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Hi! I’m Omar Epps author of From Fatherless To Fatherhood. Come join me to discuss my new book, movies, TV and much more! AMA
In From Fatherless to Fatherhood, author and renowned actor Omar Epps chronicles his journey from humble beginnings in Brooklyn, New York, to the bright lights of Hollywood. Having grown up without his biological father, then becoming a father himself, Epps shares his story of pain and triumph in a uniquely visceral way. His book is available on amazon.com
skinsballr1330 karma
I love the username, Omar! How many times have people called you "Mike Tomlin"?
bondoville796 karma
Hey Omar. What is one of your best memories on the set of House? Me and my wife are re binge watching all of the seasons. Absolutely love that show
notmiketomlin935 karma
Thank you! One of the best memories is the ep Hugh directed. We had a lot of fun with our characters on that one.
#Trivia ;-)
johhnytexas717 karma
That episode of house "Euphoria" where Foreman is really, really sick and his father visited was some of the best acting I have ever seen. You were super convincing and did great portraying how much pain Foreman was in. How did you prepare for those scenes?
alKoh702 karma
My dude. When you were on House was it just a matter of reading scripts or did you actually get to learn a little about the medical conditions that were on the show? Did it help you gain an appreciation for medicine?
notmiketomlin1041 karma
Yeah we had a solid group of medical consultants, and a couple of the writers were former doctors. I already had respect for the medical world, but I definitely gained a deeper appreciation.
notmiketomlin644 karma
Thank you all for joining me today, I appreciate each and every one of you! You had some great questions, and I really enjoyed this! Be sure to pick up my new book From Fatherless to Fatherhood on amazon.com
Check out Shooter Thursday's 10pm/9c on USA. And follow me on Twitter, IG and Facebook @omarepps
Until next time, peace & love!!
MusicGuy75316 karma
Hello! I would like to ask, what was the hardest thing to deal with growing up without a father?
notmiketomlin376 karma
I don't know if I can stamp it down to just one thing. There are a myriad of issues one can have when they grow up fatherless.
voisman86314 karma
I cant imagine what it was like to grow up without a father. Did you have male role models such as uncles/grandfather/teacher/coach who was very influential in your life?
Really enjoyed your character on House.
notmiketomlin366 karma
Yes, I've had a few "father figures" who were great positive influences in my life.
SpotISAGoodCat203 karma
Omar: Your book sounds great. I, too, have gone from fatherless to fatherhood and it was tough in certain ways and great in other ways. I can't wait to read it.
As an actor, do you prefer making movies or TV more? Why?
Thanks!
notmiketomlin195 karma
Thank you, and salute to you! I don't have a preference, it's all the same to me and I love them both.
BamBamKoloff165 karma
Growing up, Higher Learning was an eye opening movie for me. Did you have any memorable experiences working on the film?
notmiketomlin207 karma
Nice! it's crazy how so many of the issues in that film still resonate today. One of my biggest memories on that set was experiencing an earthquake for the first time in my life!
shaggypotato0917149 karma
Love the Reddit handle, it's perfect.
You've portrayed an athlete in quite a few movies. If you had the chance to be a professional athlete, which sport would you choose? And which sport is more fun from an acting perspective?
notmiketomlin170 karma
Pro athlete would be football. I also love boxing, and it was fun to play a character from that world.
PmMeGiftCardCodes105 karma
Hi Omar. How would you feel about being the assistant head coach for the Pittsburg Steelers? Also, Brady or Roethlisberger?
notmiketomlin95 karma
Great question hmm... I can't quite say, a lot of things directors suggest can be strange lol!
juniorspank83 karma
Hey, huge fan!
Given that he's done so historically, how many games do you expect Le'Veon Bell to sit out this season? Will he be back next year?
Thanks Coach!
Blastgirl6968 karma
My husband grew up without his father and it really helped shape him to be a great father to our children. I have 3 that are not his and one biological. He calls them all his kids and treats them the same. Did you ever feel as a young man that by having those father figures who were positive help you grow into the man you are today?
notmiketomlin70 karma
That's great to hear, salute to him! Yes, the father figures I had thru out my childhood definitely had role in shaping me into the man I am today.
Paranoia_Panda67 karma
Hi Omar, what was the funniest moment you witnessed whilst filming House?
notmiketomlin58 karma
I can't pick out one to be the funniest hands down, but we had plenty of them.
keifmecompany59 karma
Hey Omar! I’m looking forward to reading your book and learning more about your personal journey and growth!
I can imagine growing up without a biological father impacted your life in many ways. Did it affect your romantic relationships, or your ability to trust people? If so, how were you able to overcome this.
Thank you for your insight!
notmiketomlin98 karma
Thank you, I hope you enjoy the book. Great question. Growing up fatherless will definitely give you trust issues. For me, I had an incredible mother and a solid support system, so I was able to overcome certain things because of their love.
LloydWoodsonJr57 karma
Are you aware of your resemblance to Pittsburgh Steelers head coach, Mike Tomlin, and would you ever appear on an internet or TV program with him? Or have you ever gone as him for Halloween?
notmiketomlin82 karma
Halloween?? Haaaaa!!! That's hilarious! But yeah I'm aware, hence the username. ;-)
JTC8053 karma
Can you talk about how you and Tupac ad-libbed most of the script to Juice? Was that encouraged or just something you guys did?
notmiketomlin109 karma
The original script was written like 10 yrs prior to when we filmed it. So, we just did our thing as far as contemporary verbiage.
notmiketomlin56 karma
I had a great time working with him! He's an extremely unique storyteller.
tedfondue43 karma
ER or House? And what's your secret to being a convincing medicine man ?
Recon_by_Fire40 karma
Hey Omar, can you give me any closure as to where they were going with Resurrection before it got cancelled? Thanks.
notmiketomlin47 karma
I wish I could! I loved doing that show. If we'd had gone for say 5 seasons, I suggested to Aaron Zelman (he created the show) that the entire thing was a dream to Bellamy.
xGOSHUx27 karma
I watched The Program again a few weeks ago. It's still a great movie. Do you ever go back and watch it, and do you ever talk to those guys anymore?
notmiketomlin24 karma
Nice! I haven't seen it in ages. Haven't spoken to most of those guys in a while.
notmiketomlin44 karma
Interesting question. Hmmm... Probably more time to learn a different language. I'd started learning Italian but...
onedeep20320 karma
What's up I'm at? Just wanted to say I enjoy your movies and tv shows bro loved your character in "juice" and in "the wood". What was it like working with Pac?
notmiketomlin33 karma
I'm passionate about many things. Creativity, positivity, fatherhood, and the list goes on...
VaDiSt16 karma
Favourite food and drink?
And interesting AMA, luckily i grew up with my father so i cannot imagine what it must have been like.
notmiketomlin40 karma
Caribbean food is my favorite - specifically Jamaican. Fave drink depends on my mood ;-)
VaDiSt8 karma
Ah cool, any specific dishes hehe... In dire need of new stuff to try.
So lets say, a happy mood, which drink would you suggest?
notmiketomlin45 karma
Can't go wrong with a Moscow Mule. Jerk chicken roti or if you're not a meat eater, vegetable roti. Just make sure it's from an authentic Jamaican spot!
stevegoodsex15 karma
I grew up with similar circumstances. My dad bailed before I could walk, and I'm now the father to an 8 and 2 year old. Big props to you, I definitely plan on getting your book, my question, what's the hardest part for you doing this thing with no real point of reference?
notmiketomlin46 karma
Thank you! Stay steadfast! The hardest part is coming to peace with your own issues surrounding having grown up fatherless. You have to gain acceptance in order to move towards being at peace with it, and finally you have to embrace it. And you have to embrace it, so that you can detach it from your own fatherhood. Know that your fatherhood is your own unique experience, and your kids have nothing to do with your fatherlessness.
slimstarman14 karma
Is there an existing show/film series you’ve thought that you’d want to work on? What’s happening in 2018 that gets Omar Epps hyped to jump into something? Anything?
notmiketomlin25 karma
It's just something that came to me in a moment, and I kind of felt tasked to do it. As far as the process, I had the chapters in my head almost right away, so I felt like I had somewhat of a guide. But aside from that, its just rolling up your sleeves and getting it done.
suitcase8813 karma
Do you like when those Brooklyn kids do their routines for handouts, by swinging from the poles in the subway cars shouting "SHOWTIME"?
notmiketomlin38 karma
Ha!! I always think it's great when kids showcase their talents on the subway. Better them doing that than getting into trouble.
KamehameBoom12 karma
do you go back to Brooklyn ever and if you do, what's youre favorite pizza place?
notmiketomlin24 karma
I go back all the time. I've got a few fave pizza spots. #TradeSecrets ;-)
notmiketomlin29 karma
Can't say I have a fave because I love so many of them, but The Roots & N.E.R.D. are up there. James Brown and his band were pretty awesome too.
Whiskey_Sierra_Tango7 karma
Heya!
I actually happen to be a big fan of yours since early 2000s. Dunno, you just have one of those very likable "I'd buy this guy a beer" faces :D
So anyway, how'd you describe your role among the cast? There's always the fun guy, the serious guy, the guy who thinks he's better director than the actual director, the one who just wants to go home, etc. Which one are you?
Also, can you tell a joke? You know, so I can go around telling people about that one time Omar Epps told me a joke.
Sorry if I'm derailing this away from serious discussion but I never thought I'd have a chance to ask you something so I have to make sure it's a bit ridiculous as it should be :D
notmiketomlin15 karma
Appreciate you! Among different casts, I'm the super focused guy once the camera is on.
Iscariot19451422 karma
I need to know one thing... Is it lupus?
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