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Maybe this isn't going to be the most popular answer you'll hear today, but I would just wait. Have you seen him? Is it possible that it's just someone with the same last name?

Also, for your future sanity, think about what you're going to do and say. Obviously you're a pretty sentimental person (a great trait to have), so don't do something that could:

• hurt someone - physically or emotionally
• get you in trouble
• cause his wife or kids to hate you
• something that you would regret for the rest of your life

I know you're probably hurting really bad right now, but don't do something in the name of revenge or closure. Acting in the name of either of those things will only result in you being hurt worse in the long run. Being mature about the situation might be tough, but in the long run you'll maintain your sanity.

For what it's worth, my suggestion would be to try and approach him one on one, calmly. Absolutely do not do it when his wife or kids are around, nor try to involve them...that will only come out mega bad for you.

Hope this advice helps, good luck.

Do you think the Border Patrol just does it to get them to go to an area that would keep them out of the way of actual Border Patrol operations?