theoldnewbluebox

You're excellent.

The thing is there are always going to be people who take things to far. Hell some one tried to kill John Lennon over catcher in the rye. I have no facts or numbers to substantiate this opinion, but I truly believe that the 10% that you mentioned are already the men who are going to be date rapists. No book is going to convince a sane grounded person that date rape or rape is ok. To suggest so is very short sighted.

On a more personal note as a 21m I could totally deal with a generic and balanced seduction guide. So much pressure is put on men to go after women that its daunting when you don't know what to do and every resource that exists is labled as being bad by the majority of women. Where are we supposed to go for help? I haven't gotten laid in over a year because when approaching a woman in a bar I have to leave it all for bare and them decide if I am good enough. Now I ask you how in the fuck do you do that in five minutes in a crowded loud place possibly with her friends standing there without making your self out to be an ass?

Men In this regard are out in the lonely wild with this and any good tips are regarded as being predatory. Fuck that. Maybe we just want to meet someone but lack the confidence to do it our selves.