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IamA (A man born with no testicles ) AMA!
My short bio:i was born with no testicles.in school it was hard trying to stay a secret that i had no balls because i would be made fun of for no being a hole man
im also i'm dyslexic
i have taken testosterone on and off for the pass 6 to 7 year
one of you asked for a dick pic so here it is http://imgur.com/qBp3SBK
be back in the morning
My Proof: http://imgur.com/iLvqwC2
gravitydefier47 karma
Can you still spank the monkey? Shoot one out? Flick the bean? Masturbate? Does nothing come out?
gravitydefier24 karma
Does that mean you don't get any sense of pleasure when wanking? Or do you still climax but simply nothing comes out? Asking for genuine curiosity.
nickert0n39 karma
Thank you for sharing, you're very brave. What are your ambitions/what do you enjoy in life?
Do you have any attraction to either sex physically or emotionally?
DisGateway38 karma
When I was 18 I lost both of my nuts. I was very fortunate in the fact that I had already developed. I've seen on here you say you can't cum. Do you still not ejaculate fluids from the prostate? It's all I got left in the tank as well.
Are you in a relationship? I discovered after loosing mine that for a while I thought I was gay. I only needed to kiss one guy to discover I was infact not gay.
Are you on the shots or gel? I'm on the shots. I absolutely hate being on the shots but of all the treatment options it remains the cheapest.
Similarly how long does it take you to notice that your t levels are dropping in between shots? I can usually tell by 8th day. I take mine every two weeks as well. It's the one time my wife smiles is by stabbing me lol
All in all your not alone. I hope you find happiness with whatever you do in life. Do not let this define who you are as a person.
m19836 karma
How did you lose yours? And how did it feel when you found out you'd lost them? OP hasn't had any from birth so I'm guessing it doesn't feel as bad to have lost something he never had where as your situation was a little different..
DisGateway9 karma
Cancer. I went through a huge bout of depression, sexuality confusion. I didn't feel like a man.
It was rough patch but I came to accept it. I'd go on to have lots of sex get married. My wife really help me come to terms with it.
DisGateway4 karma
About 5.5 inches. I think my dick actually got a little smaller after losing my nuts. I attribute this to going without any testosterone for almost a year.
goodguydolls52 karma
it depends if they know or not .if they do i say "of course i don't " and if they don't know i just say "do you"
slenderonsundayONLY23 karma
Have you met /u/DoubleDickDude? You guys should take over the world with your unique genitalia.
MyOtherAltIsAHuman17 karma
- Do you get turned on?
- Do you watch porn?
- Do you have a desire to have sex?
- Do you get depressed over your condition?
- Do you have a desire to be in a relationship, or to have children?
- Do you feel like this defines who you are, or affects your interactions with people?
goodguydolls34 karma
sometime but rarely
only wen its on http://www.reddit.com/r/WTF/ other then that its gross
not realy
no
yes but with some one i connected with and yes i would like to have kids
no
lisaslover17 karma
What age did you start hormone replacement? Are you able to have a sex life with the help of drugs?
goodguydolls28 karma
I started at 12 but i moved a lot so i dint have regular shots so my dick is 2 inch i have had sex ones she dint enjoy it
lisaslover18 karma
Does that mean that you have given up on having a meaningful sex life? Surely there is something that can be done to help you.
goombawars7 karma
Do you feel you're missing out on something, or you just don't care for it?
TheFalconKnee14 karma
So how much more feminine are you then compared to an average guy if you have next to no testosterone? To be honest I didn't even know you could get an erection without any testosterone.
goodguydolls21 karma
little bit more then the average guy .and i cant get erected with out testosterone
ConfidentButWrong12 karma
Have you ever tried on women's skinny jeans? If so how do they fit? If not why not?
goodguydolls59 karma
i m a large guy no i have not put on skinny jeans but i have put on a dress
jimmyreefer11 karma
Do you have a higher pitched voice then guys your age? Castrato men would have been castrated early in their teens to preserve their high pitched voice, interested to know if its the same for you. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castrato
Edit: Big ups to you for sharing this
goombawars11 karma
Have you ever shown it to a girl/guy you had sex with? How did they react?
goodguydolls43 karma
i was int going to show her but she put her hands down my pants and there you have little dick and no balls we still had sex but it wasnit pleasurably for her
gliterpoison10 karma
So have you ever thought you were asexual? I only ask because a lack of the sexual hormone may mean that the sexual side of a relationship just isn't an interest to you and I noticed you said sex was gross.
goodguydolls21 karma
yes. i like to know the person for their personality not their sex appeal
gliterpoison8 karma
That's very interesting, thank you for being so honest here on this thread :) So did you ever have problems when hanging out with guys as you were growing up? Like everyone talking about puberty or hot girls or even just the lack of a sex drive?
goodguydolls20 karma
my doctor said i'm his first and that their have only been 10 confirmed cases ever in canada when i was born they did exploratory surgery to try to find them but they were not there .
AlexanderBopp4 karma
Do you worry if you find that SO, that you will not be strongly in long lasting love since you cannot have normal sex and biological children?
reddittarded3 karma
Does your body look like someone with klinefelter syndrome? Wide hips, narrow shoulders etc?
MerryChoppins2 karma
Do you still have regular erections are inappropriate times or is it just after you get a testosterone shot?
goodguydolls21 karma
the week of the shot yes but less but the next wek not so much
one shot every 2 weeks
essayerdenouveau2 karma
I hate to ask this because I don't know how much info you're comfortable with giving out, but would you consider posting a picture of your face to show the difference it's had on your facial structure?
gthwes2 karma
Do you find naked females attractive to look at?
It is common for guys to stare at a lady in yoga pants walking by. Wow, she has a nice butt kind of thing. You've established your lack of sexuality. But is there still a physical attraction to female bodies in some sort of non-sexual way? Like you find them alluring or pleasing to look at?
Freesolo1 karma
First off thanks for sharing your story
At what age did you find out that you had no testicles? The reason i ask is i had Undescended testis when i was born and everyone missed it until i was 13 then i started to have bad cramps in my groin where my testicles sat, i had 2 operations and both my testis were dropped.
Its amazing what doctors and nurses can miss on babys and i had no idea what a pair of ball where supposed to look like, mine are damaged now it will be hard for me to have children, i have low test, and a high chance of testicular cancer because they were damaged
Nerozero-6 karma
Have you ever just thought "Fuck it, I'll get a gender reassignment surgery" and go at as a female?
aesir100-8 karma
Dude, I don't know what to say but I feel immense sadness for you. Is that wrong of me?
Pinanims-21 karma
So if you get worked up sexually, but aren't allowed to cum (if you can?) Do you still get blue balls?
JimmyRUDEjam-111 karma
That was my question too. You're not chasing girls, you're not masturbating and you have no balls why the fuck aren't you being an awesome scientist, doctor, artist, what-the-fuck-ever?! At least don't write like a 12 year old, though I guess if you don't have the necessary hormones maybe you can't move past a 12 year old mental state.
tehfrog49 karma
Do you have a prostate? Would stimulating that feel good for you? Have you tried?
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