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so I suggested my wife continue to the trip and she did. She asked my permission to see an ex (whom I had met a couple weeks before) and I happily granted it, and well... she slept with him. I stand by that choice of mine being the "right" one, but I certainly was plenty trusting back then as well.

I don't want to stick my nose in your love life but I think you did nothing wrong. I consider trust in a relationship essential: it makes you vulnerable but at the same time paves the way for a deeper and happier connection.

Whoa I didn't know that is a thing. Thanks for bringing this up! It sounds very wholesome

Or both!

Dang this is so interesting! I'm glad that is has some positive effects for you

I never used coffee before but isnt it's purpose to simplify things? I know adding another layer like this comes with its own weight, but I wonder what makes you migrate away from it again. (maybe I don't see all the caveats clearly enough, sorry for this somewhat naive question)