therapistrachel

That's a great question Jeratain. You will probably continue to understand her more and more every single day for the rest of your time together. We are constantly evolving, so once we think we got it.... BOOM, something changes!

I don't know how you're interpreting her requests as bickering, but if they are "naggy," I would let her know how being bickered with or being nagged at makes you feel. If she knows its hurting you, she will stop. Otherwise, she may not know she's doing anything to upset you.

I don't think that there is anything wrong with polyamory, as long as both people involved and ALL people involved know what is going on. I think that if you do love both of them, the way to show that is to be honest. What do you think your wife would say? Would she be open to a polyamorous lifestyle?

Absolutely! and YAY FOR YOU!!

So happy you're having sex again and want to figure out answers to whatever is going on. Check out: http://www.minddisorders.com/Kau-Nu/Male-orgasmic-disorder.html

I always recommend you go to your Medical Doctor first and make sure that biologically everything is okay. If that checks out, then its time for a therapist. Hope this helps - let me know if you have any other questions! :)

I utilize some somatic psychotherapy interventions in my practice. I think that our body holds onto things sometimes that our mind can't logically understand or make sense of. Its a great way at getting into those feelings and going deeper than our conscious words.

Absolutely! That sounds fantastic.