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mstchecashstash38 karma

It seems my original post was deleted for not having a question, my mistake.

I've been thinking about posting this for awhile so here goes. I think this is a good thing. As someone who is going on twenty-two years old and is still a virgin I see no problem with giving people who have had few to no sexual/romantic experiences with someone. I've dated women before but the relationship has never gotten that far, most likely due issues I've been working with(Depression, anxiety, trust issues). I've now been single for four years and have worked through my issues but I've been single for so long that I have a hard time picking up signals. My virginity doesn't usually bother me, although I miss being in a relationship, it's more being a virgin is a big deal to everyone else. Most people will incessantly make fun of virgins, as if it's some big deal. My main issue is I find it hard to just have casual sex. I feel like I need to be in a close relationship with someone first. Only my closest friends know I've never had sex and we joke about it every now and then. You seem to enjoy what you do and it makes me hopeful that I'll meet someone someday and settle down. I'd just like to thank you for making being a virgin not such a bad thing. I guess my question is what advice would you give to someone in my position?

mstchecashstash8 karma

I do appreciate your advice, and you are probably right that I need to socialize more; however, I'm not too big on where most people my age socialize. Clubs and bars aren't really my thing. While I do appreciate what you're doing, I'll have to politely decline. When I do eventually lose my virginity, I want it to be with someone I care deeply for and trust. Regardless of what some people may think of the service you offer, if it genuinely helps people feel better about themselves and allows them to feel more comfortable in regards to sex I see no issue with what you're doing. In light of this, I'd like to thank you for the advice and taking the time to read that, and this, wall of text.