wifeduck

Sooo delving a little further, I am still looking for the why you made this choice. Was it because you couldn't give him up completely? I am not being controversial, I understand what an open adoption is and why they are done. I am asking why you chose this method for you. And how are you introduced? "Friend" "birthmother".

And thank you for opening up for these tough questions. This is a difficult situation, lots of questions.

No strip clubs! THAT is why your AmA is sooooo much cooler than mine. Keep rockin' I used to take my youngest on playdates with a wonderful young CP patient.

Why open adoption? Why not cut ties and allow the parents to raise him without the confusion?

My daughter was adopted by her step-father....she had never......ever met her biological. We never hid that she was adopted, infact, we spoke of it openly, but did not share with her his information until she was an adult. Not that my situation is relevant to yours, just curious why you made this choice.