severinskulls

who's on your list of top 5 rock stars?

bonus question: what is richard ayoade like in real life?

p.s. just thought i'd add that you were a big influence on me when i was younger and helped to come to terms with being a bit of a confuser...in australia there arent any role models like you and the first time i saw the boosh i understood why i felt a bit different from everyone else at school and in normal life. so thanks mate! big hero of mine!

did you find that because you had sex all the time for cash, that it meant you wernt looking as much for "personal" sex with someone you were actually into? what i mean is, did the sex for cash satisfy (at least to some extent) your normal sexual desires?

I just want to say that your attitude and outlook that comes through in the way your write is inspiring and incredible. I get the sense that overall you don't have the typical "woe is me" outlook that many people (understandably) do when they find themselves physically disabled. Are there times you ever feel frustrated by your conditions? Are there things you want to do that you can't? And lastly, to what do you think, do you owe your positive outlook? Is it something you were born with, or have you learned it through having to deal with these conditions?

you are very inspiring and I just want to say good luck in life, many people could learn a thing or two from you I think!

do you give him advice? direction? what is different about how you get off when you masturbate, vs when he stimulates you? generally i see masturbation as a way to learn about your body and what you like, and then you can use that info to help guide partners to getting you off.

one thing i've found in the past for example is that if a woman is used to getting off with a vibrator, penetrative sex doesn't provide the same stimulation as vibration, or it's not the stimulation that they are used to using to reach orgasm. so in that circumstance i suggest using the vibrator at the same time as normal sex, and that has always worked out for me.

you could also try not masturbating for a week or two, to increase your overall sensitivity, and maybe that would help push you over the edge? or you could try masturbating in a different way that mimics the sort of sex you have with your boyfriend, training yourself to orgasm through the kind of stimulation he gives you.

but honestly, laughing may not help him to do the best job he can. like, maybe he really doesn't care, but depending on the situation i can see that messing with me if i was in that situation.