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Did you meet and connect with the couple during the surrogacy process? Did they join you for things like doctor appointments? Did you join them for things like gender reveals, baby showers, etc.?

Thanks for answering! I know you can’t say much about the couple, but can you elaborate at all on keeping the surrogacy private? It won’t matter in about a year but in present time, I feel like the only option would be to present the baby as adopted to people who the new family sees regularly (like colleagues).

How were these locations chosen? How much time do you feel you need to spend in a location to say you’ve “been there”; a meal, an overnight, a weekend, longer?