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can you elaborate a little more? you made it sound like his parents sold him off to molesters in that previous comment, but now you are saying they didn't. what happened to him exactly? did you know he had been abused as a child before he was arrested?

I was somehow hoping that your explanation would sound less horrible than the thought of his parents selling him off. It wasn't. Thank you for answering, your reply to my question was really fast and you seem to be answering most of the questions people are asking, it's really appreciated. =)

Not OP either, but if you're nervous about it I highly recommend calling the office and speaking with the nurses to find out if there is a doctor that they think will work well with you, they know all the doctors and if you tell them what qualities you would like your doctor to have they should be able to give you a recommendation. You could say something like "I'm really nervous about this, I want a doctor who is calm and friendly and will be patient with me" when I asked the nurse when I was looking for mine, I asked for a female doctor thats good about explaining stuff (hate it when doctors dont tell you what/why they're doing something), and she gave me a recommendation and said the doctor was great with patients in my age range too which was something I hadn't thought of asking for before. And you can schedule a "get to know you" appointment first so you can just talk to your doctor and get to know them and ask questions before you schedule an actual exam if you think that would help you feel more comfortable, plus that way if you decide the doctor isnt right for you and makes you uncomfortable you can figure that out before you've had to do the exam with them.

But really, it isnt as scary as its made out to be. =)

I think the thought behind it is plant native plants so you spray fewer pesticides, not because native plants are more attractive to the bees.