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strudelkopf148 karma

so I suggested my wife continue to the trip and she did. She asked my permission to see an ex (whom I had met a couple weeks before) and I happily granted it, and well... she slept with him. I stand by that choice of mine being the "right" one, but I certainly was plenty trusting back then as well.

I don't want to stick my nose in your love life but I think you did nothing wrong. I consider trust in a relationship essential: it makes you vulnerable but at the same time paves the way for a deeper and happier connection.

strudelkopf11 karma

Whoa I didn't know that is a thing. Thanks for bringing this up! It sounds very wholesome

strudelkopf10 karma

Or both!

strudelkopf5 karma

Dang this is so interesting! I'm glad that is has some positive effects for you

strudelkopf2 karma

I never used coffee before but isnt it's purpose to simplify things? I know adding another layer like this comes with its own weight, but I wonder what makes you migrate away from it again. (maybe I don't see all the caveats clearly enough, sorry for this somewhat naive question)