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Personally, I felt pressured reading your replies, and we're not even married, so it's hard for me to believe you never pressure her.... Just my two cents, since it seems like you really do want to be good to her. You have to stop taking things personally. Super manipulative-y. See a therapist if you can't.

Agree. I buzz my head CLOSE on purpose (would shave it but don't want to itch), because I think it looks cute, but people are always asking me "what'd you do that for", assuming that I did it for a fund raiser or that I'm sick. I'm not sure about your "trying to be edgy" comment--I live in Iowa, though, so maybe it's just not a thing here--but people are always asking for personal details about my medical history.

Do you ever take the time to explain the truth to complete strangers? I feel like that would get exhausting.

What do you mean? Help... clean up the plane?

I totally get that. And then there are the people who aren't satisfied. Like why can't I answer you quickly and then we change the subject? They always reply with "really?" or more questions. Sometimes I just wanna work! Of course, I did this by choice, so it's different.

Thanks for the IamA :)

Are you under the impression that you're speaking with a ghost?