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Your store only goes up to a J? I'm glad the one near me has my size. I fit a 38L and there's only one store that carries it near me, I often order online from Breakoutbras.com since they have more choices and shipping is free.

Help your wife find a "Well Spouse" group. That's one thing I wish I'd found sooner.

How long are you planning to continue working, assuming you are currently employed?

Also, what if you live longer than a year? What if in 3 years you're still alive, although doing a lot more poorly than now, and having wracked up so many more hospital bills that you're less financially okay? Or did you mean you're financially okay cuz you already have life insurance?

Not OP, but... if you could find a Well Spouse group, that would likely be appreciated by her husband.

As far as neighborly caring... if you'd like to pick up some yardwork now and then (shovel her driveway as well as yours / go mow or weed whack if you notice it needs doing) or perhaps offer to pickup their groceries while you're out getting your own, those are commonly appreciated gestures that show care. A note saying you're available down the street to call if they need something and your number are nice, also, but it's hard to actually call the people who offer open ended help. Specific offers are easier to take people up on, so if there's some specific thing you might be willing to do, offer that.

That is sad. :( There are several stores around here that carry up to H. Even the mall! I do live in a large metro area, though. I'm sure if I lived in a smaller populated town my only option would be online. It's so nice to get fittings and have an idea of how specific brands fit, though, so I try to support my local store when I can.