I have been running my own porn sites for the past 6 years, focusing on the idea that porn (especially blowjob porn) can be beautiful, sensual, really hot and awesome for everyone involved.

I shoot with my boyfriend and we handle everything. I code and update the site, blog, take care of social media and edit the photos and he shoots and edits the videos and we all take care of the business side. I'm also a sometimes writer with an advice column on Peeperz.

Ask me anything!

Proof: https://twitter.com/#!/CamilleCrimson, http://camillecrimson.com

EDIT: I have loved being here and answering all of your questions, but I have to get going. I really appreciate everyone who has participated and asked such great questions. I have had a wonderful time! Thank you so much for being so welcoming, Reddit!

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suburban_smartass864 karma

Just to help everyone out (I've been a huge fan for a while).

CamilleCrimson476 karma

I'm glad! I was worried I couldn't post links. This bodes well.

MindintoMatter79 karma

Seems like your website is down.

NBAallstar502 karma

Reddit: the friendliest ddos around.

CamilleCrimson236 karma

Worth it!

rawdoggingisawesome324 karma

You're doing God's work son

CamilleCrimson621 karma

I love the evangelical porn response, especially as an Atheist. :P

JakeDex256 karma

Yet another site down because of Reddit...

CamilleCrimson199 karma

We're working on it!

SarahMarshalllll425 karma

lady redditor here. what are your best tips / favorite tricks?

CamilleCrimson799 karma

I love deep throating and sticking my tongue out to lick his balls. It's pretty magical. Also, anything involving twisting my hands around his shaft while I circle the head with my tongue... Is it getting hot in here? ;)

budde_1289 karma

CamilleCrimson481 karma


aryaspark202 karma

How did you learn to deep throat?

CamilleCrimson274 karma

Practice, honestly. Try, try again!

Uh_oh_LoL102 karma

Another girl here, I am pretty new to head and I can't deep throat without gagging, is there a trick too it? Any tips for beginners?

CamilleCrimson128 karma

There's other advice peppered in here, but the main thing is to go slow, try to be patient and keep trying.

urf_423 karma

Had to get up at 4am (in Australia) to ask this:

1: You have a seriously good body, but in most of your clips you always seem reluctant to show it, why is this?

2: Any plans to expand your work to include other (as in more than just BJ) porn?

CamilleCrimson425 karma

Whoa! Thanks for the incredibly early wake-up call just to come here!

To answer your questions...

  1. Thanks! I am becoming more and more open to showing it, but I guess I like to focus on the blowjob and I don't necessarily want to be making the kind of porn where everything is so close up and almost clinical. I like to tease and I really love lingerie, so that's a big part of it. Also, I'm not your average porn performer, so I do have my shyness that I contend with. It's a mix of things, but I have definitely been getting more comfortable lately.

  2. Well, we have shot a 69 video for the site, and a few videos with a little masturbation or sex, but it's more about just giving a little spice. We're happy with blowjobs, but we'd definitely like to explore new avenues for the blowjob...

urf_196 karma

Thank you! It's probably because of my timezone but this is the first celebrity AMA question I've had answered. Oh and tell your boyfriend to go easy on grabbing your breasts, give the audience a chance to see them!

braves182279 karma

This is a dedicated fan, show him some boob ;)

CamilleCrimson194 karma

They're around. ;)

FountainsOfFluids151 karma

Glad to hear that other people are not interested in the "almost clinical" parts of standard porn. I've honestly thought about starting my own porn company because of how much I hate the bizarre misogynistic garbage that passes for most porn these days.

CamilleCrimson88 karma

Do it! That's the best way to add your voice into the conversation!

Thinkyt386 karma

Can you noticeably taste the difference in the taste of semen depending on changes in your boyfriend's diet?

CamilleCrimson476 karma

I did notice that he was sweeter when he ate a bunch of pineapple, but he's always fairly sweet. He certainly isn't on any special kind of diet, and we both enjoy red meat and alcohol. There hasn't been any adverse issues from that. :)

Thinkyt442 karma

...must....not....make....red meat innuendos.

(thank you for your answer/s!)

CamilleCrimson415 karma

But, innuendos are the best!

CamilleCrimson218 karma

I knew this would start something... You guys! This is why I love Reddit. :)

deliveryboy4m337 karma

How many of your family and friends know about your job, and what do they think of it?

CamilleCrimson376 karma

Basically everyone, and it's been a mixed bag. Some people, especially my friends, think it's great that I'm doing what I love and taking on a project that fulfills so many sides of myself. Not all of my family is on board, but the people who are have become all the more important to me. I try to see that silver lining.

deliveryboy4m185 karma

Good for the family that is on board! And good for you for being brave enough to share your job with them.

Is it weird/awkward hanging out with friends/family knowing they have seen your videos?

CamilleCrimson250 karma

Not really. None of them are avid fans (that would feel awkward) and some haven't actually seen any of it. But, asides from people making little jokes occasionally, it's become pretty normal.

bitthebullett539 karma

They've all seen it. The "some" are just the friends who are more discreet.

CamilleCrimson292 karma

Well, then I can't say I mind the discretion.

internet12345265 karma

Do you consider yourself a successor to Heather of ideepthroat? She was the original "blowjob queen' imo.

CamilleCrimson248 karma

Not especially. We're totally different in our approach and aesthetic, but I definitely appreciate anyone who is showing the potential beauty of the blowjob, especially from a woman's perspective.

lannister80102 karma

Don't forget Wifey!

CamilleCrimson101 karma

She's a really nice lady from our online encounters. A lot of porn people in general are just awesome!

Tsu_Dho_Namh64 karma

idk about 'blowjob queen'. Heather was the first to start making videos with her significant other and do it well enough to get noticed. But the ambiance and style of her videos is significantly different...not at much seduction and sultry eyes.

IMadeYourDrink66 karma

Yeah but thats part of what I liked about with Heather. You could tell they were really comfortable together. It was relationship porn sometimes.

CamilleCrimson60 karma

Comfort like that is definitely key!

catcatherine260 karma

I like giving oral, I swallow, he is never disappointed. But...there must be some new things I can add to my repertoire. What is the number one kink addition I can add?

CamilleCrimson292 karma

Oh, that's a tough one to answer. I think it really depends on what personalities you have and what sexual interests you have. Again, I am a broken record, talk about it. Get sexy and spill your fantasies to each other. Maybe you'll find one of you likes to take charge, maybe you want to film yourselves, maybe you want to (carefully) try it in a more public place, maybe 2 heads are better than one... The sky is the limit, but you need to know what you both want.

arodhowe406 karma

Finger in the butt?

[deleted]208 karma

Public advisory: Do not fellate your partner in the shower while doing this, orgasms of this caliber tend to make you lose your footing, making slipping a very possible reality. I should know, I still have a scar to show for it :/

CamilleCrimson381 karma

Yikes! At least you both survived to blow another day.

d_jologs200 karma

I know you're a geek so I gotta ask: you done with Diablo 3?

CamilleCrimson297 karma

Yes, but just on normal mode. I just blogged about it, actually.

CamilleCrimson131 karma

Link skills!

artfulporn200 karma

There seems to be a growing community of tasteful art-porn productions, including X-Art, Dane Jones, Pornographic Love, SexArt and many others.

Why do you feel there is this sudden interest in this new style?

CamilleCrimson265 karma

Yay! I'm glad you name checked PornographicLove.com (For those of you who don't know, they're an amazing couple we worked with to make a beautiful porn website that first their own sexuality!)

I think that it's a few things. First, people are realizing that high production values accentuate hot sex. Second, the pornographic audience is becoming more varied and therefore it needs to cater to a more sophisticated group as well. And third, when you've tried everything else, what's more erotic and uncommon in porn than genuine intimacy?

CamilleCrimson190 karma

Hey everyone! It's almost 2pm EST, so I figured it's time to start. Ask me anything!

cdemi845 karma

Do you think the scientists at the Large Hadron Collider will discover the Higgs Boson soon?

CamilleCrimson350 karma

It's sad that it took me the longest to type this response.

... Maybe?

lilianaleto172 karma

Holy shit! My husband and I love to watch your videos! As a natural redhead who thinks you're pretty, I have to ask. Are you a natural redhead?

CamilleCrimson269 karma

Yes indeed! Ginger pride!

funfungiguy159 karma

If you had to fight a dinosaur to the death in a Dinosaur Death Match using only primitive weapons and not allowed to set traps, what's the biggest dinosaur you think you win against? You don't have to name a specific dinosaur, just give us a size reference.

CamilleCrimson232 karma

I think I could fight off the mightiest dinosaur. Never underestimate the fury of a ginger who knows her way around a club.

75dollars151 karma

Please let him know that he's a lucky bastard, and if he mistreats you the internet will rip his nuts off :P

CamilleCrimson239 karma

Haha! Will do. I hope it won't come to that, though. We've been together nearly 17 years and going strong!

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CamilleCrimson283 karma

It depends whether or not I put them there. If it's a tube site with a fair partner content program and they share my banner and respect my limitations for how much content I can provide, then I'm fine with it.

If it's people taking my content, not linking it to my site, removing watermarks/bumpers so that it's just nameless free porn, then I'm a little less than enthused.

Obviously it's a complicated issue, but at the very least, not giving credit and the opportunity for people to find the site and become a member is a bad thing.

DannyBiker123 karma

Is your website an extra income or do you make a living out of it ?

CamilleCrimson279 karma

It's our sole source of income. :)

johngalt333814 karma

so your boyfriend gets his dick sucked for a living. Best job in the world?

CamilleCrimson613 karma

Yes. We often have beer after. It is amazing.

beec23132 karma

What is it like to have sex on camera? Does it feel degrading at times?

CamilleCrimson231 karma

I can honestly say that it doesn't. My boyfriend and I love having sex and we think it's a really important part of life. We also love creating beautiful videos and photos, so combining the two is actually a really positive feeling.

beec2384 karma

Well, its great that you enjoy what you do!

CamilleCrimson95 karma

We really do!

handsy_pilot129 karma

How can I make it so my wife feels comfortable swallowing? She's never done it.

CamilleCrimson210 karma

Again, and I feel like I'm going to say it a lot, talking is key. Tell her that it's something you find really hot and you'd just like her to try. Then, when you're both in the mood, have the kind of sex that makes her feel good. Ask her what she wants in a genuine way and work her into a frenzy of arousal. The more turned on she is, the more she's going to enjoy it.

For the blowjob, go easy. Let her take the lead and don't force anything. When you're ready to come, tell her so she's prepared and then just come however she likes. Some prefer to have it in the back of their throat so they don't taste it, some prefer to have it on their tongue so that they don't feel like they're going to choke.

The truth is, not everyone is crazy about cum, but if it's something she can try to get the hang of, she can learn to love the experience of swallowing, even if she never gets a taste for the cum itself. Regardless, it's over pretty quickly and you can always have a mint nearby.

Oh, and of course there's all the usual business about showering, being trimmed to her liking, eating pineapple/berries, drinking lots of water, cutting down on smoking/booze/red meat... I don't know how much that really changes things, so your mileage may vary, but if taste is a central problem, it's worth a try!

handsy_pilot79 karma

Thank you for the response! She loves to give head, just has an aversion to cum near her face and mouth.

CamilleCrimson218 karma

Well, I'd say give it a go, but ultimately, if you have an awesome wife who loves to give head and you think you can handle finishing elsewhere, don't rock the boat too much. ;)

budde_144 karma

Come on her tits. It's just as hot imo :)

CamilleCrimson137 karma

I can't argue with that! ;)

[deleted]25 karma

Have you explained to her how awesome it feels? If I don't get to cum in my GF's mouth my orgasm feels 1/2 as intense.

CamilleCrimson23 karma

Definitely explaining the sensation is a big part of it.

Der_Throwaway112 karma

I've never been able to get off from a BJ... do you have any tips that I could pass along to my wife, or do I have to finally admit that maybe the problem is just me?

CamilleCrimson204 karma

Well, "problem" is a rough word here. Everyone likes different kinds of stimulation. Maybe try some sort of blowjob/handjob hybrid. Maybe finish yourself off right at the very end. Perhaps watch some blowjob porn (ahem!) and see if there are any techniques you haven't tried to see if that improves sensation.

Probably the biggest issue is just not to put too much pressure on yourself. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work, but willing yourself to have an orgasm doesn't usually work any better and will often only stress you out.

lawyerup124101 karma

Do you get recognized in public often?

If so, how does that feel, for both the person recognizing you and yourself?

CamilleCrimson187 karma

No, actually. I've definitely been gawked at a bit, which could have been because they recognized me, but I've never had any "Hey, aren't you that blowjob lady?" moments.

CodeOfKonami256 karma

That would be like asking a woman when she's due. You just don't walk up to someone you don't know and ask them if they're the blow job lady.

Actually, now that I think about it, I'm gonna start doing that. Who knows? I might find a blow job lady.

CamilleCrimson214 karma

I wonder how blowjob-oriented you have to be to qualify as a blowjob lady.

GeoM5699 karma

Is deepthroating a learned ability, or are some women just born with it?

CamilleCrimson138 karma

Kind of a mix of the two, I think. You can certainly learn more about your throat's anatomy and apply it to the shape of your partner's penis and you can definitely try to practice to wear down your gag reflex, but some people are just naturals and some have a lot more to work against.

Unluckydragon86 karma

When was the first time you had oral sex? and when did you decide to make a living from it? I love your videos!

CamilleCrimson116 karma

I was in my late-mid teens, but I didn't decide to make my site until 2007. I had another erotic photograph site back starting in 2006, so the whole idea came up around 2005, just to give the full chronology. Oh, and I'm 37 now, so it was a while in the making!

Pretiacruento184 karma

If you're 37, I'm Genghis Khan... you look WAY younger!

I guess you've found the, uh, fountain of youth... right? :P

CamilleCrimson170 karma

Pssst... I think Pretiacruento means cum!

MIAgringo84 karma

Would you consider doing a duo (2 girls) with your partner?

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CamilleCrimson97 karma

And there you go! Fleshbot never fails.

CamilleCrimson83 karma

We have, actually. It's just one video and one photoset, with someone we had a connection with a few years ago. We're open to doing it again, but it needs to be a person with whom we actually connect (not just a model hired for the day) and that person would then have to be comfortable being on camera and online. It's a tall order, but who knows? Maybe we'll find someone.

CamilleCrimson78 karma

Thank you so much for coming and asking me all these great questions! I originally thought it wasn't going to be nearly this big, so I'm really flattered and grateful. I wish I could keep on going, but I'm super hungry and I need to make dinner. I hope you'll all keep in touch through Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr, Google+ and Flickr. You are welcome to come comment on my blog and, of course, I hope you'll check out The Art of Blowjob.

Thank you so much for having me and for making me feel so welcome, Reddit!

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CamilleCrimson282 karma

I think size is overrated. There are so many things to enjoy about penises of all sizes. I wish we were less hung up about it as a society, and I definitely wish that porn showed a greater variety of size.

Indrid_Cold2375 karma

What do you do when you're not...y'know...porning? What are your hobbies?

CamilleCrimson185 karma

Oh so much! I have a motorcycle, so I'm out on that quite a lot. I'm a gamer - just finished Diablo III, I love cooking - especially French food, I paint, I play guitar, I play piano, I play flute, I sing, I write music... Oh, and I'm also a coder and a total Mac geek with a love for watching sci-fi, zombie and horror films/TV.

Indrid_Cold23241 karma

Wow! You're like an orally fixated Leonardo DaVinci!

CamilleCrimson109 karma

That is an awesome compliment.

DCvision57 karma

what made you make the transition (with your BF) from being just a couple to sexual entertainers?

CamilleCrimson88 karma

We have always had a really great sex life, and we both independently had all the skills to shoot and build a website, but it's a scary leap to take. We were making non-porn sites and content for other people, but it just wasn't making us as happy as we could be. Since we had been playing around with erotic photography in our private life and that was what made us truly happy, we knew we had to try.

EndlessOcean87 karma

and of course, he gets a ton of head.

"Oh, we'll have to reshoot that... the focus was off"

"Yeah... we'll need to reshoot that one, the er... plant was in the frame"

CamilleCrimson98 karma

There have been a few convenient excuses like that... ;)

astroNerf46 karma

You seem comfortable and confident on camera. Do you think performing in front of a large audience would be more exciting, or would you get stage fright?

CamilleCrimson63 karma

It's funny that you mention that, because I actually hate public speaking. I'm naturally somewhat shy, although I've certainly become more outgoing over the years. I am happy to show myself and share my opinions, but I really don't think I'd feel comfortable in front of an audience.

Porcupine_Tree33 karma

Have you ever tried mixing blowjobs AND video games?

hodayathink38 karma

I think one of the videos on her site has her doing just that.

CamilleCrimson50 karma

Right you are!