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Zoë! Your Instagram is literally my favourite. I've been looking forward to this AMA since you posted about it because I wanted to thank you! I used to be so shit at handjobs. I would just like…avoid them entirely, and go straight for the beej. UNTIL I read an amazing article you wrote for refinery29 or possibly vice about hand jobs and tried some of the techniques you suggested on my partner to much success, so thank you for upping my HJ game!

Question time! I'm a graphic designer/web designer/don't know what to call myself, but I would like to work more with clients like yourself, sex toy shop owners, porn creators, other sex posi businesses/whatever. Basically I want to be a sex posi graphic designer (does that make sense?). What are your suggestions to join the clique, so to speak, and work with more people in the 'industry'? How did you get to where you are now - from shop owner to being able to talk about sex every day and hang out with other like minded individuals?

Less likely to have stds

I can understand that. But payed by tips/dances even on a bad night should pay more than 20/hr. That is an incredibly low amount of money for the type of job.