Hello I am a 27 Year old woman with a graduate degree and a stable career. I am allegedly good looking (though im petite and often look way younger which is an insecurity) and fun to talk to but I see myself as having nothing to offer. I feel stuck on dating apps and trying to get myself out there to the point where I think I am trying to sabotage myself. I am finally getting out of the texting stage and when a guy asks me out I look at a profile make up some excuse as to why I’m not attracted to him then freeze the conversation. Also when I have seen men in the past I OBSESS over personal hygiene to the point of avoiding eating on dates so I don’t get gassy and avoiding water because I am terrified of peeing during sex even though this has never happened. How can I navigate all this so I don’t miss out on a good thing?
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Hello I am a 27 Year old woman with a graduate degree and a stable career. I am allegedly good looking (though im petite and often look way younger which is an insecurity) and fun to talk to but I see myself as having nothing to offer. I feel stuck on dating apps and trying to get myself out there to the point where I think I am trying to sabotage myself. I am finally getting out of the texting stage and when a guy asks me out I look at a profile make up some excuse as to why I’m not attracted to him then freeze the conversation. Also when I have seen men in the past I OBSESS over personal hygiene to the point of avoiding eating on dates so I don’t get gassy and avoiding water because I am terrified of peeing during sex even though this has never happened. How can I navigate all this so I don’t miss out on a good thing?
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