Comfort can kill attraction - happens all the time with newly weds. Talking about it doesn't work - you cant really negotiate desire. Even if she agrees, she won't be that into it as it isn't coming from a primal place. You said you spend all your free time together - that may be the issue. Try spending less time together and focus on your own hobbies. There's a reason it's called 'sexual tension' and not 'sexual comfort'. Give it a shot.
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Comfort can kill attraction - happens all the time with newly weds. Talking about it doesn't work - you cant really negotiate desire. Even if she agrees, she won't be that into it as it isn't coming from a primal place. You said you spend all your free time together - that may be the issue. Try spending less time together and focus on your own hobbies. There's a reason it's called 'sexual tension' and not 'sexual comfort'. Give it a shot.
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