xj371

When will men realize that big dicks do not guarantee good sex?

Porn is timed to the rhythm of male masturbation. The pacing, the editing, the timing...it's all designed to get you off in solo mode. Sex with other people is often not in this rhythm -- it's more drawn out. Your body and mind are likely "addicted" to this timing. So, imo, stop watching so much porn when you masturbate. Give your body time to re-train itself to a slower rhythm.

Don't know why you're getting downvoted -- this is an important question.

Try and use that fact itself to drive you to make a call. ''No one cares how I feel, nor do they understand it...this is leaving me extra vulnerable, which is not safe, or right. I need someone who will listen to me. Being all alone is just making this worse.''

I'm just curious why there seems to be so much concern over privacy (curtains, booths), yet with certain populations it seems to be much less of a concern. I don't know the solution, I just feel it's an inconsistency.