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tysonDUB22 karma

Why can't you resolve their concern without forcing them to file a PayPal claim? Outsourcing it to PayPal just makes it look like you don't care about your supporters. I know providing customer service might be a bit overwhelming, but it'll really help your business if you take ownership when someone mentions an issue to you.

tysonDUB12 karma

I think this is a healthy mindset. You aren't saying your relationship isn't important, and I'm sure it wouldn't be a simple decision to choose an activity over your relationship. But it's healthy to maintain a sense of separate identity. Many people get in relationships and subsequently lose who they were because they give up interests that their partner doesn't share or enjoy. That rarely ends well, and you see so many people who seem to be shells of their former selves, without true happiness and zest for life. It's so much better if you can be two separate people who have shared passions, but also still use that foundation of trust and love to encourage freedom to be an individual. And if you discover that the relationship is holding you back from happiness, it's important to be open about those feelings so you can decide if there's a way to solve it and continue your commitment. Sometimes there just isn't. Sometimes the biggest act of love is setting someone free.

Your setup may not work for everyone (because jealousy is real), but I wish people could see why this is actually a valid approach to relationships.

Edit: Fixed grammar.

tysonDUB3 karma

Thank you for saying this! That moment took me right out of the movie. I realized that there was no force pulling him at that point, so having him detach was all a plot device to get her alone and amp up emotions. It made the rest of the movie feel cheap to me.

tysonDUB2 karma

Hi YT. Your rap delivery has seemed to have a bit of a dirty (nerdy) south drawl that is very different from how you speak. What rappers influenced your style?