theadoptedtenenbaum

w/e I am fuckin' weird-looking. Not fat as fuck tho. Very underweight. That's why it's unusual to read this, because all the monogamous people I know are of healthy weight after all. :D

An adult who throws tantrums will do exactly that regardless of relationship dynamic, if there is one. Believe me. Ugh.

A bit of a two-parter here. What specifically about the people in the relationship do you feel contributed to its toxicity? And, further on, do you believe that if they were (in some fashion or another) in monogamous relationships, would they still engage in unhealthy/insecure behaviors? (Checking phones, accusing of cheating, limiting contact, etc.)

I am very underweight (80lbs or what I think is 10st?) and have a shaved head with blue hair and usually dress in a bathrobe. But I think all ppl are reserved reserved, to certain degrees, in the unconventional approaches we take to life--for fear of judgment from the communities we feel safe in. I've met punks who denigrate ppl at shows for wearing a button-down and slacks.

tl;dr attacking the most superficial traits is just a defense from learning new things.