didn't decide to make my site until 2007. I had another erotic photograph site back starting in 2006, so the whole idea came up around 2005, just to give the full chronology. Oh, and I'm 37 now, so it was a while in the making!
Pretiacruento184 karma
If you're 37, I'm Genghis Khan... you look WAY younger!
I guess you've found the, uh, fountain of youth... right? :P
CamilleCrimson83 karma
We have, actually. It's just one video and one photoset, with someone we had a connection with a few years ago. We're open to doing it again, but it needs to be a person with whom we actually connect (not just a model hired for the day) and that person would then have to be comfortable being on camera and online. It's a tall order, but who knows? Maybe we'll find someone.
CamilleCrimson78 karma
Thank you so much for coming and asking me all these great questions! I originally thought it wasn't going to be nearly this big, so I'm really flattered and grateful. I wish I could keep on going, but I'm super hungry and I need to make dinner. I hope you'll all keep in touch through Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr, Google+ and Flickr. You are welcome to come comment on my blog and, of course, I hope you'll check out The Art of Blowjob.
Thank you so much for having me and for making me feel so welcome, Reddit!
CamilleCrimson282 karma
I think size is overrated. There are so many things to enjoy about penises of all sizes. I wish we were less hung up about it as a society, and I definitely wish that porn showed a greater variety of size.
Indrid_Cold2375 karma
What do you do when you're not...y'know...porning? What are your hobbies?
CamilleCrimson185 karma
Oh so much! I have a motorcycle, so I'm out on that quite a lot. I'm a gamer - just finished Diablo III, I love cooking - especially French food, I paint, I play guitar, I play piano, I play flute, I sing, I write music... Oh, and I'm also a coder and a total Mac geek with a love for watching sci-fi, zombie and horror films/TV.
DCvision57 karma
what made you make the transition (with your BF) from being just a couple to sexual entertainers?
CamilleCrimson88 karma
We have always had a really great sex life, and we both independently had all the skills to shoot and build a website, but it's a scary leap to take. We were making non-porn sites and content for other people, but it just wasn't making us as happy as we could be. Since we had been playing around with erotic photography in our private life and that was what made us truly happy, we knew we had to try.
EndlessOcean87 karma
and of course, he gets a ton of head.
"Oh, we'll have to reshoot that... the focus was off"
"Yeah... we'll need to reshoot that one, the er... plant was in the frame"
astroNerf46 karma
You seem comfortable and confident on camera. Do you think performing in front of a large audience would be more exciting, or would you get stage fright?
CamilleCrimson63 karma
It's funny that you mention that, because I actually hate public speaking. I'm naturally somewhat shy, although I've certainly become more outgoing over the years. I am happy to show myself and share my opinions, but I really don't think I'd feel comfortable in front of an audience.
suburban_smartass864 karma
Just to help everyone out (I've been a huge fan for a while).
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