kniteli

I found that incredibly cowardly, to be honest.

My father left me as well. I have no interest in knowing who or what he is. Meet my "maker", are you kidding me? The man deserves nothing from me, and he won't get it.

I don't think there's any cowardice in not wanting anything to do with a person like that.

I guess I don't think there are any answers to be found in a person that had little to nothing to do with building what I am now.

My response was more toward op pointing to cowardice as a reason for not finding your father. Perhaps for some, but it definitely isn't the first reason that springs to my mind.

I don't care about some petty vengeance. My point was that the man is meaningless to me. I have no memories of him; finding him would be finding a random stranger. Who cares who he is, or what he has become? The only legitimate reason for me to find him, someone already pointed out: medical records. At this point in my life it's not really pertinent.