punkbenRN

How does a couple go about finding a club like this? I feel like my fiancee and I would love this but wouldn't know how to even go about finding a swingers party. If you are going to suggest backpage or CL, are there red flags to watch out for?

Thanks for the advice! The problem we have is that were in small town in nh, and the population is... Considerably older. Not that that is a deal breaker, but we are younger couple and we want people closer to our own age too. I guess I just need to Google around a bit.

What is it that makes a "good" playing card? I have never really given it any thought and you seem very passionate about certain brands. Am I missing something? Thank you for doing this AMA, one of the more interesting ones I've read in some time.