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longroadplease31 karma

It is not difficult and it is not expensive, it will take about 10 minutes. Set some money aside in that account... as much as you can. You can get a PO box at a post office near your university and have all your mail forwarded there, when you open your second bank account make it absolutely clear to the bank representative that no mail whatsoever is to go to your home address. If possible, get your hands on your passport and birth certificate and put them in a small safe deposit box. Your parents cant get you out of the country without a passport. If you fear for your life it is not expensive or difficult to leave a letter with a solicitor to be forwarded to the police in the event you fail to check in at a given date or are killed. You might think of getting a prepaid mobile phone and stashing it somewhere accessible in your home.

More than anything, carefully select a close friend and bring them up to speed.

longroadplease13 karma

Please, please, please, carefully choose a close friend and talk to them about all of this. No one will be upset or cross with you because you had to cover up part of your life... your family is putting you in this position, you have done nothing wrong. You have nothing to be ashamed of! please go and speak with someone you can trust.