ztycoonz

My girlfriend is often anxious about her insecurities, not being good enough, and a bunch of other things. Best advice for a supporting partner that also doesn't want to feel like I'm in a constant caretaking role?

I think this is spot on. I do feel an urge to be a caretaker which does encourage codependent behavior. So it's as much my responsibility to let others fix their problems as it is theirs to address them.