pixeL_89

I'm sorry to hear that, man. It's normal for kids to impact parents' sex life, but your case seems extreme. First of all, if she is bothered about the past, that's the first step. You have to talk about it and try to sort it out. If she really can't get over the past, if your actions really can't make her trust you anymore, I'm sorry, but your relationship has ended already.

If you can solve your past problems, in order to get more sex and affection you will need to put in a lot of effort. Talk to her, listen to her and, above all, help her with her duties as a mother. An exhausted wife will NEVER want sex.

You can't expect sex from a wife that doesn't feel you truly care about her. They're not like us, they don't use sex to bond. For a woman, bonding leads to sex, not the opposite.

Will you be playing Mongolian throat-singing while you ride your horse across the plains? Please, don't disappoint me.