sexclubthrowaway

Nope, completely white. You're right that many sex related industries like Soap Lands (legalized prostitution) tend to deny foreigners. At the happening bars though, they allow foreigners if you can understand the rules and don't have tattoos. Understanding Japanese helps cause it helps understanding the rules. Not having tattoos is big as they're seen as a criminal element since they're popular with Yakuza.

To be honest, I think I get better attention than the Japanese because I am foreign, can speak quite a bit of Japanese, and don't act like an asshole. Again, it's not a guarantee but I think it helps. Remember its a club for men and women that are interested in sex. Considering Japan is not as sexually repressed as the US, I'm sure the women have had plenty of Japanese guys. Since there's not as many foreigners, a foreign guy is more of an exotic experience.

Honestly? I would probably do it behind her back. I'd still stay with her though.

Condoms are a must. In the US I notice that the older couples didn't like condoms sometimes, but you really want to wear them anyway.

I've never gotten an STD at these places. I've gotten STDs and was treated, but that was from sex in the normal walk of life (if you call a Pacific tour of locations normal).

My current partner is straight, but she did go down on one woman once. She's not okay with the clubs anymore because she put on weight and is a little older now (I don't think so, but self impression is an important ingredient to confidence). When she did go with me, she was okay with having sex with other guys and watching me have sex. I also had no problem with it.

For now, she doesn't care if I have sex with other women but she doesn't want to know about it if she wasn't there. Hopefully, she turns around again but if not, that's okay as I intend to stay with her.

In the Japanese sex clubs for singles and couples (Happening Bars), seeing good looking ladies tied up was crazy. Last month I witness the hot wax from candles being performed on a lady including clothes pins on the nipples. Seems crazy considering how laid back the places are for the most part.

*edit: I remember now. One of the craziest things had to be the evening that a porn actress named Cytheria showed up at a sex club in California. She had some type of fan club set up and those that signed up were given blue wrist straps. They were able to have sex with her first when she was in the mood.

First experience I had with a lady that squirted so much she hit the ceiling. Scared the shit out of a black guy that made her come a second time (he didn't see the first). Later I was able to join (being erect helps) and had fun making her come three or four times, but I didn't like the whole "Come on me, come on my tits" routine you hear in porn all the time. It was funny seeing her boyfriend/manager recruit a couple of ladies to be the "fluffer" for the evening.