woody29

A bit curious about how your kids are dealing with this? My Mom passed when I was three and my Dad died almost 5 years ago, I'm 38. My Dad never really talked to me about death and didn't talk to me much about my Mom. I hope you live a long healthy life, but I am wondering how you are preparing your children for the eventual?

There are some ways you could maybe get exercise. I used to help a lady who had problems walking. She would use a machine at the gym that worked like a bicycle for arms. It might be a bit cost inhibitive though. You might be able to find a cheaper version on the internet for your home.

That is completely understandable with kids that age. It would be too much for them to understand.

They had broken things off for a while and she drowned under very odd circumstances the day before she was supposed to come back home. I have a feeling there was foul play and retribution so it was never discussed. It was all really hard to understand at three.

Glad to see how positive you are about this and I hope the chemo goes well for you to get you prepared so the surgery. I'm not sure I would have the same attitude so it's really good to see.