IAMA Man who had a sexual relationship with his mother. (Probably NSFW)

If you ever have a son, would you support your wife if the same situation arose?

Probably not

Did you get confused when your dad asked you to seed the lawn during the summer?

Hahaha

Obviously:

1. What did you guys do?

2. Why was your father supportive?

3. Why did this even happen?

4. Why?

It started with her masturbating me. Progressed to her giving me oral and eventually we had sex/made love. It was a slow progression.

Were you ever attracted to your sister?

Yes, but not overly.

1. How was the first time you had sex with her. I mean, full on intercourse.
2. Do you remember what was going through your mind?
3. How did she react afterwards. I mean, did she just leave your room and go to her bedroom with dad?
4. What was it like at breakfast the next day? Did you guys talk about it?
5. You say it was clinical, did she walk you through things? Did she teach you how to do certain... maneuvers?
6. Have you ever told your sister? I think you're gonna say no as you haven't told the woman you plan to marry.

This is very interesting to me and of course repulsive as I cannot imagine ever doing that with my mother. Nor have my wife do that with my child. But I am very curious and would love to know the thoughts that were going through your head. Incest is one thing people just do not volunteer. Even though you're remaining anonymous, I applaud you in your efforts in trying to shed some light for the rest of us.

Well, The first time we had intercourse, I was lying in bed getting oral from her. In the middle of it, she stopped, climbed up my body, pulled her panties aside and sat on me. She was wearing a long Tshirt. She told me not to cum and she rode me for about a minute and came. She then finished me with her mouth. My head was spinning.

Sometimes it was discussed at the table but not with my dad around.

I would never tell anyone I know.

Who started the interactions?

Was your dad ever present?

Well, without giving away too info, I was injured in an accident at 14 and incapacitated. I went from masturbating 2 times a day to zero. After 2 weeks, I was frustrated and took it out on my parents. My mom and dad knew what was up and talked about my mom "helping" me masturbate. The approached me one afternoon and wWhen my mom said, I know you are frustrated and why you are frustrated would you like some help masturbating. Blood was rushing in my ears and I said yes but I really didn't know if she meant what I thought she meant. I was excited and confused. She said that she would take care of me when I went to bed. Hours away.

So you were incapacitated when this started, was this permanent (ie: quad/paraplegic) or was it just temporary? if it was temporary did the relationship extend beyond you being unable to take care of business?

Yes, it was temporary. During that time, I was not sure if her masturbating me would continue one I recovered. It did continue and progressed.

Over the years by dad had seen us together but he never watched per se.

1. Did you ever kiss? Was anything clearly off limits?
2. How did your relationship with your mom change through those years? Did you still respect her authority as much, did you keep seeing her as a mother or did she become more of a sexual partner?
3. Any jealousy issues when you started dating?
4. How were interactions with your dad and your sister? Did it feel different to deal with them?
5. What's your favorite and least favorite memory of your sexual relationship with your mother?
6. What were your favorite sexual positions? Did you perform oral sex on her? Did anything you did feel weird? Did anything particularly turn you on (excite you more than other things)?
7. Were your sexual dealings limited/confined to a specific place (your room, for example) or were you active in different places?
8. Was there any close call in which you felt excited by her or did anything sexual when you shouldn't have, in public or with other people nearby?
9. Was there any romance going on, like 'dates', watching movies together or anything like that that went beyond something purely sexual?
10. And finally...did your sexual experience with her change the gifts you gave to each other for B-days, Christmas, Valentine's Day and the like? Did you ever give each other's clothes while thinking about removing them, or underwear that you knew you'd both like?

We had kissed when orgasming but it was weird and it rarely happened.

Yes, respected her authority. She never rewarded or threatened with sex.

No jealousy from her.

It happened in my room and her room.

No close calls.

No "dates" haha (it wasn't a romantic relationship)

No special presents.

Were you and your mom on Fear Factor a few weeks ago?

We came in 2nd place. :(

Were you ever worried about babies and what not?

Well, my mom was on the pill and never got pregnant.

How did the researcher find you, and what made you decide to be involved with his work?

Well, I was aware of some of his work so he was on my radar and then I saw a notice online that he was looking for people in my situation.

Was there a fear that your sister would find out?

There was at first but we were careful. She left for college pretty soon after it started so that made it a little easier.

Stupid question: Any possibility you're adopted?

Nope biological

Did you cuddle afterwards, ever kiss passionately, or was it just straightforward sex?

There was no cuddling. There once was a passionate kiss that happened during but it was weird so we didn't kiss after that. Pretty vanilla sex.

---Here, I'll say it. "Guy fucking his mom says that kissing her is weird"

Do you still continue this sexual relationship today?

No, it ended after I left for college. It just started to slow down and then eventually stopped. There wasn't an event that ended it. I have talked to my mother and father about it over the years. The subject is not off limits. I don't think that either of us wishes it to start up again.

• Why did you feel tha need of sharing this experience?*
• Why now?
• What happened?
• Does your mother know, that you are discussing this right now?
• If yes, does she agree?

I am new to Reddit and saw the guy with his sister. I'm not sure it he turned out to be real but either way. Most of you were not assholes about it. It seemed like an easy way to inform and share. It is a bit cathartic to answer questions.

Did you ever talk dirty to each other?

No, no dirty talk. At the beginning, she could be clinical in her description of what she was doing and I would get turned on, but not dirty dirty. At orgasm, there could be the "Oh Shit" or "Oh Fuck"

Had you already lost your virginity, or was your mother your first?

I lost my hanjob/blowjob virginity to my mom. But intercourse was with a GF

Did your parents ever tell you not to tell anyone outside of the household? if so how?

They never had to tell me, I think that it was a mutual decision.