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I feel stupid asking this, but how does one go about stopping being selfless or at least less selfless ?

I’ve never cared about ‘me’ - for as long as I can remember (I’m 41 now). I have a few failed relationships and am currently single and I wonder if not caring about myself is the reason or some of it. Making other people happy used to make me happy, but not so much any more - I still do it, but I get no gratification from it now.

I’m not even sure this makes sense tbh.