msaylors

I (f) used to have a really high libido until my child was born, now sex feels like a chore. No one (my doctor, for instance) seems to find this odd or an issue and blow off my concerns. How common is this, and is there a way to fix it? I would love to get my desire back.

That sounds like a lot of fun, actually! I'll talk to him about it. Thanks!

It actually makes me pretty sick, so my husband got a vasectomy since she's going to be our only child.

I thought so as well, but it's been 3 years.

I'll bring this up with him and see if he's game. Thanks!