wef1983

What if your low libido partner doesn't enjoy foreplay? I always try to start with oral, hands etc and she just wants to move to penetration. We have had numerous discussions about turn ons etc and the most I've ever gotten is "I like when you are on top". I've tried numerous mediums for these talks, text, email, in person so that she doesn't feel pressured and has time to think but nothing improves.

She also has never had an orgasm as far as I can tell and seems to accept this as normal. I've never had a problem bringing my partner to orgasm before, so sex ends up feeling really selfish. She insists that it feels good though.

Any thoughts?

"I know nothing about the likelihood of you actually getting a remote job on my site, I just want to make money while you try."

I've bought her a vibrator (after discussing it with her). She said that she doesn't want to use it on herself and when I tried to use it on her she just started laughing. I've suggested all the things you've said and I'm still at a loss unfortunately.

You either need a good job, be ok with living in a shitty neighborhood or have roommates. I make 100k and was able to buy a condo in a nice part of BK, but I bought it at the bottom of the market two years ago and would struggle to afford it now (it has nearly doubled in value). To give you an idea of how much apartments cost, mine is a 600 sq ft duplex and is worth close to half a million now.

There are ways to make it work though, my wife lived in the west village for years in a tiny 3BR apt and only paid $700 a month.

I wouldn't recommend moving here without a solid job opportunity, but you can definitely make things work without making 100k, if you want to buy property and settle down here it's more difficult though.

Already done, and she doesn't want to use it on herself and when I tried to use it on her she just laughed...