Ok so here is the deal, been with my current girl for about 7 years now (first real relationship out of high school) and I am debating on breaking up with her. The reason's why are she threatened if I don't marry her soon she will leave me and also threatened if we don't buy a house she will do it herself and leave me. She is a year younger than me and we are in early 20's. We both have decent jobs but are living paycheck to paycheck. I really have not been happy in the relationship for the past few years but thought it is just a rough patch. I have a potential new place to move into but just want some opinions to help try and weigh the pros/cons if anyone have any. Tried talking to her about it and she of course said she didn't mean it but the fighting that followed after she said both statements seemed pretty real to me. I feel like if I stay with her I will just be dragging her along for who knows how long. Any advice you can give?
tl;dr: thinking about ending relationship and moving out very soon and need help doing so or not.
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Ok so here is the deal, been with my current girl for about 7 years now (first real relationship out of high school) and I am debating on breaking up with her. The reason's why are she threatened if I don't marry her soon she will leave me and also threatened if we don't buy a house she will do it herself and leave me. She is a year younger than me and we are in early 20's. We both have decent jobs but are living paycheck to paycheck. I really have not been happy in the relationship for the past few years but thought it is just a rough patch. I have a potential new place to move into but just want some opinions to help try and weigh the pros/cons if anyone have any. Tried talking to her about it and she of course said she didn't mean it but the fighting that followed after she said both statements seemed pretty real to me. I feel like if I stay with her I will just be dragging her along for who knows how long. Any advice you can give?
tl;dr: thinking about ending relationship and moving out very soon and need help doing so or not.
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