I made a throwaway as it rather personal for me. But what are you thoughts on Premature EJ. Because I have a very bad problem with it. My wife is very supportive and says shes ok with it. But, I KNOW for a fact it bothers her. And its to a point where is starting to affect both our once very healthy and active sex drives.
So, most of the time, once im in, Ive got maybe a minute( pun sadly intended) before I go. I loathe that sooo much, Because i would actually like to enjoy making love to her. So i try to compensate by going down on her, which we both thoroughly enjoy. But I would still like to go for longer than 5 seconds as it would seem. If she goes down on me, its usually a decent amount of time before I go, which confuses me.
If she gets on top, I can go a little longer but not by much, as im concentrating on not going or doing math problems, so my mind inst totally engaged. which sucks because I want to be there entirely in the moment with her. And to compound the issue, its becoming more rare she gets off on top or takes to long and she gets discouraged, and I hate seeing that in her eyes.
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First of all thanks for doing this.
I made a throwaway as it rather personal for me. But what are you thoughts on Premature EJ. Because I have a very bad problem with it. My wife is very supportive and says shes ok with it. But, I KNOW for a fact it bothers her. And its to a point where is starting to affect both our once very healthy and active sex drives.
So, most of the time, once im in, Ive got maybe a minute( pun sadly intended) before I go. I loathe that sooo much, Because i would actually like to enjoy making love to her. So i try to compensate by going down on her, which we both thoroughly enjoy. But I would still like to go for longer than 5 seconds as it would seem. If she goes down on me, its usually a decent amount of time before I go, which confuses me.
If she gets on top, I can go a little longer but not by much, as im concentrating on not going or doing math problems, so my mind inst totally engaged. which sucks because I want to be there entirely in the moment with her. And to compound the issue, its becoming more rare she gets off on top or takes to long and she gets discouraged, and I hate seeing that in her eyes.
Any advise would be greatly appropriated.
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