IAMA Man who had a sexual relationship with his mother. (Probably NSFW)
IAMA Man who had a sexual relationship with his mother. Verified
Update 6/6/12 I will no longer be answering questions on the AMA
Most the the questions have already been answered
It has been a fun five months. Thanks
I will post info when the Dr/Researcher's work is made available
When I was in my teens, I had a sexual relationship with my mother. I think that we would both characterize the experience as positive. Please fee free to ask anything but I will not discuss anything that would reveal my identity. Recently, my mom and I spoke with a researcher that is studying example of incest that were not traumatic. He is preparing a paper on the subject. I am not an advocate for incest. For whatever reason, it worked for us. Don't use use my experience as a template. I am here to relate my experience, not debate incest as a subject.
Here are a few FAQs that people will probably ask:
It started when I was 14, my mom was 37
I have an older sister that was unaware and not involved.
My dad knew about it from the beginning and supported my mom's decision.
It ended around college.
Edit 1 I am probably missing question but I will go back and answer anything that I missed.
Edit 2 Verification took about a month of going back and forth with a researcher that verified both my mom's and my identity for his research. He reached out to the mods and verified with them. It was also verified that he is who he says he is and that his field of practice is child psychology and sexual research.
Edit 3 I need to leave for a little while but will be back to answer questions that haven't been answered.
Edit 4 I will continue to try to answer questions from the AMA as well as PMs but I need to call it a day. Thank you for the questions. 1pm PST
Edit 5 December 28 I am happy to continue answering questions if any are posted. I am going through the AMA now and trying to cover it. Too clear up one thing that people have been commenting about. My father and sister did not have a sexual relationship. Like I said, my sister was not wired that way. Plus, I did bring this up with my mom as our sexual relationship progressed. She said that my dad wasn't I treated and that my sister certainly wouldn't want to be involved. She said that my dad was jealous of the relationship that mom and I had but that he harbored no lustful thoughts towards my sister. There was no reason for my mom to lie to me about that back then. It certainly would have made the sneaking around a lot easier when my sister was at the house.