stop_stopping

I might be wayy too far down for you to ever read this, but I think you should attempt other ways at gaining intimacy, beyond sexual.

I'm sure you guys have done that before, and done that in the past, but as of right now it seems like that has completely faded and you need to bridge that gap before it's too late.

Look in each other's eyes for 1 minute each day, without moving. Go on a romantic "date" a week, take a road trip a month.

Just start doing little, non-physical things to rebuild the bond between you.

Intimacy doesn't have to be physical. I find it weird that sooo many people here are putting such an emphasis on that. Maybe it's the age range.

Maybe if your wife begins to feel more secure with herself, and possibly your relationship (once the intimacy and trust is rebuilt) you can discuss ways that you can be physically satisfied, or maybe ways that she can be physically satisfied away from the vagina. You don't have to have a destroyed sex life just because her vagina doesn't work-- there are so many different things you can do. The body is FULL of erogenous zones.

Of all you guys have done (and thank-you), what has had the most notable impact on the community? What has had the biggest impact on you?