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But I'm afraid of what her husband might think

unfortunately, i think we all know the answer to this.

this made me laugh so hard, thanks. there's being comfortable in your own skin then there's drinking comfortably from your own skin.

...he literally just answered that

or to support somebody and when you come to them support you, they flake.

100 percent agree on this, friendship is reciprocal. However, keep in mind, that what you're asking, unless you're doing a ton for the people helping you, isn't reciprocal either.

That being said, kudos to you for setting your expectations for friendship and sticking to them. Not enough people put meaningful thought into who they surround themselves with.