I’m not Zoe, but I’ve dealt with this issue before and I think the best way to get them through it is to completely take orgasming off the table. Say we’re going to have sex/blowjob/whatever but I don’t want you to come. I realize you won’t come and I don’t want you to. I just want to do these things because they feel good. Then you can have sex and you can come, and if you do that a few times he’ll totally get over it. It’s just a mental thing because of all the building up pressure from all the unsuccessful sexual encounters. The minute you take the pressure off it tends to straighten out :)
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I’m not Zoe, but I’ve dealt with this issue before and I think the best way to get them through it is to completely take orgasming off the table. Say we’re going to have sex/blowjob/whatever but I don’t want you to come. I realize you won’t come and I don’t want you to. I just want to do these things because they feel good. Then you can have sex and you can come, and if you do that a few times he’ll totally get over it. It’s just a mental thing because of all the building up pressure from all the unsuccessful sexual encounters. The minute you take the pressure off it tends to straighten out :)
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