I don't mean to be rude and I don't think she should have lied, but as a woman I'm a honestly bit confused as to how you thought a 14-year-old girl was an adult? According to my physiology textbook (and my memories from high school), most girls don't even finish puberty until age 16-17. There's a big difference between an eighth grade kid and a senior in high school. I mean, even if you take someone highly sexualized at a young age, say Miley Cyrus... there's a big difference. Google Miley Cyrus 2006 and compare to Miley Cyrus 2010. Big changes.
So, with no rudeness intended, how does a 23-year-old man meet a fourteen-year-old kid who lives with her parents and can't drive or drink alcohol or work (and who presumably has to attend school?) and not even think to himself, "Hmm. Maybe I should check her ID?" I mean, you say you were dating steadily, right? Shouldn't you have seen some rather glaring red flags?
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I don't mean to be rude and I don't think she should have lied, but as a woman I'm a honestly bit confused as to how you thought a 14-year-old girl was an adult? According to my physiology textbook (and my memories from high school), most girls don't even finish puberty until age 16-17. There's a big difference between an eighth grade kid and a senior in high school. I mean, even if you take someone highly sexualized at a young age, say Miley Cyrus... there's a big difference. Google Miley Cyrus 2006 and compare to Miley Cyrus 2010. Big changes.
So, with no rudeness intended, how does a 23-year-old man meet a fourteen-year-old kid who lives with her parents and can't drive or drink alcohol or work (and who presumably has to attend school?) and not even think to himself, "Hmm. Maybe I should check her ID?" I mean, you say you were dating steadily, right? Shouldn't you have seen some rather glaring red flags?
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